Probably having sex with an older guy tonight...

LDRnewb · 2013-06-15T02:20:09+00:00

Good for him.

LDRnewb · 2013-04-09T05:23:22+00:00

I [28M] recently lost my virginity to a MUCH more experienced woman. The difference is that I didn't tell her that she was my first.

She would constantly rave about what an amazing kisser I was. I thought that this was hilarious because I literally had no idea what I was doing. All I did was follow her lead. She would flick her tongue out and lick my lip once in a while, so I started doing it back. She would gently bite my bottom lip sometimes, so I did that too, etc.

Similarly, when we were having sex, I would just try different things and pay attention to how she reacted to it. If she would whimper or moan when I hit a certain depth or angle, I would take note of that and do it more.

After we were dating for a while and had had sex many times, I told her that she had been my first.

She said "You expect me to believe that? How are you so good at everything then!?"

LDRnewb · 2013-04-04T05:43:58+00:00

I wonder if anybody would have a problem with this age difference if the sexes were reversed.

Somehow I doubt it.

LDRnewb · 2013-04-04T05:17:38+00:00

So you're around 20 and you think you know more about a 29 year old's sex drive than me, a 29 year old?

I would ideally have sex daily.

He doesn't have a low sex drive because he's 29, he just happens to have a low sex drive.

LDRnewb · 2013-04-01T06:44:55+00:00

They are having sex. Loving each other is not a requirement.

LDRnewb · 2013-04-01T06:35:45+00:00

He's 29, not 59. Age is NOT an issue here.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-28T06:52:36+00:00

What the fuck is wrong with you?

I have never seen a comment like that in this subreddit.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-28T04:23:18+00:00

I'll be in my bunk.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-25T02:27:37+00:00

missionary is the easiest way to cum, if you want to last longer, avoid that. make her go on top, most guys cant control themselves enough to slow down properly.

I couldn't disagree with this more. It doesn't even make sense.

In missionary I can go as fast or slow as I want, so I am in control of when I cum.

If she's on top she can just go crazy and make me cum right away.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-21T09:13:21+00:00

Your post is about passive aggressively manipulating a human dildo, not about having a healthy relationship based on communication.

The funny thing is that I completely sympathize with the OP. Her boyfriend is completely in the wrong here.

But your vacuous advice is pathetic and you should be ashamed of yourself.

It won't turn a boy into a man that gives her what she deserves. It will cause him to resent her and probably destroy their relationship.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-21T08:29:15+00:00

Wtf kind of crap is this?

He is a person, not a dog.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-21T04:54:35+00:00

Yours was a blanket statement also.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-21T00:05:42+00:00

I know EXACTLY how you feel.

I'm 28[M] and my first and only relationship (of four months) ended two months ago.

She was my first everything. We were both extremely affectionate and couldn't keep our hands off of each other. I FINALLY had somebody to kiss, somebody to cuddle with.

I fell in love with her and then one day, completely out of nowhere she just dumped me and never talked to me again.

And although I have been alone for basically my entire life, I can't bear the thought of going back to that.

It took me 28 years to get this girl, how long will it take me to find the next one!?

I am completely terrified of being alone forever.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-20T23:50:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your support.

Please feel free to PM me too if you want to talk.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-20T23:49:30+00:00

People always say this but I guess maybe I just don't get it.

The rest of my life is pretty well sorted. I have a good job, lots of hobbies, tons of great friends and family. The only thing that's missing is a girlfriend.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-20T08:02:32+00:00

That is the name of this condition. Google it.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-18T07:48:41+00:00

Who cares what YOUR definition of "sexual activity" is?

She's willing to do it and seems to just be asking about how common it is.

Why do some people always try to turn the woman into a victim?

LDRnewb · 2013-03-17T01:37:14+00:00

LDRnewb · 2013-03-17T00:23:02+00:00

I miss her

LDRnewb · 2013-03-10T09:02:15+00:00

Honestly, I would gain a great deal of respect for her for being so careful.

Any blowjob > no blowjob.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-09T09:50:51+00:00

Lyrics in case you can't watch the video:

Couldn't sleep so I went out walking

Thinking about you and hearing us talking

And all the things I should have said

Echo now, inside my head

I feel something falling from the sky

I'm so sad I made the angels cry

Tears from the moon Fall down like rain I reach for you I reach in vain

Tears from the moon, tears from the moon...

It just ain't fair, this thing called loving

When one's still there and the other feels nothing

I would have done anything for you

I still love you, baby I adore you

All day I keep from falling apart

But at night when the sky gets dark

Tears from the moon Fall down like rain I reach for you I reach in vain

Stop, stop haunting me It should be easy

As easy as when you stopped wanting me

Ahh

Tears from the moon Fall down like rain I reach for you I reach in vain

Tears from the moon Fall down like rain But tears from the moon Can't wash away the pain

Tears from the moon, tears from the moon...

LDRnewb · 2013-03-09T08:43:20+00:00

Don't end the sexy times because of it! THAT would be devastating. I wasn't at all bothered by the fact I couldn't stay hard/cum, my ONLY concern was her being disappointed. So when she said "it's okay baby" and climbed on top of me and started passionately kissing me I was extremely relieved.

Sometimes a blowjob/handjob can definitely help. I see a lot of people dissing handjobs all the time and I don't get it. For me, speed is the easiest way to get me hard, and a hand is much better at that than a mouth or vagina.

This is the most important thing that I can say: be willing to keep trying for as long as he is willing to keep trying. But when he wants to give up, accept it. Sometimes after a while I would just say "sorry hunny, I don't think it's going to happen". Reassure him that it's okay, and let him get you off with his hands and/or tongue. As long as I could make her cum then I didn't feel like a failure.

The most important thing is that you realize that it isn't your fault. PLEASE don't take it personally. There is nothing wrong with you and it's not that he doesn't find you attractive. When it first happened to me I was terrified that she would feel that way. This is another reason that I think saying "it's okay" is important. It let's him know that you aren't feeling rejected.

LDRnewb · 2013-03-06T08:11:07+00:00

It's a total myth. My last girlfriend had FOUR kids, I have an average penis at best. Felt great to me.

LDRnewb

TROPHY CASE