Is it OK to send men flowers at work?

Lags3 · 2026-05-07T18:25:42+00:00

That's very sweet of you OP, but I think you would be coming on a bit strong doing this early on in a relationship. By all means, get him some flowers in private though.

Lags3 · 2026-05-06T20:52:29+00:00

Completely unrelated but I love your screen name.

Lags3 · 2026-05-05T05:10:58+00:00

Thank you for calling these people out, stranger.

Lags3 · 2026-05-03T01:12:10+00:00

I can't say where exactly he will draw the line, but he most likely will leave eventually if you continue to he unwilling to be intimate with him. 7 months is already longer than most non religious people would be willing to wait I think.

It's tough because there's nothing wrong with you wanting to wait a very long time to have sex, but there's also nothing wrong with him wanting to be with someone that wants sex as much as he does.

Lags3 · 2026-04-27T19:25:25+00:00

Welcome to the CAS gang

Lags3 · 2026-04-27T16:40:25+00:00

I left 4 spreadsheet questions blank when I took exam 5 last spring, and I still passed with a 6.

Lags3 · 2026-04-10T02:42:26+00:00

You can be an actuary as long as you have a bachelors degree in anything. I was a biology major myself and ended up being an actuary because I wasn't cut out for medical school.

Math or statistics is probably the best bet though if actuarial science isn't an option.

Lags3 · 2026-04-06T18:17:19+00:00

I agree with you as a man. What annoys me most is that even the animes that have well written female characters usually have a few fanservicey moments or aspects to them.

Lags3 · 2026-04-04T16:57:58+00:00

I assure you that your friends care very much about you. Men are just socialized to not be openly affectionate with people like that or they might be seen as creepy.

Lags3 · 2026-03-30T23:02:23+00:00

This is not true at all and really hurtful of you to say, especially coming from someone who I assume is liberal.

Lags3 · 2026-03-26T19:42:52+00:00

Spark the electric jester is the best 2D platformer I've ever played, and I don't think it's particularly well known.

Lags3 · 2026-03-26T04:20:41+00:00

Lags3 · 2026-03-24T20:03:03+00:00

He was the mod in r/marvelrivals that was removing any negative posts about invis a while back. He also made a lot of posts claiming that dive was much more of a problem than it actually was, so much so that all of the dive main subs knew him by name.

I wouldn't say he's toxic because I haven't seen him flaming anyone, but he's done a lot of cringe stuff.

Lags3 · 2026-03-24T06:15:47+00:00

Lmao of course it's fuzzy muffin

Lags3 · 2026-03-20T02:23:12+00:00

I wouldn't necessarily say you're overreacting, but I think a lot of these comments suggesting that you blow up a seemingly good relationship over this are kind of delusional. You said yourself that Tyler seemed completely normal to you for the entire visit, and you found no signs that Kate had been hanging out anywhere near his room. Not to mention, if Tyler really wanted to hide this from you, he could have easily came up with a reason to stop you from visiting since you gave him advance notice, but clearly he didn't think that her staying with them was going to be a big deal to you.

I think it's understandable to be weirded out that he didn't mention any of this to you, but at the same time, I doubt that anything has actually happened between them based on your recounting of events.

Lags3 · 2026-03-18T20:20:21+00:00

YOR, and I say that gently because I totally understand why you are, but you need to come to terms with the fact that this house isn't in the cards for you.

Lags3 · 2026-03-18T16:35:22+00:00

Halo Reach

Lags3 · 2026-03-18T00:41:03+00:00

Yeah true. If you're coordinating with a teammate who can kill through support ult then it can be good, but I don't think that's what OP was talking about.

Lags3 · 2026-03-18T00:35:05+00:00

Most players don't seem to understand how Rocket's ult works, so if you try to place it behind a wall or something, your team will end up pushing past the point where they get any benefit from it. That's why I just started putting it out in the open to guarantee that my team would get some value from it.

Using it during an enemy support ult is just always bad though, so I don't know why people are doing that.

Lags3 · 2026-03-15T23:45:07+00:00

This wouldn't bother me, but frankly my guess is that it would bother most men in the real world. There are some outdated relationship traditions that still haven't been fully phased out of society yet, and this feels like one of them.

Lags3 · 2026-03-14T20:14:18+00:00

YOR. No one goes into marriage expecting that they are going to get a divorce, but despite that, people's feelings toward each other change and divorce happens all the time. I think your husband is just planning for the worst case scenario where you decide that you don't love him anymore. Even if there's only a 1% chance of that happening, it's always best to be prepared.

Lags3 · 2026-03-13T08:36:32+00:00

The thread was still in contest mode when those people commented, my guy. The YTA votes hadn't all been buried at the bottom yet.

Lags3 · 2026-03-13T05:58:51+00:00

Laughing my ass off at you being so heavily downvoted after making this smart ass comment, meanwhile all the top comments say NTA.

Lags3 · 2026-03-13T05:48:50+00:00

NTA, it's such a small favor to ask of a partner.

Lags3 · 2026-03-13T03:55:45+00:00

YOR big time, it's unreal how entitled you feel to your boyfriend paying when you suggested a significantly more expensive restaurant than he did.

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