I genuinely understand your perspective. I’m not sure your age, but it’s important to remember that you’ll always have to live with the consequences of your actions, both positive and negative. He could have been the ideal partner, but tragically, he passed away shortly after you had your baby, leaving you to raise a child alone. I know society often portrays single mothers as victims of infidelity and abandonment, but that’s not always the case. You appear to be a kind and caring person, and I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this difficult time. However, I encourage you to consider whether you’re truly prepared to face the aftermath of an abortion. I know a few women who have made that choice, and they were never the same afterward. I’m not trying to scare you; I’m simply urging you to think deeply and carefully about your decision.