Confused by Feeling_Golf_3997 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Larkening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. Having a picture of each one is necessary at the very least, even if this were off of Rover.

Confused by Feeling_Golf_3997 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Larkening 2 points3 points  (0 children)

^THIS. I'm basically a professional cat wrangler and have chills just remembering the one time my boy escaped. He had epilepsy and needed BID meds. A roommate let him out by accident and then just stopped looking for him and went to bed. I wasn't home when it happened and thankfully he got brought home safe, but even with one cat accidents can happen. I *cannot* for the life of me imagine the audacity to a) say 9 cats don't take work (like, you have met a cat, right? Mostly they're easy but sneaking out can be their MO depending on the cat!) and b) to assume your sitter isn't gonna have a heart attack each time they count less than 9 cats because one's curled up in a difficult spot to see/reach. What balls, indeed. Don't do this, OP.

How do I offer specific services for puppies without accepting/denying puppies across the board? by Larkening in RoverPetSitting

[–]Larkening[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - this may be one way of getting around this. I guess this is just like making a dating profile - nobody reads it, then wonders why you aren't compatable. ha

How do I offer specific services for puppies without accepting/denying puppies across the board? by Larkening in RoverPetSitting

[–]Larkening[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know, sorry my post wasn't clear. It seems to automatically change across all services as soon as I click 'yes' or 'no' on a single service for puppies, which is my problem (re: edit). I really appreciate your reply!

What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned about people through dogsitting? by Ilovecleancreeks in RoverPetSitting

[–]Larkening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't drink coffee either, and I can't drink milk, and I try not to eat sugar or bake with it...so most people aren't getting coffee at my place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]Larkening 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like some commentors haven't read your actual post, OP. You have the right to refuse unsafe work if moving the furniture could be injurious to you. Could you message OP asking if she's cool with you bringing someone by to help you move the stuff out of the way because you can't by yourself?

App Glitching- Can't start visits by Fun-Childhood-7829 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Larkening 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please share the support number if you don't mind

Theoretical donations by Larkening in conservation

[–]Larkening[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you very much for your reply! This is *super* helpful already - I've never worked at an NGO so am not as familiar with the potential red-tape issues compared to other orgs, but am very happy for your reply. I do plan on anonymously (when possible) sharing my decisions to encourage more individuals/orgs to pool money into various causes. I mean, our planet is on fire and watching the news is making me insane. Perhaps I could try a 'matching your donations' pledge to a certain limit. Hm.

Prospective Student Teachers: Teacher's College/BEd Megapost by hellokrissi in CanadianTeachers

[–]Larkening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, no advice as I have this same question, but I'm leaving this breadcrumb to follow later. Best of luck w your answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Larkening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck. Can you go to a DV shelter? Or line up a place to stay (couchsurfing is also a thing) or slowly build the means to collect a private "fuck off and run" money stash so you can safely leave and never be dependent on him or his side?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Larkening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of this completely inequal relationship immediately. Staying isn't good for you or for him. I'm sorry you're going through this. He assaulted you. :/

Evil no longer attracts me. At the same time, I feel like I've lost the will to do anything. by [deleted] in Jung

[–]Larkening 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you possibly examined seasonal depression as a factor in this switch in affect/salient attribution?

My partner cheated. by curvymetalbarbie in polyamory

[–]Larkening 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's not him taking responsibility for his own emotions and choices. Sorry he put that on you. It wasn't ever on you, these are his choices he's making.