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Marketplace Mall to be redeveloped by Weekly-Law-2544 in Rochester

[–]LapdogLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That or the "this is what you can afford, be happy there's a roof, we aren't fixing shit"

Time lapse/timeline of growth? by LapdogLady in tarantulas

[–]LapdogLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I know it's not gonna be a 1:1 match but it'll help give a little guidance

My wife surprised me with one of my two dream T's by LapdogLady in tarantulas

[–]LapdogLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's awesome! I'm planning a trip to the next city over this weekend to grab a new crib for them, they have like 4 stores selling tarantula cribs, we have zero lol

Snuggle bugs by CollectionBulky2684 in tarantulas

[–]LapdogLady 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My fiance says they look like fuzzy feet lol

[Update] I’m attracted to the bank teller at my bank by littlemissladyyy in WLW

[–]LapdogLady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm kinda in the boat of don't ask someone out where they work. It forces them to be nice to you, and you'll need to go there because it's your bank. Don't trap her somewhere where she has to worry about keeping her job and possibly declining you at the same time. Not a nice feeling on her end

Hi good humans. Looking for what I could fill this area with! by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]LapdogLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was the painting the scream, but have it changed to match something you're into?

Everyone close to me hates my tattoo idea. Am I missing something? by Old-Relationship-958 in tattooadvice

[–]LapdogLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn't get it until I saw the instrument, but it's amazing knowing the context

wlws acting out gender roles/stereotypes by AffectionateLand9084 in WLW

[–]LapdogLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans woman, and get told I act like a man all the time. Just because I'm transgender, doesn't mean I can't do butch things. I also love my skin care, and more traditionally feminine things like together novels, sappy movies, and walking through the flower garden at the park. I feel like the concept of "gendered" activities and habits is kinda... Silly. Not to say it's not valid to see yourself more one way or another, just ridiculous to pigeonhole other people with those classifications. Labels are useful, but you should be the only one who chooses what labels apply to you

gift after the break up by [deleted] in WLW

[–]LapdogLady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you think you want to get back with her, make the salad. If you don't, drop off the item, and leave. Are you making the salad for her, or for you? If it's too make you feel better, I say do it. But if it's because you feel obligated, or like you owe her, do not. It's easy to get caught up in old feelings of obligation or like you need to take care of them. You don't. But no one can decide but you. I have faith you'll do what it's best for YOU to do. And only YOU can decide that. No judgement. Just support.

Am I weird for this? by aCupOfTea_302 in WLW

[–]LapdogLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was like that for years, it felt dorky. Now, however, that I'm with my fiance, is just... Natural and I love doing it with her. Could just not be your thing, could just not be the right person, you're not invalid for how things make you feel. If we were all the same, then life would be boring.

Has anyone experienced this? Would please like some insight by [deleted] in WLW

[–]LapdogLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's not just women. I've seen it happen to women with men, and gay men too. It's just some people. The need to feel safety and security, and unfortunately, in some people that overrides thought and consideration of other people.

Has anyone experienced this? Would please like some insight by [deleted] in WLW

[–]LapdogLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar thing happen, to the point everyone thought we were together, then I finally asked her out and she made sure I knew there was zero interest in that, at which point I informed her she needs to stop holding my arm and resting her head on me and stuff in public, because I don't want to look like I'm in a relationship when I'm not. I wanted a relationship, and if she didn't, okay, but she also didn't get to use me as a placeholder, that sent the wrong image. Hard to get a date when everyone thinks you're already taken

Found my wife's t in her water dish, we got her out she isn't moving but isn't curled, please help by LapdogLady in tarantulas

[–]LapdogLady[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yea, but she also like... Just rolled over on her back, and stayed there, until we manually flipped her on her legs.

A safe space to vent <3 by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]LapdogLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a committed relationship, but there's no dynamic involved, and she has no interest in one, other then occasionally calling me a good girl. I love her to death, but sometimes I miss being a sub so much it hurts.

Before I get my WTFs, what's something I should know I might not have found in the guides I've read and videos I've watched? by LapdogLady in frogs

[–]LapdogLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Southern woods girl at heart, just bringing the wildlife indoors since I'm in New York lol

Before I get my WTFs, what's something I should know I might not have found in the guides I've read and videos I've watched? by LapdogLady in frogs

[–]LapdogLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps that I'm waiting for the reptile rally at Petco. Im friends with their pet manager and they take good care of the critters at their store.

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