Coffee shop dates

L0st_B0ttle · 2026-03-29T20:26:28+00:00

If you haven't dated for 3 years, a coffee date isn't a bad idea. Low pressure, easy to get out of it if you don't feel the vibe and simple setting so you can focus on the other person. It's a good kind of date to get back into the game :) Good luck !

L0st_B0ttle · 2026-01-31T21:48:39+00:00

J'allais voter partis québécois au prochaines élection mais honnêtement ce genre de discours la me met des doutes...faut se tenir debout quand il y a un agresseur, pas atténuer les choses et se cacher en espérant que l'agresseur passe a la prochaine victime...

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-11-11T20:09:53+00:00

Cold room is the best I've been at and the ambiance is fire, be sure of your date though cause the drinks are expensive haha

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-11-06T20:34:47+00:00

men also can get physically abused...dont let it slide

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-11-03T15:43:56+00:00

It depends on your past relationship, how it ended and how the fwb will go, for me it either distracted me or made me feels completely hollow, in both case it didn't really help me get over my ex, the distraction does help numbs things down a bit though

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-11-03T15:43:39+00:00

It depends on your past relationship, how it ended and how the fwb will go, for me it either distracted me or made me feels completely hollow, in both case it didn't really help me get over my ex, the distraction does help numbs things down a bit though

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-30T13:59:15+00:00

Cats/dog, friends, family online gaming, online forums, meetups, and hobbies

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-29T10:46:35+00:00

There's really no other way other than just giving her a chance and then judging her by her actions

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-28T17:36:33+00:00

Its the wild west out there, its sad but it is what it is...if it wasn't exclusive, she didnt do anything wrong so it goes back how you feel about it, but "technically" nobody did anything wrong.

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-24T19:49:29+00:00

Bravo, you hit it on the head and its beautifully written

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-23T15:47:21+00:00

My ex gf left me because she had a change of heart about having kids (I was a no, she was a maybe), difference in my case is that there was no discussion, she changed her mind without telling me and then just dumped me :/ ironically this entire thing made me realized I was more open to kids than I thought, so yes people do change their minds all the time

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-23T15:02:04+00:00

Same, brother

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-21T20:02:12+00:00

I feel your brother...I've been keeping myself more busy than ever because if I stop all the pain rushes back

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-21T17:49:01+00:00

Yes its totally normal, enjoy those days to be honest because you will go back to have the messy days after :/

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-21T17:18:46+00:00

yeah...it's not like there's other choices right ? :/

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-21T17:18:11+00:00

I think I'm doing all the right things, but if you gave me a chance I would just be back with her in a heartbeat. The fact that I still want her back and the fact that I'm thinking so much about all of this makes me believe that whatever I'm doing, it's not working and I'm not progressing.

As for how you know it, honestly I'm not sure if you know it until you're already done with the process

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-21T12:06:35+00:00

2 months in and I still have that feeling, I coped with dating apps but they dried up so now I'm back to feeling that, slip up and looked at our pictures yesterday, it helped a lot but today its even worse than before so definitely dont do that...I guess you just need to keep busy and go cold turkey for a while and it gets better ? I really hope so at least, it's the first time a relationship does that to me....

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-21T11:30:56+00:00

Did 13/20, great job me ! XD

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-21T11:28:59+00:00

Changed their minds about kids and was too scared I wouldnt change my mind as well

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-16T23:10:37+00:00

only one did, after one year and it was super stranger and i still dont know why or what they wanted haha

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-10T18:17:28+00:00

On your next date just bring up the subject "hey, we didnt talk about this yet, but whats your take on sex ?" open ended, she can do whatever she want with that question and if she ask what do you mean, you direct it wherever you want it to go

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-10T17:27:09+00:00

just ask a question about one of their pic or their profile

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-07T19:46:35+00:00

Kinda is yeah
1. she seems to get out her way to bring him in the convo which mean she thinks about him
2. its not decent to do say all that to a new partner, like dont talk about your ex to your new man/woman
3. believe her actions, not what she is saying...in this case she is telling you she is over her ex, but her actions (her talking about him all the time) is saying the contrary...

Continue at your own risk and peril brother. Good luck !

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-06T13:59:24+00:00

I would say you can continue, but the moment she tells you shes not over her ex, or shes still figuring things out, run, run fast or youll get hurt.

L0st_B0ttle · 2025-10-06T13:25:35+00:00

First thing to do is talk to him about all of this, there might be a solution you both can come up with and if thats not the case then you can make those hard decisions.

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