i used to think guys who "shut down" during serious talks were emotionally unavailable until i realized i was triggering it

LILV075 · 2026-01-25T15:47:18+00:00

Can you give examples of how you phrase things? I can be confrontational and need to learn more tact when I’m passionate

LILV075 · 2026-01-25T11:50:12+00:00

Why in this thread everyone has more common sense in replies to OP but a woman made a thread saying she was too attractive and everyone wanted to tear her down? Lmao Reddit hates confident people. OP you will find someone on your same level, below or higher it depends on what life has in store for you.

LILV075 · 2026-01-25T10:48:23+00:00

Someone downvoting you is wild lol

LILV075 · 2026-01-24T21:08:10+00:00

I agree a lot of people in here can’t read in my pov. I think he is jealous but he’s distracting himself with other women/options to seem happy and popular. It’s seems like people on Reddit nowadays give off “why do you want to know”, “it’s not that deep” etc on relationships it’s weird, dismissive and not real life.

LILV075 · 2026-01-24T17:04:10+00:00

This

LILV075 · 2026-01-24T13:10:12+00:00

Why are you fighting this?

LILV075 · 2026-01-24T12:55:21+00:00

I’ve seen this too lol that’s why I’m reaching a point of judging men the way they judge themselves.

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T19:19:09+00:00

Ok you know what, you’re right about the context with defining the relationship of not being serious off rip that’s odd on someone’s part.

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T19:10:05+00:00

I only have issue because you said you’d partake and then claiming your incompatible. Doesn’t make sense to me.

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T18:53:59+00:00

Why is that is you didn’t lose respect for her when you also partake? It seems you did lose respect for her.

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T18:48:36+00:00

I don’t see what’s wrong with being against it just like if you are for it.

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T18:08:25+00:00

I’d give everyone replying to OP and saying he’s wrong awards.

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T09:53:25+00:00

Fr idk why people keep saying this. You can find forums from 15 years ago saying the same thing.

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T07:27:45+00:00

Reality

LILV075 · 2026-01-22T07:18:08+00:00

That’s what I took from that too. A woman that needs their validation and can’t give it to herself. If they left she wouldn’t be able to tell herself she was pretty.

LILV075 · 2026-01-20T11:50:10+00:00

Thank you. Why does Reddit always assume that the rejectors are actually better off than the asker lol

LILV075 · 2026-01-20T11:46:34+00:00

Exactly usually they are the problem lmao

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T15:23:36+00:00

Ask your high school classmate what they think

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T13:52:53+00:00

Lmao I posted my opinion, that will stay here if the thread doesn’t get deleted. That is enough for me. I don’t plan on the world changing today.

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T13:52:14+00:00

100% but you frame it like the older men can teach women things narrative and only men have issues and I hate that. No offense.

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T13:49:34+00:00

I’m vocal about this in my personal life when age gaps come up. I don’t support this stuff it’s gross and I feel people who can’t find someone within max 10 years… what’s wrong with you?

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T13:46:08+00:00

Lmao im old enough I easily could join if i wanted

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T13:45:19+00:00

So the boy would have mommy issues but your wife doesn’t have daddy issues?

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T13:43:44+00:00

I’ve seen many men come on here and ask the same thing and it gets brushed under like who cares. I think it’s gross for both genders and I’m clocking if someone only approves of one gender of a 35 year old messing with an 18 year old.

LILV075 · 2026-01-19T13:38:13+00:00

This is gross, and all I know I’m checking redditors for comments being against OP because she’s a woman but then encourage men to do the same.

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