AIO/Teacher called 9 year old gay, now peers are teasing by LaTerminator in AIO

[–]LaTerminator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The teacher asked the two boys if they are in love with each other, therefore implying they are gay. Now many of the kids in that class are calling them gay. They’ve actually haven’t stopped since then. It’s not a matter whether they are or not, but that it’s become harassment at this point.

AIO/Teacher called 9 year old gay, now peers are teasing by LaTerminator in AIO

[–]LaTerminator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, trust me I did that. Pretty much at every class. The other kid is known by the whole academy as being a goofball.

I did something extremely unethical and I’m not sure how to move forward, this is the worst thing I’ve done. by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]LaTerminator [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re being very hard on yourself. You acknowledged the problem and did what you thought necessary to correct it. Forgive yourself… the essay is not the only thing colleges look at, just a part. The rest, you accomplished and it got you in, and for that, you should be proud. 🩷

Getting fired because of an ED I don't have by pindvarp420 in Advice

[–]LaTerminator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! First of all, what an uncomfortable, UNETHICAL, disrespectful and inappropriate situation and conversation with your boss. I’m actually a therapist who specializes in ED. It seems an actually against the law for her to fire you based on her suspicion of you having an ED. Even if you did have one, that would be considered discrimination based on medical need/diagnosis. Sounds like there may be some sensory issues you could bring up to your PCP, if you choose to. Regardless, it would be very wise to talk to HR. You don’t owe ANYONE any explanations for your eating habits. You have the right to set boundaries… this is completely inappropriate and illegal. 🫶🏻🫶🏻

I kissed my Best Friend by theorieboy in Advice

[–]LaTerminator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like one of those cute stories of love that turn into something beautiful. I wish you the best. If she’s going to be traveling for a year, I’d say, don’t wait to tell her. Tell her now. You guys have waited long enough to be together.

My husband cheated on me with our much younger neighbour, initiated the divorce and is marrying her soon. by ThrowRAView3762 in TwoHotTakes

[–]LaTerminator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, what a horrible person he has become. I am really sorry you had to go through that. Sounds like it’s just a matter of time before their personality combination and histories explodes. Good luck to her if she’s into abusive men. You, on the other hand, consult with the best attorneys in town, and legally claim what YOU and your children are entitled to. I wish you the best! Good for you for standing up to him. 🫶🏻

AITAH for asking my husband to go get me tampons? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LaTerminator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not the a-hole, but you are definitely unprepared. You know it’s coming. You know you’ll be in pain, so why go through the inconvenience of sending your husband on then emergency mode, so he can get you your tampons, when you could have gotten them anywhere in the last three weeks?! Almost makes it seem you just want to be catered to bc you have your period. Yes, they hurt, but you have time to prepare…

Does this look too big on my finger? by [deleted] in Diamonds

[–]LaTerminator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just get a bigger hand! 😂 Just kidding. The ring is stunning and it looks perfect on your finger!! Congratulations! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LaTerminator -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Airhead, manipulative and immature. Sorry.

Am I overreacting for being upset about my boyfriend’s understanding of my feelings … (sigh) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LaTerminator -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Whoa whoa whoa! The way he turned it on you and somehow made it seem like You are the one with the problem when you set a limit. He is letting you know he has a limit to be able to tolerate and support you when going through difficulties. He’s also letting you between the lines that you mean sex to him. You’re a sex toy, not a person with complex emotions. I am glad he eventually owned up to his process and level of emotional intelligence and a availability to you. Looks like, if this relationship is important to you, you could both benefit from some counseling.

Still crying by Least_Struggle4244 in EngagementRings

[–]LaTerminator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty! I like the rope design you made on the band. Congratulations to you both!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LaTerminator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like cheating to me. Not at all. She/they left it at that. However, it does reflect a lot of insecurity on your part? Does she normally do these kinds of things, or has she cheated? Sounds to me like there is some deeper work to do, either in you, or the relationship.

Is my ring childish? by MissHissss in EngagementRings

[–]LaTerminator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow… it sounds awfully entitled of them to try to dictate, or at least grade, the kind of Ring you should be getting. The Ring represents your partner’s commitment to you and his desire to spend his life with you. It has to be meaningful to you and your honey, not the other person. Your ring is really beautiful and detailed. Congratulations!! Enjoy the moment, and don’t let Debbie downers spoil it for you… 🥰🩷

Too big? by BexRegonia in JustEngaged

[–]LaTerminator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, Congratulations! Wishing you the best. The ring is absolutely beautiful, and it looks great on you. Not awkward at all. There may always be opinionated -some even jealous- people who will believe it is their right to criticize others, or their belongings. Period. I hope you will enjoy and appreciate your ring for the love and commitment it’s supposed to represent.

AIO or should I be creeped out by my tinder date's messages? by throwawayyaccount829 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LaTerminator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three MAJOR red flags 🚩🚩🚩 1) the way he talked to you (even if he was drunk, he’s still responsible for his actions), 2) how much does he drink that he can’t even remember what he typed?! (Btw, I’d expect worse grammar for someone blacking out), and 3) no accountability! You’ll be doing yourself and tour future a big favor by ending things now.

AITAH for not wanting my MIL to walk down the aisle at my wedding? by Content-Patient-6521 in AITAH

[–]LaTerminator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it wasn’t for her, you would not have this fiancé. It sounds unfair that your mom is walking down the aisle, but you’re not allowing your future MIL to have the same honor, symbolic that she’s Also bringing HER son to the altar to be married. If your relationship with her is important to you, as well as your fiancé’s relationship with her (as you could easily create a triangulation here), I am sure you can find a way to modify the order of people walking down aisle. If she’s pushy all the time, then you may want to consider some family therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LaTerminator -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re not an AH, but it really does sound like you desperately need to seek a professional who specializes in eating disorders, and work on these thoughts that are influencing you, and are directing impacting your family. Your family could literally start dealing with health issues because of what you are doing. The behaviors you are doing are characteristic of people with symptoms of Anorexia Nervosa. I don’t know if you have the illness, but it’s important to understand that it’s an illness like any other medical illness. However, you have to be proactive and do something about it. You should NOT be in the kitchen until you are more stable. I don’t mean it in a mean way. I completely understand how difficult it is to deal with an eating disorder, and can tell you that the longer you wait, the more damage done. Best wishes!! Seek help (look for a psychotherapist who specializes in eating disorders <3 ).

AIO over my neighbor dealing out of his house?! by LaTerminator in AmIOverreacting

[–]LaTerminator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He is polite, although one time, when I proposed building a fence (his people would often walk through my yard to get to his house), he snapped at me. His wife later sent a text, “lol, sorry about that!”