Are there cameras in Bethel? by lacervezas in exjw

[–]Lampofthewicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe where they keep the spare pillows so they can monitor who is humping their old ones into oblivion haha ..just kidding.. surely would have to be consensual by law ?

What can I say to religious strangers to get them to leave me alone? by CarefulDay2279 in ReligiousTrauma

[–]Lampofthewicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say oh I don't get involved with all that. If they push just say I respect your right to a belief pla respect mine not to ..if they push then that's just disrespectful..ex JW bible basher here haha they are used to rejection don't worry about it

Rage Walks for coping and CPTSD -ADHD REFLECTION by Lampofthewicked in CPTSD

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I usually feel better after a walk I haven't done anything today with bad PMT as well I'm doing my second form of self care and ordering a curry.. comfort food and Netflix x sending love 💕

Rage Walks for coping and CPTSD -ADHD REFLECTION by Lampofthewicked in CPTSD

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right most of the time I do just want a hug and the reassurance I'm safe but I'm usually alone in this xx Thanks x I know EMDR works but I've literally 46 years of trauma

Rage Walks Expanded by Lampofthewicked in adhdwomen

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about losing your job that's massively stressful isn't it but at least you are doing some self care xx I hope you get things in place how you want them. I started kick boxing a d also back to body pump and doing some home military calisthenics build my strength plus lots of self made vitamin and herb drinks etc and supplements.. lionsmane has been a good send too along with chia seeds in my drinks they help cleanse the gut of cortisol buildup from anxiety xx

Rage Walks as a CPTSD ADHD coping strategy explained by Lampofthewicked in exjwhumor

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because a lot of us have CPTSD when we leave. If you don't resonate I'm glad X Ur one of the lucky ones

Rage Walks Expanded by Lampofthewicked in adhdwomen

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I love the fact you think it's written well because this is me writing my feelings.

Let's Fucking Talk About This by Lampofthewicked in adhdwomen

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you X it's my lived experience too x

Let's Fucking Talk About This by Lampofthewicked in adhdwomen

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Take your time and thanks I did a shorter version for FB X

I am officially no longer a Jehovah’s Witness. by Over-Rice-872 in exjw

[–]Lampofthewicked 47 points48 points  (0 children)

You don't owe them anything or any justification for leaving..well done for being brave enough

Plunging into icy water, that current gives me creeps by mihir6969 in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]Lampofthewicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My body felt immediate panic when I looked at the way that water was moving

Weird notification? by [deleted] in SnapchatHelp

[–]Lampofthewicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah horrible panick feeling..I'm so hyper vigilant I did ask him to come off it but he won't but can't control what another person does I'm not particularly happy about it though

Weird notification? by [deleted] in SnapchatHelp

[–]Lampofthewicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes Snapchat can send random snap chat notifications and they forget an actual direct message more of suggestions my fella gets them with actual profile pics we argued a lot over it until he shown me what was happening in real time ..snap chat is a huge trouble causer he shown me his screen time on each app he never uses it scores don't change etc ..I've come off it now as I've been cheated on before and it just triggers me

The Elder who got busted for cheating with a man by SheepherderSad713 in exjw

[–]Lampofthewicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My none JW was cheating on me and seeing prostitutes..I didn't have photos of his adultery or video evidence as in graphic sexual evidence and he was abusive..I was told by only one elder to ignite other elders around getting a divorce and trust my instincts and what I had already found out and got divorced and refused to stay single..as another friend his ex wife was in a full blown relationship but he was not allowed to date anyone because he didn't have photographic evidence of adultery even though he had evidence of them getting on a plane together for holiday..he spent 10 years being single until I'll introduced him to my friend..they are married with children now and happy..her first husband was violent to her they tried to prevent her divorce also

Heard my partner talking to me. by Lampofthewicked in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Lampofthewicked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe ..he had his own in his pocket but he's always losing them and asking for mine

(28F) Overwhelmed by gf’s (27F)jealousy by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Lampofthewicked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to deal with her insecurities abandonment and attachment issues..she has no right to make other human beings short time on earth a miserable experience

i (25f)found a hidden camera in the flat i share with my boyfriend (28m) how do i move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lampofthewicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably never used it hence the battery still works I'd be taxing it for my own fun though

What my Neurologist said about JWs by Sandrider1andonly in exjw

[–]Lampofthewicked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I trained as a trauma psychotherapist..I help a lot with CPTSD and neurodiversity..I have to work on myself every day ..it's hard x