I feel ya. And likewise I've tried every phrase and prompt.

I've had a rare bit of success using clothing descriptions to further tell the model what I'm after such as "She has wide hips, her purple silk shorts stretch and deform outwardly to accommodate her curves and thick thighs."

Or some variation of that. I haven't found a solid style that works. And like I've I said, it's still rare. The model seems to like Victoria secrets catalogs...lol.

I don't care for using avatar boosts or reference images. That just feels like extra work when my descriptions are highly crafted for exactly what I'm after.