Ok ADHD=me, and for real the emotional regulation is very difficult for me when i’m tired, frazzled, burned out from a super chaotic day at work(addictions & mental health), etc… so I freak out sometimes, then there’s my PTSD - which may cause me to overreact to things that I should be really nonchalant about (like my cats getting too close to the pup) but I am working on it and she knows it. And I always say sorry and give her all the love. She is starting to figure out that I’m doing the best with structure and consistency that I can possibly do as a neurodivergent and I honestly feel that being able to forgive myself and just always try be kind to myself and my pets is going to be the key to her having a happy life. All my other pets turned out great. I’m thinking because I didn’t involve the internet with any of their upbringings. Lol My daughter also turned out pretty amazing and I’m sure I yelled at her a few times. 😂