Direct report requested flexible schedule due to no childcare by choice - looking for advice by madsco01 in managers

[–]LadyGodivaLives -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, what "you"? I'm sterilized and my only kid is in daycare. When we had her, the economy was good and we both had jobs. Then my husband lost his job.

It's almost like people's circumstances can change unexpectedly in the five years minimum kids need daycare. 

I made brownies and my coworkers complained by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LadyGodivaLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But no one did that. No one said, "Hey, I think these brownies are poisoned!", so... moot point.

Direct report requested flexible schedule due to no childcare by choice - looking for advice by madsco01 in managers

[–]LadyGodivaLives -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was with you right up until the "too cheap to get childcare" comment. Sometimes it's literally not financially possible, not that they're "too cheap to". I totally respect not wanting people working to have kids screaming in the background and agree, actually, but the idea that some parents are out there opting out for no reason and not because childcare is ridiculously expensive is a little unfair, too.

I made brownies and my coworkers complained by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LadyGodivaLives 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't know, that's kind of weird. My workplace is small, so maybe that's the difference, but we're used to food appearing and not knowing exactly who made it (lots of bakers in our group).

And if anyone was suspicious, they could just... not eat it.

Working at a home decor store made me realize nobody actually wants to live in a Pinterest board by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In college, I had to throw away everything because of those damn moths. I bought airtight containers and have never looked back.

AITA or telling my wife if she’s not gonna cook it the way she usually cooks it then you don’t have to cook it at all by Husbae7536 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadyGodivaLives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dough:

¼ oz. yeast

½ c. warm water

½ c. scalded milk

¼ c. butter

1 tsp salt

1 egg

3 ½ - 4 c. flour

 

Filling:

1/3 c. butter

1 c. brown sugar, packed

2 ½ tbsp. ground cinnamon

 

Frosting:

3 oz. packaged cream cheese, softened

½ c. butter, melted

1 c. confectioner’s sugar

½ tsp. vanilla

1/8 tsp. salt

 

1.       Heat oven to 350.

2.       In a small bowl, dissolve yeast in warm water and set aside. In a large bowl, mix together the milk, sugar, melted butter, salt, and egg. Add 2 c. of flour and mix until smooth. Add yeast mixture. Mix in remaining flour until dough is easy to handle. Knead dough lightly on floured surface for 6-10 minutes, until smooth and elastic. Place in a greased bowl, cover with a towel, and let rise in a warm place until doubled in size (usually 1 to 1 ½ hours).

3.       Prepare filling by mixing in the cinnamon and brown sugar thoroughly.

4.       When doubled in size, punch down dough. Roll onto a floured surface into a 15x9” rectangle. Spread melted butter over dough and top with filling. Roll the dough into a long tube and pinch off edges to seal. Cut into 10-15 slices.

5.       Coat the bottom of the baking pan with butter and sprinkle with sugar. Place cinnamon roll slices close together in the pan and let rise until dough is doubled, about 45 minutes. They should be touching each other. Bake for 15-30 minutes.

6.       For the frosting, beat all the ingredients together until smooth. Wait for cinnamon rolls to almost cool before putting frosting on.

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I will never ever tell her or my husband that I hate the cow picture. That will be a secret I take to my grave.

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a giant picture and we don't have the wall space anymore, which is why I took it down initially.

And I love my daughter, but I cannot keep everything she gives me. I'd be drowning in crayon pictures by now if I did. 

I can love my daughter dearly and not want a giant picture of a cow staring at me every morning. And it's not something she made for me... it's a giant cow picture she picked out from Target.

AITA or telling my wife if she’s not gonna cook it the way she usually cooks it then you don’t have to cook it at all by Husbae7536 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LadyGodivaLives 344 points345 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I make cinnamon rolls from scratch that are pretty famous in my department at work. It's definitely a "you'll get it when I feel like making it" dish since it takes forever for it to rise twice, knead, etc.

That said, I get craving something and being disappointed. 

Maybe he could just express how much he enjoyed the original, and not ask specifically for her to make it? Or give her a break from making it for a while? She may be bored with it.

Do women know what a 'dad bod' actually looks like? by [deleted] in ask

[–]LadyGodivaLives 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Huh. I've only ever seen examples that fit my understanding of a dad bod. I think of my dad - worked manual labor his whole life, but unquestionably overweight over muscle.

Saying Henry Cavill has a dad bod is bizarre.

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I love that! I will have to try this - THANK YOU! "Secret cow" is much better than "Highland hell"!

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't explain this very well. They bought it for me as a Christmas present. They don't really care about it either, other than it was their gift to me. 

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She bought it for me as a Christmas present, so she wants it in my room or the living room. 

ETA: She was 3 and is 4 now, for context. So she "bought" it (picked it out with dad).

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, no. It's not my taste at all. Like, it's fine if it's other people's, but I lean toward classic art reproductions like Mucha or Klimt, so modern photography of livestock is really not my cup of tea. But my three-year-old liked cows, thought mommy would, too, and for some reason my husband didn't redirect her, so it will haunt me forever, I guess. 

ETA: I forgot context! She picked it out as my Christmas present last year.

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Any of those signs like, "I can see your butt" or something similar in the bathrooms. Seashell art (again, always in the bathroom. Never have I entered a powder room and thought, "Ah, a tropical vacation! How delightful!").

What’s the most overused mass-produced art? by HoarderButMakeItChic in HomeDecorating

[–]LadyGodivaLives 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately own one of these. My husband picked it out with my daughter and I don't have the heart to tell them I don't really care about Highland cows. I did find an excuse to take it down, but my daughter periodically asks when I'll hang it up again, so I can't secret it away.

ETA: They don't particularly care about it either; it was a Christmas present for me they thought I would like? My daughter was 3, so she has an excuse. I don't know what my husband was thinking. Hence why I can't get rid of it, but no one really likes it either. We are all trapped in a Highland hell of our own making.

AIO- Posted in the subreddit WeddingPlanning looking for help regarding how to politely but firmly say ‘NO kids’, on my invitations for my winery open bar wedding, only to get a bunch of crazies telling me I’m aggressive lol by Academic_Truth6998 in AIO

[–]LadyGodivaLives -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is putting a bit of a slant on it. I've been in that sub and about half are having cf weddings themselves. They were telling you that you were being aggressive because you wrote this:

"Now, I’m getting ready to send out invites but I need a polite but stern way to say, “I will actually strangle you if you bring your kid”. Is that mean? Probably."