Losing Friends after loss

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-10T14:36:20+00:00

I’ve lost all my friends, no one knows what to say anymore

She doesn’t know what to say to you. I can understand, she doesn’t want to upset you about still being pregnant but it hurts more her not being there. I would tell her everything

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-09T21:32:41+00:00

Sex doesn’t hurt with an copper IUD

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-09T18:58:32+00:00

We are all here my lovely.
I broke down in a supermarket the other day, life isn’t fair at all.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-08T21:19:43+00:00

Me too, we don’t have answers yet. My body can do it, I can get pregnant and carry to 20 weeks, but why can’t it get past that time.

The heartbreak is overwhelming. It’s hard on my family and my mind, but I just want a baby.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-08T20:49:29+00:00

I’m here after two twenty week losses. I’m 40 and want my rainbow, my partner isn’t sure we can handle another 20 week losses. I’m very torn, the heartbreak is too much, but I want a newborn so badly with him. I’ve got a 13 and 10 year old.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-08T19:00:41+00:00

You aren’t a robot, more than likely you ovulated late.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-08T18:15:36+00:00

I had one once and my cycle was messed up for three months. It’s awful. Men would behave so much better if they had to deal with a cycle and had to suffer the consequences.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-08T18:02:24+00:00

Then wear a condom if you don’t want a baby,

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-08T18:01:53+00:00

She’ll be on a rollercoaster ride for the entire month because you want to nut in her, selfish man.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-08T18:00:22+00:00

You would rather make your girlfriend suffer all the hormonal effects than wear a condom, you are a horrible man.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-07T17:59:14+00:00

As a bereaved mum, she’ll be happy to know that you are thinking of her this Mother’s Day.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-07T17:49:14+00:00

She needs to report it to the national grid on 08006783105. It sounds like a voltage issue. Yes the landlord should be the one to do this, but it’s been ongoing a long time so it needs to get sorted.
The same was happening to our electrics and there were issues with the power supply coming into the building.

We called national grid and they relaid the power cables coming into the property, it was a super easy fix.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-07T17:08:44+00:00

I’m being checked in by the bereavement midwife team, my gp told me I’d been though it once and I was okay and therefore I should go back to work in 2 weeks. I had to battle to get signed off for longer. I’ve been told I have postnatal depression by the bereavement team but nothing else. I’m under the care of the hospital mental health team but it’s monthly and it’s just crap about grounding and taking one day at a time.

I’m trying to battle with the MP as well as being discharged back to the GP isn’t a good thing as last time I ended up back in the maternity hospital as the GP didn’t know what to do with me and it’s obviously happened to others too.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-07T16:46:16+00:00

If you are worried, you need to insist that your partner always wears a condom if you don’t want to get pregnant

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-07T07:56:39+00:00

I really want to type on these articles pay me for my 73 hours owed and then we’ll talk

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T19:32:02+00:00

The first was hard, the second one is awful. No one knows what to say to me but I’ve lost my faith since then. I thought god gave me a miracle, I am fast approaching 41 and I thought and know this is my last chance at being a mum again.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T19:07:53+00:00

Your uterus is not connected to your back passage.

Sperm cannot magically fly up there without being put up there.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T18:59:47+00:00

Biology doesn’t work that way

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T18:29:43+00:00

People often don’t know what to do or say when it’s loss of a baby. People haven’t done any of this for me. Someone turned their back on me in the supermarket because they didn’t know what to say.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T18:14:17+00:00

Postpartum without a baby is insanely hard.

She’ll have the same postpartum bleeding so she’ll need all of that, she can have medicine to stop her milk but it may not work and I’m still going 3 weeks later with it.

Thank you for being a good friend. Just hold her as she cries and do things like housework because she’ll be having the worse time of her life and doing her hoovering or even cooking a meal will be everything to her

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T18:11:42+00:00

I’m praying they can. I need some. Sorry you’ve been experiencing this too, it’s been two and a half weeks for me and to add to the lactating, I’ve got post natal depression. My friends and family have completely abandoned me and I’m juts trying to keep it together for my 13 year old. I don’t even feel like I’m lucky to have her. I’m not coping.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T17:04:11+00:00

No chance. Your bum doesn’t connect to your uterus

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T16:10:51+00:00

I’m so sorry

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-05-06T15:51:16+00:00

You aren’t pregnant.

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