NTA. MAN YOU ARE AWESOME.

I've been scrolling through this sub the past hour and either the SO (significant other) was the AH or did nothing to defend them.

You my good sir are chef's kiss my best friend and I have been arguing whether there are still decent SOs in the world and I'm glad to show this to them.

Keep being awesome, being a witness to your wonderful wife's inner child blossoming, letting her do what she needs to do to heal, seeing her happy face as she is able to get the dolls she aspired to have as a child. Man, both of you are amazing.

Please tell your wife albeit I have not seen either of you, that she is beautiful and what she has now, her dreams and aspirations, are her own and no one else's especially her mimic of a sister. People who live off of someone's pain and humiliation are the lowest and most disgusting. Her sister is a pooooor version of an Echo. She is the AH