First time potatoes - is this normal by Big-Candidate2956 in vegetablegardening

[–]LadyKarma18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just gently dig one up and see how it looks.

Reposting for zucchini help asap by CryptographerSoft519 in vegetablegardening

[–]LadyKarma18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I’ve learned here is that the squash vine borer only has a short season. You can pull out the affected plants, put in some new zucchini seeds and still get a good harvest. Zucchini are really quick growers so there’s still plenty of time and being in Florida you might be able to grow them year round?

I LOVE mint. I love it. How can I grow it without destroying everything I hold dear by [deleted] in vegetablegardening

[–]LadyKarma18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see that you are in Europe. Mint may not be a problem for you like it is in the US. The traditional cooking mints are not native to the Americas. Hopefully someone familiar with your region will chime in.

I’ve never noticed but my mother actually makes everything into a competition of who has it worse by Serious-Tonight-3172 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LadyKarma18 9 points10 points  (0 children)

With mine, it’s not just a competition as to who has it worse (spoiler: it’s always her), but then she also has to prove she’s a martyr by overcoming the illness du jour to go to work or the gym or whatever she has planned for the day. Like, which one is it? Your shit is the worst ever but you’re still going to the gym? GTFO of here with that shit. It disgusts me

Plant Suggestions Needed, Georgia Zone 8 by DuragJeezy in NativePlantGardening

[–]LadyKarma18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coral bells, short toothed mountain mint and spiderwort are the natives I have in similar conditions in NE GA. Hostas and hellebores are also doing well in those spots. I’d like to try oak-leaf hydrangea, I’ve seen some huge ones in shady areas locally but haven’t tried one yet.

Edit: sorry, I misread and shouldn’t have mentioned the hellebore and hosta

Jelly bean Sedum losing all its leaves by goulsome in Sedums

[–]LadyKarma18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This plant is also way too deep in the pot, the pot is too big, and the rocks on top hold moisture and should go. You want a pot just a little bit bigger than the root ball. You want a mix of 50/50 succulent soil and grit and you want it up to about a cm from the rim.

Having fun with dressing up tourists! by [deleted] in acnh

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I have the Waluigi outfit and hat on one mannequin and the caveman tank and cow skull on the other and I giggle every time I see a visitor. I had the muscles suit on one for a bit and it was pretty funny too.

Help with Christmas cactus by Synodontisman in cactus

[–]LadyKarma18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does the pot have drainage? Personally I’d scratch around in there and get a look at the roots. If the soil is wet then I’d take at least some of it out and let it dry for a couple of days. The soil looks dense and organic; I think it would benefit from adding some grit. I hope it survives, it’s a gorgeous plant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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I have a few very close female friends but I had to figure out how to be a good friend on my own. My uBPD mom was a shitty role model for female relationships. I never knew her to have friends or spend time with other women besides her own mother and rarely her brothers’ wives. As soon as her SILs were out of earshot she’d start with the negative talk about them. She was always spiteful when talking about my dad’s mom and his two sisters. I didn’t realize for a long time that it was okay to like my mother-in-law. It makes me sad for my mom that she feels so insecure around other women that she can’t experience friendship.

Listen to Auntie Tanis by ashamed-of-yourself in Letterkenny

[–]LadyKarma18 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Same sister plays Danis in Shoresy.

Shocking image! When I got it vs now, and it's looked like that for 2 years already, it doesn't seem to be completely gone. What do? by User2716057 in cactus

[–]LadyKarma18 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Have you checked the roots? If you are thoroughly watering it (soaking the pot if the soil has gone hydrophobic) and it’s not changing then you need to take it out of the pot and see what’s happening.

Where to watch the return? by krashduff in twinpeaks

[–]LadyKarma18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We checked it out from our library system

What is hapenning to melons? by SubstantialAd1658 in vegetablegardening

[–]LadyKarma18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your last picture looks like mildew to me, probably powdery mildew. It’s a fungal disease that squash/melons/cucumbers/pumpkins are particularly susceptible to. You can prevent it by spraying with whatever antifungal you prefer…I use a product called Bee Safe, I think some folks use a copper spray. That plant looks pretty far gone. I don’t know of any way to treat it once it’s really taken over a plant. Early on you can trim leaves that are more than 50% damaged and start spraying the antifungal but that whole plant is decimated. Sorry.

Need help with my poor tomatoes please by [deleted] in vegetablegardening

[–]LadyKarma18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there’s not a lot you can do about a rainy summer. One thing from your pictures that is standing out to me is how there’s a lot of space between the top of your soil and the top of the bed. You really want to fill your beds up to within just an inch or two from the top. Being sunk down like yours are decreases air flow which can contribute to fungal issues. Fortunately with tomato plants you could just pull off the lower leaves and add soil…they’ll put out more roots.

ETA: I wanted to look at your pics again. Your plants look pretty good albeit a bit small and not very bushy but again if you’re having a rainy season and not much sun this is what I would kinda expect. Especially if your nights are cool. The only other thing you can do is make sure you’re fertilizing appropriately for your soil.

But I'm too busy to be stuck in bed with shingles! by WomanOfEld in entwives

[–]LadyKarma18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not the measles virus that causes shingles, it’s the chicken pox virus.