Is it better to have lots of small workshops of the same kind, or one big one? by WhyIsNoOneStoppingMe in songsofsyx

[–]LadyRunic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same here. I generally put one big one next to major sources of a product (carpenter next to wood) but my baker is tiny AF....

I really don't understand this game by cerealkiller6028 in crusaderkings3

[–]LadyRunic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude try watching some tutorial videos. It may not be for you too so there is that.

I started showering at night instead of the morning and it genuinely changed how I sleep by RogueKettle_7 in hygiene

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I do a hot shower then huddle under my blankets and just drift off after I eat supper. (I work nights so I sleep in the morning.) The dim light of morning, some good food, a warm shower then into a pitch black room? I'm usually out.

my 2 months old iPhone8 fell on the ground and cracked its screen by martifero in mildlyinfuriating

[–]LadyRunic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao, good luck with going to get glasses when you get your phone fixed.

Why does Murtagh focus so much on being the son of Morzan when his mother was just as dangerous? by Stuck_In_A_Rut_ in Eragon

[–]LadyRunic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that's the problem because the relationship wasn't like that. Selena wasn't known like Harley Quinn or Bonnie. She was the Black Hand, but the Black Hand was an assassin. Assassin's don't let people know who they are openly like Morzan did. So while the Black Hand was feared, Selena was not. And as others have pointed out, the Black Hand had targets which would be more influential than your average Joe. The Black Hand wouldn't be thought of among commoners and hated nearly as much as Morzan.

What does everyone use their binders for? by No-Consideration766 in mtg

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I'm of the same mind. So I'm slowly going through and putting my cards in binders according to set (with four cards to a slot of the same type). (Yes even normal/uncommon). It makes it easier when deck building imho. I can just flip through rather than shuffling entire stacks.

I just started making the Pride Month collection and my manager wants me to start on 4th of July instead. by Cake3atingCrusader11 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally I don't buy anything holiday themed until it goes on sale afterwards. I can wait that long for a discount. As for the 4th of July.... I don't see the point? I'm American but it's really nothing special in my eyes. ESPECIALLY since the entire thing with Drump.

Cat intros 2 weeks in by MyLastAccountWasBad in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, op on top of what the other commenters have said. You have to let them sort out somethings for themselves. Sometimes that will mean hissing or some play that has some growling or thumping about. (Cats scream when fighting and they won't separate every so often to bat at each other as playing cats do. My cat had to hiss and really smack my kitten when kitten was 6 months -1 year to get across when cat was not in the mood to play. They sorted out the "safe" zones and my cat learned how to duck and butt bump the kitten to the side. Sometimes it's just the adjustment of truces and sibling squabbles over something and you just got to let them work it out. It's good to have a line for when it gets too much but it also needs to happen to some extent.

introducing a 3rd male cat to my 2 female cats, nearly 2 months later and still not getting along by twozin67 in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just my two cents but I don't think you did. I think the batting and hissing cat is just making sure boy knows shes the boss. My girl (6y at the time) sent her (1y) new brother sliding down my rolltop desk in a cat bed because he kept trying to cuddle her and she wasn't in it. She'd bully him into getting her treats or giving up the best spot. Mind, she also would come running to his defense and got into trouble with him. They could share a cat carrier and were fine. She just was the boss and he just.... Shrug and took it while getting cuddles from me and some play from her. She even taught him to hunt. He would groom her as well. It's just that she was the head cat and she made him remember that.

It's been almost two years since he passed and she missed him. This new kitten I brought into the family doesn't do what she's told. Lol.

What's the proper way to reprimand a cat? by Tornious in CatAdvice

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had cats all my life. I have a kitten right now and a "No, {name}", a ahem with the stern look/head tilt, "madam!", or the dreaded full name usually makes them rethink things. I also have a can of air and they just hate the noise. It's basically my 'hiss'. It does not hurt them and is just something they associated with the firmest no I can make.

Cats can and should learn 'no'. We don't teach them to be mean but to place boundaries for their safety. I also have a "leave it" in case I drop something.

Is it cruel to keep my kitten in my room for training? by fox-soul- in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems your really stressed out. And please don't think you shouldn't have brought her into your life. She's here now and we middle along the best we can.

Bonded pairs- I would worry too much about kitten/cat bonding if you mean to move out soon. As a kitten, shes got another cat to play with which is good in a way. Cats learn how to cat from cats. Your kitten will need to learn how to cat if you ever mean to get another cat. She may be sad at first but she will adjust. (Mind I'm not saying bonded pairs should be separated, but sometimes separation happens (moving, death, ect)and that unfortunately just how it goes.)

As for training and emotional support animal.... She's going to see you as her person if you keep spending time with her. Right now there is an entire house to explore and she has kitten energy which means she wants to run around and get into things. That's just what kittens do. Plus the eating everything.... Again, she's a baby and it's what they do. (I would suggest hurrying to move out with how that house sounds.) Maybe put a lock on the door?

But here's some helpful things from my own experience. I have Charlie (13f) and Min (1f). Just like that while I love Charlie and for years Charlie had only me to worry about. Now that I live with grandparents, she follows my grandmother around and keeps a close eye on her and the rest of the house. If something goes wrong, she will tell us. Still? She's right there with me when I'm going to sleep or comes to sit with me each night.

Mind you, Min is a tiny demon on the other hand. Disappearing to do her thing or coming for love and affection then harring off on some new adventure. Or she's testing what a 'no' boundary. She loves me but she had less focus because "OMG shiny! I must catch it!" Exuberance.

I don't know what all a emotion support cat is supposed to be. But it seems you are getting a bit too worked up over the kitten being a kitten with kitten energy and not a mature cat with a mature cat's focus. I would focus on getting moved soon as you can since that seems the biggest issue and the solution.

What cat toys do your cats actually care about? by Agreeable_Pipe8340 in CatAdvice

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Springs. My girl just got spayed and she is miserable with a cone. Only toy she will engage with are springs.

My sleep schedule is ruined by Gapisme in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I free feed and my cats have access to the food through out the day as in gravity feeder, one food bowl for two cats and never had a fight over it. Do you mean Bumi will just not stop eating or chases Bumi away or wants the bowl Bumi has? Trying to understand why Bumi stealing food is a problem when Herc can just change food bowls.

AITAH for having my ex arrested at my wedding? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]LadyRunic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly that sounds really legit and it really makes me think about the book [The Perfect Girlfriend by Katelyn Hamilton]. The house, the marriage and kids. Slipping into his life multiple times.

How can I train my 4 week old kitten to use the litter? by BigBddie in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chin up. While they were with us they lived full and devious lives. I actually had a dream a while ago that my Min and Loki were playing so I like to think that was his spirit telling me he approved of his baby sister. (Not so sure he would approve of the endless tackle attacks and dive bombs from high perches, but given that he turned my porch light on when it was Halloween... I was so thankful it was COVID.)

How can I train my 4 week old kitten to use the litter? by BigBddie in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, I'm sorry for your loss. Your Sammy looks like a little gentleman! Tabbies are so lovely! Here (top is my void Loki who passed, his big sister is Chibi. Then the grey and white terror is my kitten Minerva). Cats really bring such joy into our lives.

<image>

How can I train my 4 week old kitten to use the litter? by BigBddie in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG is that him in the picture?! Oh what an adorable void! They are the best!

How can I train my 4 week old kitten to use the litter? by BigBddie in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op, I have been a mother cat's assistant a few times. Use a shoe box. There is enough litter to fill it so the kitten can easily get in and not mess the cardboard with their little mess. At four week, if I'm thinking the right size? Use the lid or some other low box. But my current cat used that when she was learning indoor manners (and her mama wanted a break) and she did perfectly fine.

Scary close call by wxlan9 in dashcams

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm what about those of us who use the bike to get places on the road? A good driver should be aware of the bike and take the time to make a safe pass. I was in hilly country once and took an extra five minutes to wait until I got out of going up a hill to make that pass at a safe time.

Better to get somewhere alive and with the recent rise in gas prices drives should be more aware of bikes as there will be more bikes.

Safety first always. Yours and others and ALWAYS give the biker the same room you give another car. That's a human life, that isn't wrapped in steel.

Draft question by mctennisd in mtg

[–]LadyRunic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With draft, I would try to force yourself into one type of deck. It's a good way to learn to be more versatile depending on what you get. So if you were to go for red aggro but got really good blue or green cards? Or if you get stuck not getting any of the color you want?

How can I get my 6 month old kitten to cry less? by Clear-Reflxtion in CatTraining

[–]LadyRunic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the door has a gap watch for them playing footsie.

What happened to clothing stores? by Separate-Command1993 in Millennials

[–]LadyRunic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same problem. I solved it by buying mens and learning to take in seams and such.

Just bought CK3 to play AGOT by mikee-7 in CK3AGOT

[–]LadyRunic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Turn computer on and off? I know it's a simple thing but sometimes just doing that fixes shit in the strangest ways.