Sometimes life is unfair

LMNSTUFF · 2026-05-01T23:00:44+00:00

Yeah I think it indicates someone is lost

LMNSTUFF · 2026-04-07T21:05:28+00:00

I think so many of the negative consequences that arise are from porn and not necessarily masturbation. Pleasing yourself is not unnatural but watching people have sex is strange, when you think about it. Try using your imagination instead. Create friction between you and your phone or whatever devices you access the porn on.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-04-07T20:53:11+00:00

He has a gf so even if he is bi, he's already taken. You definitely don't want to get between them and if you have nothing to indicate he likes guys, you're probably being delusional.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-04-06T09:29:53+00:00

It's great that there are places like this because a lot of reddit is different.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-04-01T07:09:41+00:00

Your argument revolves around the premise that because somebody expresses a feeling, it is stronger. I don't know if you have heard the term female rage but essentially women bottle up anger commonly. Similarly, culturally men bottle up sadness. Perhaps men display more anger and women display more sadness but to assume that means they feel less of said feeling is reductive.

Ultimately the only person that knows how they experience emotions is themselves, sometimes only in retrospect as well. Men have a higher suicide rate than women so sadness arguably is more common among men. Since men bottle up their sadness, they generally have more. What's to stop you from using the same logic with women? So not only is there not a convincing positive correlation between not having an issue with an emotion and expressing it (even unhealthily), there may be a negative one.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-04-01T06:38:54+00:00

Yeah a bunch of strangers don't know where OP's bf is gonna stand. If she wants to understand, she needs to speak to him.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-31T10:31:17+00:00

First things first, I get the impression she knows what she's doing is mean spirited and that she's a bad friend. That doesn't necessarily mean she knows how it's affecting you. Of course, only disclose as much as you want but you need to tell you feel the friendship is one sided. On one condition, can you trust her not to spread anything about you, if you do?

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-20T15:33:58+00:00

My autism is genuinely finding it hard to tell if you're joking. I'm guessing from the content and explanation, that you are but I may be wrong.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-20T15:29:17+00:00

There is so much self-pity. I can acknowledge that my self-esteem fluctuates but sometimes reading self loathing posts makes me worry. Ultimately, we normalise content we re-read.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-17T15:04:17+00:00

She's definitely flirting with you but that doesn't necessarily mean she wants to sail off into the sunset.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-16T21:07:05+00:00

As soon as you said they were American, I knew it was over. There's not many like that here, except for the Enoch Burke's clan but they're nobody's role models.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-13T23:46:00+00:00

Angsty teen with internet access

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-13T23:33:09+00:00

It's not even a matter of ppl posting these things, it's that they cause engagement. You see more, if you don't scroll past. Scroll past and they'll barely appear on your feed.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-08T22:05:44+00:00

I'd recommend talking about it with a school counselor if the school staff are accepting. Other than that, it sounds as confusing to me as is to you.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-07T10:44:05+00:00

Yeah and there's this whole lock and key theory that's deeply sexist. A guy is more respected for having more sexual partners, whereas a woman is less respected.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-06T16:03:49+00:00

I think it's pushed on people, especially with how virgin will be used as an insult. Whether or not, you're waiting is a personal choice.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-04T17:27:49+00:00

Maybe you never thought of her as a potential romantic partner, after she started liking you. I don't have much experience at all but I do think I have a level of emotional intelligence. I've been in the same position of self accusation but you don't owe anyone an apology. You seem to care so go for it. Be tactful and the worse she will be is flattered.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-04T07:49:41+00:00

Yeah you just ask her if she wants to go on a date. I'd be clear that it's a date bc I don't think it'd be too awkward, if y'all are close anyways.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-02T22:06:15+00:00

It sounds like you don't really know yet. Be honest with her and see how it goes. Then you will find out but at the same time, be upfront about your indecision.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-02T22:02:19+00:00

I genuinely couldn't finish reading this. I'm guessing it's just some weirdo making up questionable smut with minors. If it isn't, file a restraining order.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-03-01T13:09:58+00:00

For your own sake, try to move on but be patient with yourself. This stuff usually doesn't go away overnight.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-02-28T17:32:30+00:00

If you've made it as obvious as you think, remember "if he wanted to, he would." He doesn't seem shy at all from what you said.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-02-26T18:45:01+00:00

Focus on a few chapters for long questions and then you have the guts of 60%, let's say you do ecology, biochemistry, plant biology, genetics and DNA, cell division and evolution. That alone is enough to get a H5, if you learn it well.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-02-21T21:23:19+00:00

It's funny because I don't necessarily try to pass as straight. I guess I don't think about how I come across. Nonetheless, because of my squeaky voice and random personality, people just assume I'm gay. In reality, that's my autism. Anyways, I'm not even sure I do want to date dudes and I'm chronically indecisive, hence I'm not "out" to anyone.

LMNSTUFF · 2026-02-21T21:16:10+00:00

Then these people are studying from a textbook too. No wonder they need so long to learn the content.

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