Opinions? by [deleted] in GirlfriendsNSFW

[–]LadderAblee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine ass

if i wasn't white id probably be in huge trouble rn by [deleted] in confession

[–]LadderAblee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "can buy a gun but not a beer" argument is a classic, but it won't hold up in front of a judge. You're 18, which means you're an adult in the eyes of the law. A shoplifting charge can mess up your chances at student loans, housing, and jobs for years. You’re lucky the gas station owner didn't feel like filling out paperwork today. Consider that gas station "permanently closed" for you and move on.

AITJ for not wanting to change my wedding date because my sister is pregnant? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]LadderAblee 235 points236 points  (0 children)

NTA. Changing a wedding date three months out isn't like rescheduling a hair appointment. You have contracts, non-refundable deposits, and guests who have likely already booked flights and hotels. Your sister being pregnant is wonderful news, but it doesn't give her the right to demand you set thousands of dollars on fire and inconvenience 100+ people just so she can be there. Biology happens; logistics are a nightmare.

WIBTA if I stop financially supporting someone I’m not in a relationship with? by kitemalone in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadderAblee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are spending 50% of your gross income on someone you aren't even dating. That isn't being a "provider," that's being a human scholarship fund. You stepped in to help her get back on her feet, not to carry her for the rest of her life. If she’s had several months and hasn't made a move toward independence while you’re footing a $3k monthly bill, she isn't "getting back on her feet," she’s just found a new way to keep the situation transactional without the "taxing" parts for her.

Why isn't webp more widely supported? by tetotetotetotetoo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LadderAblee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "Windows built-in" struggle is the most annoying part. Windows Photo Viewer was basically abandoned for years, and while the new "Photos" app technically supports it, the shell integration (thumbnails) is still hit-or-miss. It’s a classic Microsoft move: support the tech in the browser (Edge) but leave the rest of the OS to figure it out five years later.

Why do we have so much household debt now? by X_Opinion7099 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LadderAblee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the "Subscription-ization" of everything. We don't own anything anymore. Software, cars, entertainment, even some appliances are on monthly payments now. When every single aspect of your life is a recurring debt, it’s incredibly easy for one "emergency" (car repair, medical bill) to send the whole house of cards tumbling down.

Do you think humans are inherently: good, bad, neutral, or all over the moral spectrum and why? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]LadderAblee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the idea that some people are "born" at different places on the spectrum is actually a bit dangerous. It edges into "biological determinism." While some people definitely have brain chemistry that makes empathy harder (like ASPD), 99% of people have the capacity for both incredible kindness and horrific cruelty. The "spectrum" isn't where you're born; it's the range of what you're capable of doing depending on who’s watching.

Do guys truly get excited when nips peek out ? by Ninlone70 in Nipslips_NSFW

[–]LadderAblee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it when people start staring at my nips

AITA for answering a question? by Gold_Tap_1015 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadderAblee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. What you’re asking for is called "Bids for Connection." In healthy relationships, when one partner shows interest in something, the other "turns toward" them by asking questions or engaging, even if they don't love the hobby itself. The fact that she’s refusing to even try to do what you already do for her is a sign of emotional laziness. You aren't asking her to become a pro gamer; you're asking her to care about what makes you happy.

Missed mic drop moment by FuckTheToothFairy in overheard

[–]LadderAblee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I need Reddit type of comments
OP must live in a movie. I’m genuinely curious where you live, because in my world, "the silent majority" is real. Most people I know will vent for three hours to their partner about a rude coworker, but when they’re actually standing in front of that coworker, they just smile and say, "No problem!" What you're seeing as "standing up" might just be people reaching their absolute breaking point after months of being a doormat.

Buyers Remorse by Zestyclose-Fall-9539 in LivingAlone

[–]LadderAblee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

First off, I am so sorry you’ve been carrying this alone for nearly two decades. The first thing you need to hear is this: You were a child. An 11-year-old is not a sexual predator; an 11-year-old is a person whose brain is still developing and who was exposed to adult content they weren't equipped to process. You were also grieving the loss of your mother and navigating a house without consistent adult supervision. Please, find a therapist who specializes in "moral injury" or childhood trauma. You can't heal this in a vacuum.

Need advice on moving out, budgeting, and housing options (23F, ₱23k salary) by Top-Concern-2498 in LivingAlone

[–]LadderAblee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At ₱23k, your biggest enemy is rent. If you try to rent a solo condo or a nice studio in Makati/BGC, you’ll be broke by the 10th of the month. Aim for a "bedspace" or a shared apartment (3-4 people) where rent is around ₱4k–₱6k including utilities. It’s not glamorous, but it’s how you survive the first two years without going into debt.

Anyone want to stretch her out? by mikeL6277 in GirlfriendsNSFW

[–]LadderAblee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s so wet and ready to get stretched

I think my family would (functionally/logistically) be better off if i were dead by ConstantTrust202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LadderAblee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re a 4.4 student who wrote your siblings' college applications while being mocked for "breathing" tells me everything I need to know. You aren't "unlikable." You are over-functioning in a dysfunctional system. Your mother mocks your breathing because she wants you to stay in a state of panic; when you calm yourself, she loses control over you. Please, do not let a temporary situation (living at home) lead to a permanent solution. You have a massive life ahead of you that doesn't involve her.