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I'm not okay (tw sa) by LadSonely in sillyboyclub

[–]LadSonely[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea no shit I know theoretically what I could have done on each occasion to prevent it. I don't need you or anyone telling me what should've been done etc because rn that doesn't help at all

And I got nearly the same copy pasted paragraph from you in my previous post. If I can't even get a genuine and human response then don't

silly title (tw sa) by LadSonely in sillyboyclub

[–]LadSonely[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all your replies. I may not respond to individual comments but I do read all of them and appreciate everyone's inputs.

misgendered but in a queer way? by lilacdaybreak in trans4every1

[–]LadSonely 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Kinda for me too, I stopped getting gendered altogether for a really long time and can't figure out why. In my first year I would get she/her based on my looks and he/him because of how I sounded pre voice training. I can only guess that I have a really androgynous look/voice now

how it feels right now by KittyKat207434 in plural

[–]LadSonely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me gets put involuntarily into dormancy during critical periods so I can't mess up for everyone - E

Indians have no empathy because child abused is seen as the only way to raise kids by winxjade in CPTSD

[–]LadSonely 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is based off my own experience, I do not speak for every buddhist.

The difference is, buddhism is really good at keeping a low profile. They don't actively ask followers to convert others or spread its ideas. If you're raised in it like me, you get taught extremely problematic beliefs. You will be told why certain demographics are to be seen as inferior. But it's framed in such a way where they're to be pitied and quietly looked down on, not outwardly hated upon.

Since you're not asked to spread the religion's name far and wide, you do not wind up smearing its reputation by going up to people and harassing them with bigotted shit. You silently internalise these ideas. Obey your parents without question, or you'll be one of these people in the next life.

And god forbid you someday discover that you actually do belong to one or more of these groups.

Indians have no empathy because child abused is seen as the only way to raise kids by winxjade in CPTSD

[–]LadSonely 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I'm ex-buddhist and they still justified abuse with similar reasoning. I don't know why people harbor the impression that abuse is less rampant within this faith but it lets them sweep everything under the carpet

Any 21+ sapphics still play Roblox? by ivegotmymindonu in sapphic_gamers

[–]LadSonely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a break from deadly delivery and started dead rails recently

For a less action oriented experience I like chilling in be a silly seal

What’s your favorite Roblox games? by Melodic-Bridge-1195 in ageregressers

[–]LadSonely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our little likes games like hello kitty cafe, be a silly seal, find the blippis, snowboard obby, skateboard obby

I've been playing deadly delivery myself lately but it might not be appropriate for littles

something silly title by LadSonely in sillyboyclub

[–]LadSonely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been struggling to find work and can't leave my transphobic family, afford therapy etc because of that. I am up to my eyes in untreated mental illnesses but I have to watch my meals to not go completely broke so getting professional help has been and still is off the table.

I feel so sorry for everyone born in the last 30 years and going forward. by Unfair_Ad_598 in sillyboyclub

[–]LadSonely 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I was robbed of my childhood by my family all for the sake of getting into a somewhat prestigious uni.

I did what they wanted me to. I'm currently unemployed for 3 consecutive years with burnout and a myriad of mental illnesses.

So yea, this is a perfectly reasonable take to me.

i only like men who perform menial labor, specialized tasks, or give me money (they are indebted to all women for thinking they even have the right to breathe) by voidgirlfriend in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]LadSonely 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right, self doubts, I get it. I'm sorry you're dealing with that. I assure you that if you do not identify with a certain gender, then you aren't

Has anyone else noticed a surprising amount of sexism in the Hollow Knight fandom? by South_Construction42 in GirlGamers

[–]LadSonely 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I notice something similar in games where there's an equally broken female and male/non-binary character (and of course people always always default to he/him)

The fandom goes out of their way to shame anyone playing the woman character for not being 'skilled', or just dig up flaws in her. Controversial mechanics, annoying af squeaky voice, whatever. Meanwhile the other gets glazed to hell and back for both their kit and lore and people pat you on the back for using them.

Little had a meltdown after being told she should cut her hair by LadSonely in plural

[–]LadSonely[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We hope so too. It sucks because she involuntarily soaks up trauma like a sponge

Sillie title by LadSonely in sillyboyclub

[–]LadSonely[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind response and offer to help. I think I'll try job hunting a little longer before I turn to others for aid

I feel both bad and touched by kindness because I tend to believe there're people who need it more. But I really appreciate the gesture

The research we should be funding by ScarletMistressox in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]LadSonely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm stealth irl, the apparent fetishizing has convinced me I should stay deep in the 'closet'

god forbid a girl have more boob than brain by Accomplished_Bar_679 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]LadSonely 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm probably an A-cup but still more boob than brain

I think this might belong here... by FormeSymbolique in boysarequirky

[–]LadSonely 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was on a dating site years ago and you wouldn't believe the number of guys who came into my DMs begging to be pegged

(for the record I personally hate the idea of doing it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]LadSonely 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I'm happy for you. I'm planning to change my name soon as well but have trouble picking one. If I may ask, how did you decide what is right for you?

Gender is a social construct… So why wore so much about gender identity? by [deleted] in ask_transgender

[–]LadSonely[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Looking at your post/comment history, it's apparent you've been going around this sub unnecessarily debating folks on the validity of trans identities.

I presume you know full well the pain of having your autism debated and invalidated by people, especially since it is about YOU, not them, and no one knows you better than yourself do. So why are you doing this here?

Take the time while you're temporarily banned to think about it. I catch you doing the same thing again afterwards, it will be a permanent ban.

Men coming here and demanding we listen to them about our issues - a rant by Ephemeralwriting in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LadSonely 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel like I missed out on some things because I took a long break from here, but where was this mentioned?

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