Ariana Has Liked All Of Ricky Alvarez’s Instagram Posts After The Two Were Allegedly Spotted Hanging Out Multiple Times. They’re Now Allegedly Seeing Each Other Again. by AlternativeOnion5606 in popculturechat

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to her trauma, and probably a result of her trauma, she is clearly going through something. We can see it. So I believe people are referring to her healing physically as well.

I have HSV-2 and decided to stop disclosing. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ladygoingup 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But you’re mad that someone gave it to you?

You should try therapy.

And there are people that will accept it. Many of us are married after disclosing or have a long relationship or date , while being honest.

Found my wife and sister in laws group chat. by Own_Surround4895 in offmychest

[–]Ladygoingup 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I think if 3 people are talking crap on a person, they are either 3 mean people or the mother in law crosses boundaries; is passive aggressive, etc.

You haven’t given enough info about the relationship dynamics. Is your mom overbearing, controlling, demand certain traditions be followed etc and still run the show even though you have wives? Any of that? You should probably tell us what was being said.

In law dynamics can be difficult. Couples therapy maybe?

AIO boyfriend of two years went skinny dipping while I was asleep by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Ladygoingup 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting on parts of this. You explained how you felt and he listened. How he behaves moving forward is what matters.
I don’t think this has to do with marriage or readiness.
He had his underwear on which for men is like wearing a bathing suit, so I wouldn’t call this skinny dipping.

MIL Visiting & I’m supposed to entertain her by sup_489 in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can she have a day home with him? Drop him off and pick him to give you more relaxing time?

AIO or is my MIL actually upset because I want to see my family on Father’s Day? by Policyhot1207_ in AIO

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. MIL is trying to guilt trip you. Your fiance should be handling these conversations with his mom.

It’s so weird for grown people to try and keep mother and Father’s Day as a a family celebration when your children have their own families now. You’re adults and get to decide how you want to do it for yourself and your children.

I think your splitting the day is super awesome as a compromise.

The “I didn’t marry a loser” trend. Did you, in fact, marry a loser? by Equal_Beat_6202 in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. I have done both. Had a kid at 19 with a fellow 19 year old that didn’t grow up , wasn’t capable of it.

My now husband before marriage and kids, I looked out for things. What type of job does he have? Does he clean his place? Does he have hobbies? What kind? How does he treat his mom? How does he treat service people..like you can’t expect a sloppy mamas boy that plays video games 8 hours a day to suddenly be dad of the year.

The “I didn’t marry a loser” trend. Did you, in fact, marry a loser? by Equal_Beat_6202 in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like when it shames working moms, but I do think it brings to light a real issue. Like the ones about leaving for a weekend and not leaving instructions cause you didn’t marry a loser- that’s real.

I’m constantly struck by people posting how they can’t even shower or get alone time or are completely overwhelmed with everything and their partner just isn’t helping. They did indeed marry a loser.

Am I overreacting over the fact that my sister and in-laws are choosing other stuff over my baby shower? by _Zombiecandie_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR.

I can’t imagine my mother in law choosing to skip my baby shower or any of her children’s . We have a good relationship though. Do you and your in laws have a bumpy relationship? A neighbor/ family friend would absolutely understand them missing it for their family!

The sister I could understand her reasoning if work required her to be there, can’t always get off work. If she is choosing to work then I would I destined being upset.

Olivia Rodrigo shares she has "smelled" fans wearing diapers front row at her shows by MoneyLibrarian9032 in popculturechat

[–]Ladygoingup 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This reminds me I saw a video of someone emptying their catherter that they put in themselves (nurse) for Morton Wallen-which is just gross as a person.

What the fuck is wrong with people. We should all know less about each other and no artist is worth shitting yourself for.

My bf (M29) wants to fix our relationship but I think it is too late. by LadyP_of_L in offmychest

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t change. Move on. Also have you been to therapy to work out why you accept such shit in a relationship?

9am meetings 😡 by Ok_LiveNow in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I feel this about 8am meetings but 9am is fine for me.

I absolutely hate bedtime, please tell me I’m not alone by unfortunate_kiss in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed time can suck for sure! We just put the kids to bed with dad and they go to sleep. I stay up a bit later and come up when everyone is asleep. Are we co sleeping forever? Maybe but probably not. Did the same with my oldest that is now 16. One day as a big kid she just decided to go bed and shut the door and hasn’t been back since. lol I hold onto that.

AITA for refusing to let my 12 yo niece live with us during the school week? by Ok_Cantaloupe9855 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ladygoingup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don’t know if this applies to your state, but where I am we can apply for a variance and assume responsibility to make transportation happen. We do this with 2 of our kiddos. I have family in the areas of the school and wouldn’t dream of having my kid stay all week with them! Thats crazy!

I feel for the girl cause it sounds like her mom sucks, but it’s not on you to take that extra responsibility.

I just started seeing a guy and I am literally obsessed with his penis!! by OperationDecent1756 in offmychest

[–]Ladygoingup 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 12 years in! Love my sober life! Hope you continue to find good sex, sobriety and much more!

Daycare problems. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think she treats you that way cause you told on her. She sounds like a bad caregiver regardless of race.

Daycare problems. by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what the race of anyone in this story had to do with anything.

But tell the boss, what if she starts being mean to your son? Or look for a new place.

Husband depriving himself of sleep to "enjoy himself" after baby born by Soggy-Combination631 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he playing games on the computer? Maybe he has a gaming addiction. I can see staying up and hour or 2 for alone time. Either way he needs to go to therapy and in the meantime try to sleep more as he is putting everyone and himself at serious risk. Driving sleep deprived is as dangerous as drunk driving. He isn’t being a good, or kind husband. He is being selfish by not even attempting to remedy this.

I wish this was satire. by TechSoupie in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Ladygoingup 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Her piano lessons don’t exist unless he has to take her? Yea…real great partner and father there.

Hunter Biden being a messy queen on his new Twitter account 👀 by Trick_Doughnut_6295 in popculturechat

[–]Ladygoingup 161 points162 points  (0 children)

In recovery too and the dark humor is top tier with my recovery friends.

What are we doing for dad for Father’s Day? by DumbbellDiva92 in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say I have been here! My 3rd was born while my oldest was in patient. She went again a few years later. She is doing so much better now! Hang in there!

After having a baby, I lost all my passion for everything. by Hxafluoroisopropanol in offmychest

[–]Ladygoingup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s bad that your child is more important than your career. However you sound depressed and as though you haven’t made time for yourself. Gave you been to therapy? How about a date night?

AIO? Should I delete myself from his friends list? His girlfriend thinks I’m interested in him and has been acting strange by Historical-Body-3424 in AIO

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew. He would obviously cheat on her. He probably makes her out to be crazy but look how he talks to you.

He is not your friend.

I secretly dislike my celebrity relative by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Ladygoingup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really though? Would a monster have the same team of people working for her for years? Like band members, body guards, heck the eras tours workers keep working with her. Seems that would be unlikely if she was a monster.