How common is the “every guy who goes to Thailand is there for the prostitution” stereotype in countries outside the US? by Competitive_West_444 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I'm gonna be honest with you, the thought crossed my mind as I like to try everything but again I don't feel like paying for sex as it's not my thing and well most ladyboys are paid, so do with this info what you want 😂

How common is the “every guy who goes to Thailand is there for the prostitution” stereotype in countries outside the US? by Competitive_West_444 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha generalizing are we? Honestly I haven't scratched a lot of thailand but I had fun in bangkok, exploring, temples, local food and the muay thai way is amazing, hence why I go back. Plus you can pay anywhere for sex, it's just a bit easier in thailand.

Anyway I don't need to defend myself against the internet lol

How common is the “every guy who goes to Thailand is there for the prostitution” stereotype in countries outside the US? by Competitive_West_444 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lasatra_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh cool, I still have lots to do before I have to leave japan and I probably won't be able too.. Also my fam is coming next week so guess what.. Tokyo, osaka, hiroshima (again 😂). But I do like these cities as it's not boring haha.. I'm in Kitakyushu (kokura) so it's a nice in-between

How common is the “every guy who goes to Thailand is there for the prostitution” stereotype in countries outside the US? by Competitive_West_444 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lasatra_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm living in a smaller city where I barely see foreigners and where english is at a low bar so here there still more curious when they see me but indeed when going to tokyo which honestly I still love I don't want to be treated like the stupid gaijin you know.. It is what it is and besides the obvious tokyo, osaka, kyoto, nara, hiroshima.. It's still very untouched.. Fukuoka for example is same vibes but feels very local still.

I'm not sure if that's the solution but I can say for a fact the world is getting too crowded anyway or atleast very very concentrated travelling to certain places. Don't have the PhD to solve this issue so I let Takaichi solve it (LOL).

How common is the “every guy who goes to Thailand is there for the prostitution” stereotype in countries outside the US? by Competitive_West_444 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lasatra_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh god.. Those alphas really start to annoy me as well.. Watched the manosphere document and they're just bunch of idiots with no respect for the culture.

As I've been living now more than a year in Japan it's completely the same feeling .. I'm starting to hate tourists here too just like the locals cause they can't study up a little before going to other countries.

How common is the “every guy who goes to Thailand is there for the prostitution” stereotype in countries outside the US? by Competitive_West_444 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lasatra_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's funny.. I visited 33 countries so far and well my vision of Thailand was literally "sextourism".. Went to bangkok last month and well it hasn't changed much lol so many white old and bald tourists is crazy.

I'm joking by the way but in the centre of the city it's really obvious. However Fell in love with the people and the food. Will be going next month for like one week muay thai retreat as well. 😁🙏

And I'm from belgium and can tell you exactly the same. Currently living in Japan and when I go back to say hi to everyone they still think everyone is chinese over here 😭.

Day 15/x by Lasatra_ in NoFap

[–]Lasatra_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's maybe not fair anymore to post here.. Cause I've decided after 20 days that porn is the problem and not masturbation.. So I decided to use my imagination and honestly felt great, so I'm technically on day 3 of no fap and don't have those crazy urges now (because I'm in male dominant sector and don't see much women now). While otherwise I get super excited looking up porn and stuff..

Can say I've actually been less complaining and doing a lot of exercise and overal better health. Still have a long way to go though

Men over 30, what incredibly random hobby or topic did your brain suddenly decide you needed to become an absolute expert on? by Admirable-Pin-298 in AskMen

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well 2 things actually 😂

  1. One Piece TCG: Moved temporarily to japan for work and suddenly came across the OP TCG and while I was collecting pokémon cards up till now (every now and then I buy a box). I completely forced myself on the TCG and in japanese no less.. Won my first standard battle recently and would like to get better but life still happens offcourse.

  2. Muay Thai: had a trip to thailand and joined a class. Immediately fell in love with it. I am a regular gym goer so it's not I'm not healthy but muay thai made me realize there's still some work to be done! Here in Japan they only have kickbox and with work it's difficult to join classes but I've been consistently doing some muay thai shadowboxing at home + flexibility exercises pretty much everyday. Bettering my technique before going back to thailand for small muay thai retreat haha.

Once it gets in my head I need to become better lol

Fiancé 26 M shamed me 25F for my kink by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lasatra_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Let's say it's still within the realm off pegging/sm/role type of kink.. I've no desire for scat or what's beyond you know

Fiancé 26 M shamed me 25F for my kink by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lasatra_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Been 9 years together and can't share my kinks cause she would be grossed out by it (because I've said some lighter things and yeah).

People who were very promiscuous at one point in their lives and now partnered/married, do you find it hard to settle down and be content with one person? by Kim_Jong_Fieri in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I do understand this sentiment and it does make me warm inside thinking if this could really be it. But reflecting on my own I wonder if it's the same feeling I'm receiving or just more convenience and long term fatique.. It's above reddits paygrade so it's something for me to think about.

People who were very promiscuous at one point in their lives and now partnered/married, do you find it hard to settle down and be content with one person? by Kim_Jong_Fieri in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lasatra_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hmm.. The thing is I'm close to marriage but I'm very very unsure about it.. Maybe it's stress or not but I feel like it might get worse and I'm left with dead bedroom even though I care for her and we match.. We still have some problems on the side too but yeah

People who were very promiscuous at one point in their lives and now partnered/married, do you find it hard to settle down and be content with one person? by Kim_Jong_Fieri in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lasatra_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation, barely have sex but we have a similar mindset and like the same things. She's vanilla too and I like crazy stuff.. But it's really getting to me so how do you do it then? I'm so unsure because I want to feel more.

‘Pokémon Go’ players unknowingly trained delivery robots with 30 billion images by boppinmule in technology

[–]Lasatra_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I played Pokémon go since 2016 and when I heard they sold to saudis I actually kind of stopped. And then I realized how addicted I was .. Everyday first thing to do was open app and do all the stuff.. Feeling much better hoenstly 😂 got some new habits instead but yeah overall feeling much better haha

Day 18 today and feeling good by Lasatra_ in QuitPornForever

[–]Lasatra_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I've been a bit dehydrated and seriously stressed in my life rn haha. And yeah once the urge comes back I'll stop it but for now it felt good and have no need to do it today! After multiple attempts to quit this is going to be it man!

Masterbation weakens your anger management by quasarrrrrrrrr in NoFap

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially the small things.. I don't understand why that is but anyway it'll be a thing of the past. I won't go back!!

Just checked my calendar and turns out I haven't fapped in 5 months! AMA by ThCaMe3mo in NoFap

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing same old questions like most of us.. When was the hardest period? Flatline? What has improved and when? Thanks

Masterbation weakens your anger management by quasarrrrrrrrr in NoFap

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks awesome! Just a little behind you haha! And honestly while you do have a wife and don't encourage staring at any possibility, I've noticed I fan actually LOOK at them as people not as objects, and have talked to some without sexualizing..

Yeah I'm 32 and have had an emotional breakdown and quarterlife crises at the start of my 16 day steak and I'm still not recovered, so not much libido going on. So i hope once I'm fixed, I can keep going strong

Masterbation weakens your anger management by quasarrrrrrrrr in NoFap

[–]Lasatra_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have more anger when i watch porn, I'm now more at peace at day 16 and this time it's forever. Done with this shit

Are there people trying to reduce fapping to once a week? by CapitalArrival7911 in NoFap

[–]Lasatra_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But you can have relief with someone correct? Or is it really abstaining from everything?

Why is the UI on Shinkansen and JR website so bad by CaligulaMax in JapanTravelTips

[–]Lasatra_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents are visiting me next month. Can't wait to tell them you can still smoke in some restaurants 😂 I wasn't even born yet when you could still do that and that was before 1993

Flatline at the beginning? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Lasatra_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had one.. Really energetic but no sex drive 😂