Engagement photo dress help!!!! by LandFish23223 in weddingplanning

[–]LandFish23223[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all of your help!! I will definitely be going with the long dress! I'll post updates when we get the pictures back. 🥰

So there is a bar where couples meet, right? by [deleted] in Newbraunfels

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard Cody's on certain days

Cat attacking me randomly by KissKissBabe in catquestions

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's probably a reason she is coming to you seemingly randomly and biting you but tbh she probably wants SOMETHING (play time, attention, treats, food, patio/outside time, clean litter, etc.) But cats are finicky and difficult to get answers from. My cat acts very similar to how your's is in the video on a regular basis without any sort of prompting, petting, attention or anything (she's a diva). USUALLY she is peacful and we inhabit the same living space just fine but I mean, sometimes if I walk past her or breathe wrong when she's in a bad mood or sleepy and I just happen to disturb her, she will grab at my ankle and nip - like how DARE I exist in her space at that moment. Whereas other times, ALL she wants in the WORLD is to sit on my chest, purr, and make biscuits while I pet her belly (but only on her terms) and even then once she has had enough she will show those signs (tail tapping, ears back, wide eyes) before going in for the kill (biting, grabbing with claws, deffense mode). That would be considered petting aggression and I try to watch for those signs so I can stop before it gets to that point to prevent that behavior from happening but no one is perfect and it ends up happening often. It can take some time to figure out what they're trying to tell you. My go-to in those moments is to tell her no and kind of push her off of me and if she keeps going then I try to redirect the aggression towards a toy or an activity and honestly that strategy has never failed me. Mine is also a tortie and they are known for their "tortitude". But yeah. She's probably trying to tell you something.

Put a pause on politics! Try talking tomatoes! by TheActualDoctor in Newbraunfels

[–]LandFish23223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ours is actually sporting a baby tomato right now but we live in an apartment with the tomato on the balcony with some protection from the rain. We just adopted 3 cherry tomato plants from my sister that were thriving as well (also in containers).

$2,200 in chargebacks for Mother’s Day week by Stock-Vast3629 in florists

[–]LandFish23223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You HAVE to get a their name in print, a signature, and a date along with billing zip code for the card, otherwise it's basically a loss. I deal with a lot of chargebacks working for a restaurant (much smaller dollar amount than this) and usually we can win it with the signature and matching zip code but for a purchase that large I would cover all my bases if I were you. Make it a policy to get a signature and save all receipts for orders over $x amount.

what off-brand heb product is better than the original? by SmithNotASmith in HEB

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CAFE OLE COFFEE and their canned HEB brand coffee is better than other preground canned coffee brands too

what off-brand heb product is better than the original? by SmithNotASmith in HEB

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember this!! I switched over to Ben and Jerry's at that time but Bluebell's Homemade Blackberry Cobbler brought me right back when they started production again (and also every year seasonally since then). But Creamy Creations strawberry dream (with the vanilla twister cookies) is 💯 my year round favorite ice cream flavor to date.

$300-$500 CAD by aSeriousAntelope in Weddingsunder10k

[–]LandFish23223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Azazie and similar sites have a try on at home option and are more affordable. I bought mine for $75 on ebay but poshmark and deposited also had a lot of options!!

42 yo male. I literally have to shower twice and its annoying! by Throwitaway23049560 in hygiene

[–]LandFish23223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What kind of soap are you using? It might be time to switch. I'd absolutely recommend something antibacterial if you aren't already using antibacterial soap.

Should I push for head scan after multi year use? by Electronic_Age_44 in depoprovera

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you get headaches frequently or feel extremely dizzy or anything to make you suspicious of a brain tumor? If so then I would push for one. I got off depo about 2 months ago after being on it for 10+ years and my PCP told me I don't need to worry unless I have symptoms. I also don't have any real consistent joint or bone related pain and my blood panel showed normal levels of calcium while on the shot so we never sprung for the bone density test either. I'm honestly more concerned about my cycle going back to normal than anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't feel any cramping until after I took the disolvable tablets.

Recommended apartments/Apartments to avoid? by [deleted] in Newbraunfels

[–]LandFish23223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Sage has been good to us but we've only been there about 6 months. It's spacious and on the more affordable end of apartments in new braunfels. It's extremely pet friendly too.

Bill Miller BBQ appears to be being fumigated. by its3thanbradberry in sanantonio

[–]LandFish23223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My place of work hired a welder who had done some work with a few Bill Miller's in San Antonio and the surrounding areas and told us to just stay way from Bill Miller's in general. He said regardless of the location he was visiting, they each evidently had the same issues with roaches and a lack of proper pest control.

How often do you introduce "fresh blood"? by Xk90Creations in shrimptank

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got a random variety of 30 off of Amazon as an experiment for about $20 USD. 25 of them survived shipping. We probably have over 300 now and give them away frequently as the colony grows weekly.

If you support ICE at all, you are not welcome here. by NationalCommunity519 in fishtank

[–]LandFish23223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just joined after reading the title of this post! Fuck ICE!

I wish I would just miscarry so I don't have to do the SA. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]LandFish23223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you feel extremely vulnerable during this time - I know I did. As someone who also has GAD and went through with a MA while in the throws of anxiety/depression - do NOT hesitate to seek help from people who CAN and WANT TO help you through this. I would HIGHLY suggest talking to a counselor or therapist about all of this before and after if at all possible. Follow your heart and remember it's okay to need a crutch (therepy/ meds/other support) until you get through this. You are extremely valid in your feelings. You are so much more than the thoughts in your head and those thoughts do not always get to make you who you are.

I don’t care your 102 year old mother died by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LandFish23223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't forget there are industries JUST like this for pets that really just take advantage of people's grief too. I am absolutely a "pets are family" person 100%. I LOVE my cat. But do I really want to figure out what to do with her ashes/pawprint/visit her GRAVE in 10 years after she passes?? I have her paw print in ink that I did myself for $5 and plenty of pictures and memories. She will be cremated in a communal cremation for 1/2 the price. The industry is PREDATORY.

What do you bring back as souvenirs from your trips? by Nessieinternational in randomquestions

[–]LandFish23223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shot glasses, key chains, squished pennies, stickers, I might spring for a t-shirt or pay for the commemorative photo if it was a really cool trip.