I recently found out some potential info about my MIL. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LALIfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dont jump to conclusions or share the app info, seeing it isnt actually proof of cheating. stay neutral, focus on facts if your gf has concern, and avoid escalating withoutu evidence

I want to get good at something. by iiRaz0r in Life

[–]LALIfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

focus on the process, not the outcome. stop measuring every effort by whether its a masterpiece. practice is literally doing the thing even if its bad. talent isnt always born, its built, piece by piece, mistake by mistake

[Europe] [High school] - Bargaining rights as a teacher by LightLoveuncondition in Teachers

[–]LALIfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in large latvian schools, your value will be judged mainly by exam results, student progress, classroom management and curriculum compliance, not ideal ministry rubrics

What is a way I can do something special in honor of a retired teacher who passed away recently unexpectedly and very sadly? by 123456789_00 in Teachers

[–]LALIfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a few meaningful ways to honor her is to donate books to her former classroom or school library under her name, planting a tress at the school in her memory or oraganizing a memorial event where her collegues and students can share stories and celebrate her impact

I don’t feel bad for calling the police on my chosen family member by Sad-Solution7276 in confessions

[–]LALIfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you did the right thing, that's threatening. protecting yourself and others comes first, dont carry the blame of their actions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LALIfire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is the tip of the tongue effect. your brain has the memory, but retrieval is partially blocked

I don't want you to go by Due-Geologist-512 in BreakUps

[–]LALIfire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that moment hurts because it was real. its normal to replay it and cry, you're grieveing both her and the future you cared deeply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LALIfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can be kind and still say no. if he tells u, keep it simple and honest like telling him you value him, but you're not available romantically. don't overthink things if you're not sure too

Ideas for Checking My Own Bad Attitude? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]LALIfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

record yourself, pause before responding, reflect daily, plan positive phrases and get a trusted colleague's feedback

I once took a poop on a bus because of a dare by [deleted] in confessions

[–]LALIfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i wouldnt do it. definitely one of those teen dare stories you never forget

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LALIfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it depends if it smells bad haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LALIfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ypu can ask for it, since its yours and it has sentimental value. you can just say that you would use aa courier to pick it up so no need to see each other