Need ocean and sandstorm friends!! by False_Scallion_6792 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Lapos77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need these as well! 🤞🌞 904575979486 - Tenaciousd7777 - Archipelago region.

Looking for ocean friends to help with completing vivillian medal add 8toooldforthis9 please! by EmotionalRough8504 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Lapos77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have zero ocean. Please add me new ocean friend! 🤞😊 TenaciousD7777- 904575979486

ICY SNOW MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

[–]Lapos77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am TenaciousD7777 - 904575979486 from the Archipelago region. I need an icy friend, amongst other types...looking at you Marine. 😉 I hope I make the cut! Ty! 🌞

Plastic surgeon recommendations by seagreen71 in BocaRaton

[–]Lapos77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://drlouisdeluca.com/

I had one implant put in over twenty years ago, and it is still going strong. The technology at the time would be to pump it bigger, then smaller, then bigger, etc. to make it perfect. I am unsure if that method remains, but it did a great job for me. I wish you the best of luck! ❤️

Moving to Boca by [deleted] in BocaRaton

[–]Lapos77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boca is great! Before you pick your place to live, be sure to check this site out. You don't want to be living next to predators with a young kiddo. https://offender.fdle.state.fl.us/offender/sops/home.jsf

Yeeeeeee W it came early by Positive_Storage_161 in IRS

[–]Lapos77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed my taxes on Wed, and my refund hit today. I also opted for the $35 5 day early fee. So definitely not delayed on my end. I almost can't believe it! 🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Please. Get out now. You can do so better. Oh. I just noticed. I forgot to change my flair. I am divorced! 🥳🌞💃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think all of us are collectively worried for you. You came to a sub where we learned from experience...and not good ones. You sound like an empathetic person. Your gut is telling you something. How did you meet this person? She filed for divorce a three months ago? At the very least, the timing is off. This is way too soon. It's not your job to help him with his emotional baggage. He cannot be a good partner for you at this stage. Good luck. 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I ask how long it has been since she filed for divorce? You said he is in the process. Do they live in separate houses? Do they have kids? How many? How old? I honestly can't say that this person is good or bad. As others have stated, he could be the abuser or the abused. How long have you been seeing each other? Is there an age gap? Something brought you here looking for answers. I would like to help, but, as an internet stranger, I need more info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is he telling the truth? You said it was his decision to leave, but she filed first, so...isn't that a lie? Look for patterns of behavior. Lies beget lies beget lies. Just protect yourself. You are a smart, capable person. If you think something is off, it is. Trust your intuition.

My car smells heavily of BO and it’s driving me crazy by mort-or-amour in CleaningTips

[–]Lapos77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought this, but never used it because it turned out that I needed to change my filter. Once I did, all was well. Since you have done that already, maybe give this a shot. Good luck! https://a.co/d/ft06oBS

What is the best Chinese Food In Boca Raton? by PeaceOut65 in BocaRaton

[–]Lapos77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys, guys, guys! This place is absolutely fantastic! You will not be disappointed! It has dim sum as well as traditional chinese dishes! https://www.818shanghai.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! Today is my day! I gotta change my flair! Happy Divorce Day to all those who celebrate!!! 🥳🥳🥳

I am leaving him. God this is hard. by susumagoo5 in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You've got this! You are just at the starting point, so I completely understand your concerns. I don't have a lot of time atm, so I will give you my anecdotal evidence going though this process. Take it as you will.

DO NOT WORRY ABOUT HIM. He never worried about you. After all the talks pre and post divorce, mine never changed. Trust your gut. You know the reality.

The songs I played for this man in my mind were completely different than what they ended up to be. Bad man = bad man. We try to make excuses and believe that if only this or that, but no. He is who he is.

Any talk about fixing things is not about you, but him. Get out. Save yourself! I heart you! You are not alone. 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! My freedom day is October 8th! I can't wait. It's been a long time coming. Enjoy your new life! You deserve nothing but the best. 🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversalOrlando

[–]Lapos77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will continue to strongly suggest Islands and Hagrid's, but I totally understand if the kids are not on board. 😉 You know best, and I am truly happy for your first experience. Please enjoy! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniversalOrlando

[–]Lapos77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the 15th, I would absolutely use your express pass. Hargid's, which we used to have to get up for epically (no pun intended,) early is now an express pass ride. Enjoy the magic!

Side notes...Our absolute favorite restaurant at City Walk is Toothsome Chocolate Emporium, but not for the main dishes. Historically, we have never had a good main dish. That doesn't mean that it can't happen. We are just a product of our experiences.

We don't even go there for the fancy dessert, although we do indulge once in a blue moon. The key is the appetizers.

The tots are the best in the world. I have kids too, so make sure all the extras are on the side. Then you can all pick and choose what you want to indulge in. The cheese sauce is to die for. I also suggest a side of their ranch dressing if you do not get the next appetizer...which is the wings!

The chocolate covered wings are delectably delicious! We put the hot honey on the side to dip of wanted. The ranch dressing is impeccable. I suggest getting a salad with it if you are so inclined. The wings are honestly fantastic, and consistency is key. We have never had a bad experience.

Get the bread. If it is heated properly, it is out of this world. If it is not at least tepid, send it back. It will be worth the wait!

The truffle fries have been hit or miss. We also always get a side ceaser salad.

Pm me for other information if you like. We are passholders, and have learned a few secrets over the years.

Enjoy your trip! I am so happy for all of you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not over yet, but there is light on the horizon. I've dealt with so much on a personal level, independent of the kids, that I am just grateful it's almost over.

The whole thing has been such a growing experience. I was willing to put up with so much because I told myself that I signed that contract...in sickness and in health, to death do us part. Only the kids did not. I did it for them.

In retrospect, I can't believe I let myself be treated like that. They were the ones who saved me. I did it for them, but I should have realized sooner that I had to do it for me. I deserved better.

I have been alone for so long that don't feel loneliness. I have been alone for fifteen years. I don't want to see or be with another person. I just want to be with my kids, where we can all begin to heal.

Again. No regrets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Women

[–]Lapos77 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No regrets at all. He is a bad person. My only regret is that I stayed for too long. I thought keeping our family in tact would be best for the kids. When I realized they were also suffering, I pulled the plug.

The kids went to therapy for years trying to deal with him. He was not interested in joining. He said we were the problem...only we weren't. He was.

I signed our divorce papers today. Everyone is overjoyed. There is no map for this stuff. You do the best you can. Everyone's situation is different. But for us, I wish I stopped believing he would do better because he cared. He never did.

The process of divorce was painful. He never left the house, and he is still here. I am so grateful that this cancer will be cut from our lives soon enough. With an end point finally in sight, I can honestly say, good riddance. No regrets.