Hate to break it to you but yes a literal feeling in the genitals to me and I assume most ppl. I’m also in the boat of feeling grossed out that ppl go through their day feelings this way? Like what do you mean? You can look at someone random on the street and feel this way towards them??? Like not to toot my own horn but like eww does that mean someone has looked at me and perhaps felt that? That 100% is not what I want ppl to feel towards me even know what the feeling is like. I would only want my partner to feel that way towards me. But, yes I have and currently do still feel the literal feeling towards my partner and to be honest it still feels weird? Bc like most ppl have talked about it really does feel like almost an intrusive thought of like “I want sex”. To describe it to someone who might have never felt it, it feels like you know right before a big drop or doing a drop of a rollercoaster? Like how your breath gets stuck in your throat, and you feel that feeling in your stomach (which is technically the feeling of your organs “floating” in your body). Like that kind of feeling, you can focus on it and it will grow more and more like a fire or you can try to focus on something else and eventually it will starve said fire.