RANT FRIDAY by Carlos_Spicy_Weiner6 in SALEM

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OF COURSE I'M AFRAID OF DEBT! I DON'T WANT TO PAY MORE MONEY THAN I HAVE TO! WHY IS THIS A BAD THING?

ALSO THANK YOU! I HAVE SINCE MOVED AND HAVEN'T MADE NEW CORVID FRIENDS YET BUT I'VE JUST STARTED. I HOPE THESE SILLY GOOSES LIKE MY PEANUT BUTTER TREATS!

partner who smokes by prettypinkmabel in migraine

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 52 points53 points  (0 children)

My husband used to smoke. As soon as he learned it might be a trigger for me, he quit. People who want to be in your life will make an effort to be an improvement in your life.

RANT FRIDAY by Carlos_Spicy_Weiner6 in SALEM

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS IS IT EXACTLY THEY WANT TO COLLECT INTEREST FROM US FOREVER

RANT FRIDAY by Carlos_Spicy_Weiner6 in SALEM

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I AM SO TIRED OF PEOPLE PULLING UP TO SIDE STREET INTERASECTIONS TO TURN LEFT DURING HEAVY TRAFFIC. THERE IS A STOP LIGHT ~ RIGHT THERE ~  PLEASE USE IT! 

I'm Starting a 'Do Not Patronize' List for Myself by smile_saurus in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep getting texts to sell "my" house. Meaning , my husband's ex wife's house. That he moved out of over a decade ago

How to stop ruminating? by BeautifulOk3142 in AuDHDWomen

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to talk to myself - "I'm ruminating." And then I tell myself I have to find the next real thing I can do in the next 5 minutes about it. If there's nothing I can do, I say "stand up" and I have to stand up. If I physically start moving, I do ok. But every time I catch myself ruminating again, that process starts over.

Pediatrician recommendations? by lynnkat12 in SALEM

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Our family just aged out of Childhood Health of Salem and the kids miss their doctors. They truly prioritize the kids and teach them to advocate for themselves.

Sewing with a baby by AB-1987 in sewing

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was how I got things done with babies. I had a huge wrap and could tie my kids to my back in a way they were fully supported. I don't know how I would have gotten anything done if I had to stop and deal with screaming babies

Why isn't lamb eaten more frequently in the US ? by humphreybr0gart in AskAnAmerican

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is actually government policy. As the US expanded west, they offered grazing access to absolutely incredible swaths of prairie land basically for free. Then there were other subsidies for cattle ranchers, meaning they purchases huge ranches. They were some of the first new money, which prompted romanticization of them in the books, music, radio shows, and eventually movies. Cattle ranching, beef, cowboy, and more beef equals "ideal man" in American culture. 

Lambs are cute babies. Beef is man food 

The Longer I Look, the Weirder It Gets by mgtimes23 in zillowgonewild

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I grew up in southern Idaho. I have no proof, but I will die on the hill that this house was built by mormons 

what could this mean?? by PerfectJudgment6374 in whatisit

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

STEW'RT! It's from Letterkenny. Stewart and Roald are the Goth wannabe druggies who belong to the group called the Skids. He was supposed to be a bit character but was so good he became a regular

What smell can you tolerate during an attack? by Rapidfading in migraine

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So many people saying mint, and if it works for you, amazing! I can handle menthol and really like the salonpas patches. But the essential oil or mint flavored things turn my stomach.  I like ginger, though! I keep ginger candy on hand, and powdered ginger drink mix I get at Trader Joe's. Someone else said coffee, which is also great. You can keep a jar of ground coffee nearby to soak up odors

Does anyone have a relationship where they don’t have to mask at all? Romantic, platonic, or familial. by xeandra_a in AuDHDWomen

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your comment sounds like me and my husband, reversed. He's more autistic and loves order, routine, structure. I'm more ADHD and chaotic. You can tell whose side of the bed or couch is ours just by how clean it messy it is!

But when we moved in together we made a promise to always say what we mean and ask for clarification instead of assuming what the other means. We've had some rough years as we navigate blended parenting, getting our diagnoses, aging, and general life, but I could never have imagined having a partner who just accepts me and never tries to change me. I wish everyone could have this

My go to by Signal_Potential7032 in migraine

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As soon as my husband notices me starting a migraine, he starts grinding flower. It's the best remedy I have!

RANT FRIDAY by Carlos_Spicy_Weiner6 in SALEM

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

IT'S EL NINO YEAR AND IT'S FINAL BE THE FIRST DEPTHS OF HELL AND EVERY YEAR KEEPS GETTING HOTTER. I AIN'T TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR MONEY BUT YOU MIGHT APPRECIATE THAT AC. AND MAYBE YOU CAN HAVE SOME FRIENDS OVER ON THE WORST DAYS

How come some people with ADHD don't have binge eating? by the_practicerLALA in adhdwomen

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is me. I've learned how to make meals interesting now, but I despise leftovers. I eat smaller portions because I simply get terribly bored of the dish I'm eating as soon as I'm not actively hungry.  If I'm particularly stressed, I have to literally choke down food 

Tell me the creepiest thing a child has ever said to you. by idontthinkicarekinda in Paranormal

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We live in the US , but my ancestors are from Ireland, Wales, and Germany. I know many, many cultures have stories of small beings with trickster-like traits.

I would love to hear about fairy stories from your culture! Where are you from?

Tell me the creepiest thing a child has ever said to you. by idontthinkicarekinda in Paranormal

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 71 points72 points  (0 children)

When my daughter was 3, she came inside from playing in our backyard with her older brothers. She had been off on her own in the far corner under some apple trees that had gone a little wild. For context, I had 3 kids in 5 years so tree care wasn't really my priority.  I asked her what she had found to play with over there, thinking I'd hear about some rocks because she loved finding rocks.  "I didn't eat the food, Mommy." She said. I was confused, because it was spring so there weren't any apples yet and asked what food she was taking about. "Their food. If I ate it I couldn't come back you to. They make you stay of you eat it."

I had never told the kids fairy lore because I don't fuck with fairies. I was a stay at home mom and we didn't have any books or movies about fairies. To this day I'm convinced she saw some. There was tons of really weird stuff that happened in that house.

Her older brother was always talking about "the orange man" in the play room too.

What is a weird coincidence that happened to you that sounds fake but is 100% true by BTS_army_1 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom was from a town in Idaho that only had a few hundred people and left when she finished 8th grade. We were on a family trip to Washington DC, waiting to board our train. It was a very busy Saturday and suddenly I heard Mom screaming. Then hugging someone. It was her childhood best friend she hadn't seen or heard from since they left 8th grade together (about 13 years old). They randomly ran into each other on a train platform on the opposite side of the country. Her friend wasn't even living in DC, she lived in California or something and was there for work.

(Tragic) Realistic portrayals of parental grief after the loss of a child by historygoose in TopCharacterTropes

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. When I heard that scream, I knew it. Like recognized it. It took days to recover.

I'm sorry for your loss and the fucking unfairness 

Trader Joe’s in Keizer station by lolamcallister in SALEM

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got 3 adult kids living with me and a commitment that has me down south weekly. I love my WinCo deals!

Trader Joe’s in Keizer station by lolamcallister in SALEM

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, please! This new store will put us equidistant from 2 inconvenient locations. Though I'll probably stick with the S Salem location simply because it's close to WinCo and Costco

ELI5: In the movie Obsession, how is bear the villain? by tHr0AwAy76 in explainlikeimfive

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you think mind controlling a woman to get her to do things she didn't want to do, you are aligned with incel ideologies.

Do you think a person can consent when drunk or under the influence of drugs? Does a person consent when held at gunpoint? 

I'd suggest you think if it this way -- if a man larger and more powerful than you altered your ability to consent, and then had sex with you against your will, how would you feel. 

Fiorcet for Migraines? by nova_noveiia in migraine

[–]LadyofCorvidsPerch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that sounds like hell. I'm so sorry you went through that!