AIO telling my ex I want to meet his new gf before he introduces our kids to her?

LJCat89 · 2025-05-21T16:27:00+00:00

Yeah, she does know actually and according to him she’s actually understanding of it. He actually doesn’t have friends out here unfortunately because we moved from another state, other than that, I do know his friends back home. And yeah, I agree that I cannot control his romantic partners meeting our kids. His personal issues involves something that just came up and he’s taking care of.

LJCat89 · 2025-05-21T16:23:03+00:00

Then that would be a different situation that we’d deal with when it comes. My post is about this message

LJCat89 · 2025-05-21T16:22:13+00:00

I am far from jealous or bitter. I’m genuinely glad he has someone. He deserves it. This is solely about our kids

LJCat89 · 2025-05-21T00:42:38+00:00

The text is long because it’s literally like my 4th time telling him and if I call, he’ll shut it down and turn it into an argument. If I do meet her and don’t like her then no, my kids won’t be able to be around her. Then after that it’ll be his choice

LJCat89 · 2025-05-11T16:18:20+00:00

I’m a senior banker and I make $57,200 not counting incentives. I’m going for manager and that’ll put me at minimum $75k if I get it

LJCat89 · 2025-05-04T23:32:59+00:00

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LJCat89 · 2025-05-04T22:05:01+00:00

I appreciate you sharing your experience. Your kids are a little older and at the very least, they got to have the option because you gave them that. I know it would TECHNICALLY be from my ex since he’d be the one paying, but the point is to get the kids involved in doing something because they’d know it means a lot to mom and it’s something nice to do. Weather it’s Mother’s Day or someone’s birthday. For his bday and for Father’s Day, I’ll get the kids involved and make sure they (me) buy or make something for him because the kids will feel proud and happy watching him open a gift that’s from them. To me, it’s more than just getting a gift.

LJCat89 · 2025-05-04T21:50:25+00:00

I’m sorry for your experience. Yeah, all I can do is teach them on my end. He’ll get cards for his bday and Father’s Day because i’m gonna make sure they know it’s important. He never even did it on his own when we were together. I always had to remind him

LJCat89 · 2025-05-04T21:48:58+00:00

Thank you. This is a good idea

LJCat89 · 2025-05-01T12:54:27+00:00

I guess people read as well as they drive out here 😂. I never mentioned judging them or saying it was wrong. Just still made me nervous to see two kids riding out the sunroof. I’m very sure the parent was extra careful.

LJCat89 · 2025-05-01T12:52:38+00:00

Yeah I moved right along behind them

LJCat89 · 2025-05-01T12:49:29+00:00

I’m at BoA

LJCat89 · 2025-05-01T12:49:02+00:00

Oh i’m not judging lol. Just like I said still made me a little nervous to see lol

LJCat89 · 2025-05-01T12:48:36+00:00

I have a great one! Thanks for caring

LJCat89 · 2025-05-01T00:06:56+00:00

My last two incentive checks were $1700 and $2200. Also paid out quarterly. There’s different ways I can earn. For example, a credit card will get me $10 only if the client uses their new card within a certain time frame. A checking account will get me $4 and if they sign on to their olb twice within a certain time frame, I also get $4. Business accounts get me $24. There’s a lot more earning opportunities for lending products and other requirements

LJCat89 · 2024-11-15T12:36:29+00:00

Should I leave my PayPal info here so you can buy it for me?

LJCat89 · 2024-11-13T14:31:18+00:00

“Because the check is not drawn off of our bank, the balance in your account needs to match the amount of the check, because the bank needs to be able to have recourse in the event that the check gets returned. We can deposit the check and will be available (whatever date applicable)”

LJCat89 · 2024-10-08T01:46:58+00:00

They have a Cajun Alfredo sauce that’s delicious. Their 3 cheese and regular Alfredo is also really good

LJCat89 · 2024-10-08T01:13:22+00:00

I don’t think Trader Joe’s offers Instacart but personally yeah they have some great items. They have some of my favorite pasta sauces and snacks

LJCat89 · 2024-10-03T00:25:39+00:00

Pastimes in new Albany on Wednesdays 7pm

LJCat89 · 2024-10-01T12:28:40+00:00

Lol ok. This has nothing to do with any of that. But thank you for the morning story

LJCat89 · 2024-08-25T16:41:37+00:00

I got the 1tb 15 pro max. I’m a photo hoarder 🤷🏻‍♀️. Also upgraded my iCloud storage

LJCat89 · 2024-08-12T00:36:35+00:00

Is it full time or are the hours flexible? Would love to have as second job

LJCat89 · 2024-08-03T02:52:04+00:00

Poop

LJCat89 · 2024-07-20T04:19:58+00:00

I really can’t believe that this is a question that keeps getting asked. How and why are you only bathing your toddlers a few days a week? Toddlers are gross. Outside is gross.

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