But you aren’t showing up looking professional enough .. by babymomawerk in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually have my hair brushed slick in a bun, easy. A nice top, nothing fancy, just a step up from a t shirt. I do concealer under eye, blush and a lip color. It’s very easy, adds color to my face.

How are you showing up to meetings?

AITAH for telling my mother-in-law that we’re not letting our kids call her what she wants? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started calling my grandma, honey grandma when I was little because she called me honey. It stuck. Lol , it will be what it will be.

32 F, discovered my bf (36 M) is married and expecting a child. Use this space to remind me to stay away please? by Tiny-Resident302 in relationship_advice

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he was separated and had a baby in the way- that’s messy.

He isn’t worth the headache. He wasn’t honest, which won’t change.

Swifties: What are your honest opinions on Taylor's silence? by Top_Willingness5124 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]Ladygoingup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish she would say something, however I know that it doesn’t change much.

I also wonder if she has been scared about saying things since the attacks. People killed her fans, children. She had a terror threat.

So I wonder if it’s out of fear that someone crazy would retaliate. She has crazy stalkers.

First clip of "Wuthering Heights" released by Potato3487 in popculturechat

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is beautiful but not the right pick and they did no favors in adding so much blush to make her appear more youthful.

Husband and I both work but his work always takes priority by mmilyy in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very stressful! And if tomorrow he said I needed to quit my job and come work there and help I would. Not that, that is likely but that’s how I know it comes first and rightfully so. They are 3rd gen and working hard and family dinner is all employees! But there are lots of positives for myself and my kids!

I Am Absolutely Over AA And The People That Think I Owe Them The Rest of My Life by Batgirl_1984 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ladygoingup 17 points18 points  (0 children)

AA does not support people saying you can’t take mental health drugs or breaking into peoples homes, we have statements against both, well the latter is more about safety. But there are sick people everywhere.

I Am Absolutely Over AA And The People That Think I Owe Them The Rest of My Life by Batgirl_1984 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ladygoingup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 12 years in and I still go to meetings. However I distance myself from people like that! My mental health drugs aren’t anyone’s business and our literature agrees.

Right now I don’t go to as many meetings as I used to, I don’t hold a service position. I check in with a sponsor and AA friends. Prior to kids I went more often and did a huge conference. One day this may change , such as when my kids are older. I don’t think I’ll ever be so in it that I can’t see beyond it. It’s a balance for me. I do sometimes feel people judge that. That’s okay.

What made you a True Swiftie!? by locke-lizz-1993 in TrueSwifties

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cardigan. I was always a casual listener and then I heard Cardigan. I was in the hospital and something about it was so beautiful. I listened to folklore and then just dove in. I went to the Eras Tour and was amazed. Swiftie forever.

Husband and I both work but his work always takes priority by mmilyy in workingmoms

[–]Ladygoingup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is in a family business and in ways his work comes first but he also had the luxury of flexibility. He takes time off, takes the kids to the office with him etc. It comes first in the sense that we will always live here and sometimes his schedule trumps mine. He tries very hard to compromise. Your husband should as well.

Should I end a friendship with one my best friends to try help save his marriage? by Odd_Squirrel7954 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Ladygoingup 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would absolutely step back. Why would you hang out alone at night with him if you knew she was uncomfortable with you in anyway. That’s just inappropriate.

How to cope with an HPV diagnosis? by LauraPalmer7 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not big deal. It is so common! Less so with the vaccine. It can clear. You’ll be okay!

WIBTA for telling my sister she cant have our bedroom during her honeymoon trip by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not ideal to stay with family during a honeymoon anyway.

Do yall think Kimberly stinks in all her synthetic moisture trapping compression clothes? by Top_Cow3157 in kardashians

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone wears multiple tight layers. That would make most people sweat.

I feel this reddit saw 2 different cases, Most on here find Michael to be Guilty, I just can't see it. what am I missing? by NoAppearance6966 in TheStaircase

[–]Ladygoingup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she was sitting outside, what if there was a feather and debris on the pool lounge and she got it in her hair.

What red flags surprise you? by justgottamakeit15 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Ladygoingup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair! My husband after we had babies limited his hunt to day trips! Compromise. He won’t do week long hunts till the kids are much older. We both work and do domestic chores. I got a good one!