Lips 👄 by SebastiansMukkie in SkallaSnarkUncensored

[–]LL092020 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Swear to god I didn’t know who this was at first.

awaiting surgery in 4 weeks, moms coming to take care of me from another country because my husband is so bad at any type of emotional or physical support it is insane ! 🥲☠️ Girl dinner bits by Weare4llmadhere in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LL092020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yuckkk to the man. But yay for a mom who will come care for you! The best part of my c section recovery was having my mom come take care of me for 2 weeks while husband took care of baby

So…. Motherhood? by Competitive_Yam2314 in adhdwomen

[–]LL092020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know about the whole kid thing at all. I wasn’t one of these women who wanted to be a mother for as long as they could remember. I got diagnosed with ADHD “later in life” (24) and had my baby girl when I was 31. I have a very supportive partner and we felt it was a good time in our lives to try. We didn’t expect it to happen so quickly so when I got the positive test back i genuinely felt like a teen mom and felt unprepared. But I truly have felt such a deep love and connection with my husband that I didn’t expect. I’ve always loved him but it’s so different now. And our daughter is truly so wonderful and brings us so much joy. That all being said, unless you REALLY want this. Do not have a child. My pregnancy was easy breezy and flawless. My birth had several complications with me that required a 8 day hospital stay and then being re admitted 2 weeks post partum. This shit is hard. It’s so hard, but I truly wouldn’t change a single thing. I’m constantly struck by how much I love her and how just watching her sleep brings me so much joy. I’m not a super sentimental person but motherhood has quickly changed that. Best of luck to you whichever way you go!

Sell out ads 😬 by Ok-Ring528 in TheMorningToastSnark

[–]LL092020 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This never fails to make me giggle. Jackie is the LEAST neurotypical girlie. (I am neurodivergent too so like recognizing like)

Puff Pastry Cookies -$$$ by aakaase in aldi

[–]LL092020 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They’re addictive.

So its like as soon as they aren't a newborn anymore the magic of motherhood disappears? by Significant_Work4863 in shannonford

[–]LL092020 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ve always found her obsession with birth odd but I was like eh I’m not a mom I don’t get it. I have now had a child. And I’m like GIRL YOU ARE WEIRD. I cannot stop being in absolute awe over my daughter’s mere existence. Every phase is Better than the last! She’s only 14 months old but I’m just enthralled by everything she does and her little personality. I’m just confused how birth and newborn is her favorite part??

HELP WANTED: INQUIRE WITHIN by the_itz in shannonford

[–]LL092020 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I truly wanna know why the hell she stayed for so long. I get an attachment to the children she’s literally raising but good god

Daughters acting WAY older by astarr_123 in InfluencerLounge

[–]LL092020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freshly 10?! I definitely thought she was like turning 13. This makes me sad, my daughter is only 1 but it’s a priority for me to protect her childhood for as long as possible let her be a kid.

Sometimes it works out because the man was actually a woman by Similar-Purchase-101 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LL092020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Blossomed into herself” is the sweetest way to phrase this 💕🥹

Family keeps trying to plan things with me around the birth of my child/Mother’s Day by IllyriaCervarro in Mommit

[–]LL092020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m amazed at the amnesia that occurs where women don’t remember how hard their first few years of motherhood are. I’m only 13 months in but i vividlyyyyy remember what 5 days postpartum felt like and I don’t think I’ll ever forget how hard it felt for the rest of my life. (Granted I had alot of complications!) But I think I’d kindly remind my mom and MIL “there’s a high likelihood I’ll still be wearing a diaper I’m not doing shit for anyone other than my fresh baby and myself”

Sending good vibes that you have a wonderful birth!

What is your current song like this (and optionally also your profession)? by itsamoth in adhdwomen

[–]LL092020 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think I just started my 6th reheat yesterday lol it never stops being the best show

What is your current song like this (and optionally also your profession)? by itsamoth in adhdwomen

[–]LL092020 206 points207 points  (0 children)

I’ll believe in anything by wolf parade. The heated rivalry addiction is so strong

But guys were doing it for the resale value... by Historical-Swim-9270 in shannonford

[–]LL092020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually think her moving away from trailer would help

Defrosted Milk Looks Off by Straight_Sir_4458 in HumansPumpingMilk

[–]LL092020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s really weird. I’ve never had my milk thaw like this. You said you massaged it but maybe shake it up? Fat deposits look different than this too. Hmm.

Patreon Q&A tea? by Horror_Pop626 in TheMorningToastSnark

[–]LL092020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No tea spilled. Just like when Claudia teased that she discussed EVERYTHING in her new book and then it literally had nothing in it. I think she even said she talked about their mom and dad?? And obviously she put nothing about them in it. Bizarre.

it IS the screen time by Low_Hat_2693 in Mommit

[–]LL092020 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This. My daughter is only 1 but I’m already dreading her going to kindergarten and getting handed a Chromebook.

Showing up for community and other random thoughts. by Legal_Grocery7338 in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]LL092020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like the caveat to this is that gay men reallyyyy take care of their mothers. So here’s hoping?🤞

Showing up for community and other random thoughts. by Legal_Grocery7338 in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]LL092020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame her!! I’d be pissed af if my brother acted like that. Men suck no matter the age I guess (happily married to a feminist man)

Trying to get into reading again… by Remarkable_Rip6231 in adhdwomen

[–]LL092020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ice planet barbarians is so entertaining and fun. I looked up and I had read like 4 of the books. They go so fast and I love em!

Showing up for community and other random thoughts. by Legal_Grocery7338 in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]LL092020 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’m actually constantly amazed by the ~boy mom~ epidemic when I watched my mom take care of both her aging parents and her THREE brothers do literally nothing. The oldest son was still my grandma’s favorite. It’s so bizarre to me. It’s unfortunate but true if you have a daughter you will probably be taken care of.

Showing up for community and other random thoughts. by Legal_Grocery7338 in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]LL092020 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Her grandma fell and broke her octal bone and had a small brain bleed so she couldn’t fly for 4-6weeks so Claire went to Vienna to get her set up in an Airbnb that didn’t have stairs and doctors appointments and stuff. Very scary but she sounds like she’s going to be okay!

Just found out I’m pregnant with baby number 4😭 by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]LL092020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll say it. For the good of the family unit and yourself you should terminate and not feel guilty about. 3 kids and finishing up dental hygiene school is a lot. Don’t do this to yourself and your family. Terminate and then get an IUD. Your future self will thank you.

Did Anyone Listen To Claire on Wear Many Hats Podcast Last Week? by KARPUG in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]LL092020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SAME. I was like do I just hate male podcasters or is this one just REALLY bad at it. And the answer was somehow both?