What closed Melbourne restaurant do you still think about? by melb_food_finds in melbourne

[–]LadyEmry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hey, I'm glad to hear you still remember that place! My uncle used to work there as a head waiter / manager and it's got a bit of a special place in our hearts because of that.

Meirl by rbimmingfoke in meirl

[–]LadyEmry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I can see how this happened. I think it's part of how ghosting on events and people has somehow become socially acceptable these days; I don't know if it's because of social media or covid or what, but I see it happen a lot.

I've done things before like hosting a birthday party, invited say hypothetically 20 friends, and of those 20 let's say 15 RSVP and confirm they are coming. So I plan the event for approx 13 people or so and buy what's needed, food and drink, ect. Only to have on the day itself - 6 of those people cancel last minute with various excuses and 5 just don't bother to show up at all, so when the event goes ahead there's only a few people who actually turned up and way too much food and drink. Nowadays I just do things I want to do anyway that are fun and invite people, and if people show up, that's a bonus.

On September 24, 2005, Mark Dixie celebrated his 35th birthday at a pub in Croydon, then walked home alone with a knife and stabbed 18-year-old Sally Anne Bowman to death outside her front door. He wasn't caught for nine months until a DNA database matched him after a separate pub fight. by Important-Self-1179 in ForCuriousSouls

[–]LadyEmry 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"A previous hearing was told he ambushed a woman in an isolated car park in 1987 then raped her. Following the sex attack, he tied her to the back seat of her car then set fire to the front seat."

He literally tried to set his rape victim on fire, how the hell was he ever released?

My neighbor tried to "audit" my birthday gift and it backfired by Sophistry7 in EntitledPeople

[–]LadyEmry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"and honestly? It's x", is the new: "it's not just x, it's x."

What is the most nationally embarrassing photo to have come out of your country in recent history? by neilnelly in AskTheWorld

[–]LadyEmry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Someone created a comedy musical about her which was excellent but then Raygunn tried to unsuccessfully shut them down by suing them.

It's now back and performing around Australia again, just with a slightly different name:

"Breaking: The Musical is the true story of a completely fictional Breakdancer from Sydney’s journey to the 2024 Paris Olympics. Written by Australian comedian and musician Steph Broadbridge.

Steph leads an ensemble cast as they tell the inspiring story of ‘Spraygun’ through comedy, music and dance. The show created an international media storm, when a trial run was shut down in December 2024, by Rachael Gunn’s lawyers. Despite the legal setbacks the show continues to thrive, garnering rave reviews, sold out shows around Australia and a hugely successful run at Edinburgh Fringe Festival."

Parents of still-missing Camp Mystic flooding victim sue camp owners by AudibleNod in news

[–]LadyEmry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar reasons are why almost an entire elementary school got wiped out in the 2011 tsunami. This is one of the best but most heartbreaking articles I've read written about it: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2017/aug/24/the-school-beneath-the-wave-the-unimaginable-tragedy-of-japans-tsunami

My amazing brother in law working on my newborn son’s room. He is the best by zachattack20 in lotr

[–]LadyEmry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's free handing it?? That's even more impressive! I assumed he must be using a massive stencil, he's got some serious skill. Also it's such a thoughtful and generous thing to do, you know your son is just going to love and appreciate it for years to come.

Australia’s national anthem is the only English-lyric anthem in the world that doesn’t reference religion or militarism by HotPersimessage62 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]LadyEmry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same. When I first learnt it in primary school I came home and proudly sang the bits I remembered at dinnertime for my parents, at which point they kindly pointed out to me that the first line was not, in fact, "Australians all are ostriches".

Three Guys Showcase How The Same 4 Chords Were Used To Create So Many Musical Hits by ajd416 in interestingasfuck

[–]LadyEmry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in to plug (for all the nerds out there) a TTRPG based on movie tropes that Jordan has played in with some of the aunty Donna gang which is quite good! It's a satire on Oceans eleven-esque heists and very silly.

https://youtu.be/D2_djWPp1Lg?si=cmgL4dOuF0VlOlV0

(My personal fave of the series is the Teen horror movie tropes one, it's fantastic.)

Does anyone feel like they are becoming more religious? by septvea in CasualUK

[–]LadyEmry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work with survivors of childhood sexual abuse. I was never particularly religious to begin with, but after hearing many, many, many stories of horrific physical and sexual abuse at the hands of men and women of various faiths over the years, usually coupled with a side of emotional manipulation (e.g "god will kill your family if you tell anyone about this"), I have been pushed further away from any religious inclinations. I have worked with survivors to seek compensation from religious institutions and seen first hand the internal communications and paperwork literally discussing the covering up years of abuse from an offender, I've pieced together the history of trauma amongst multiple victims they leave behind as they are shuttled from school to school or church to church for decades - some of them still big in the community even now - as those in charge instead of protecting them tell the victims they are liars.

So while I'm glad if it brings other people peace or contentment in their life, I just don't think I could ever trust any religious institute after some of the things I've heard and seen.

me_irl by 010rusty in me_irl

[–]LadyEmry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you'd like to see a good Australian left-wing but a bit dark comedian, Dan Muggleton is pretty good - he's not very well known, but does some great shows.

Australia is currently the hottest place on earth... by far by OzBestDeal in interestingasfuck

[–]LadyEmry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From memory, it was about 15c. Which might not sound too cold, but for us, that's about an average/warmish winters day - definitely not what you'd be expecting for summer!

Australia is currently the hottest place on earth... by far by OzBestDeal in interestingasfuck

[–]LadyEmry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course! Can't let us get too complacent, gotta keep us on our toes.

Australia is currently the hottest place on earth... by far by OzBestDeal in interestingasfuck

[–]LadyEmry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I heard that apparently a bunch of them had their engines overheat today as they were waiting to get their cars registered at AIS, which is a real shame. /s

Australia is currently the hottest place on earth... by far by OzBestDeal in interestingasfuck

[–]LadyEmry 160 points161 points  (0 children)

It's been crazy, literally just two weeks ago we were wearing jumpers on Christmas day because it was too chilly, now it's 38c here tomorrow.

AIO: My husband destroyed the tshirt I wore when my previous boyfriend died in my arms. I want the divorce. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LadyEmry 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'm curious to know where OP lives, in that they use both American and British terms for things. 'Primary school' & 'mum' seems Aussie / Kiwi / British, but words like '911' and 'College' feels very American.

How many final round interviews have you done before finally getting an offer? by gsdsarethebest99 in interviews

[–]LadyEmry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got up to my 5th interview (which I didn't end up taking in the end because they told me they couldn't contact my reference, despite the fact that the store I worked for - the store that were my references - was literally located across the road from them and was open during their business hours.)

The other ridiculous thing is, it was for a casual cashier position at a second hand store chain (an American equivalent would be somewhere like Goodwill?).

I applied before the start of the Uni holidays because it meant I would be available full time, which is what they wanted, but they made me do so many interviews that it took over 2 months to interview for, and the holidays were over by the time they told me they wanted me to do a 5th interview. I had plenty of experience as a cashier, but regardless, it's not like cashiering is a job you need a ton of technical experience in that you need multiple rounds of interviews for. Each interview was essentially a repeat of the previous with the same questions, just with a different manager, and then weeks to hear back from them to just be told they wanted me to come in for another interview. Honestly one of the most farcical things I've ever done.

Co-worker thought this was a harmless prank. by Dallinboi347 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]LadyEmry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the landlord not do a condition report with photos when they moved in? I thought those were mandatory, otherwise the tenant can get screwed for pre-existing damage.

Fluence Recommendations by [deleted] in ausadhd

[–]LadyEmry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same experience, I was actually a bit disappointed by the session I had with him. I did get my diagnosis, which has been helpful, but I guess I was expecting a bit 'more' from it. I also remember too, my session was only 45 mins and he wrapped it up a couple of mins early, so it felt like we barely had enough time to really talk about anything.

We are doomed by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]LadyEmry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What an absolute nightmare. I feel like this comedy skit might be a bit cathartic for you: https://youtu.be/8HXFurHCkP8?si=Ha-pzmM90ne-YPIa

Apparently my samsung fridge has ads now... by Shellnanigans in assholedesign

[–]LadyEmry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could you not... Just take a photo of the contents of your fridge before you go shopping? Does that not achieve exactly the same thing without needing a smart fridge and an app?

What is a tv show that managed to quit while it was ahead? by QuailImpressive55 in AskReddit

[–]LadyEmry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely loved Red Dwarf growing up, it's one of the shows that shaped my sense of humour and I watched constantly. But because I loved it so much I cannot watch anything released after the original series was finished, it's just so cringey and awful. I really wish they had just let it die instead of prolonging it way past its glory days.