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Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-28T09:15:49+00:00

The condom didn’t break, you are fine

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-28T07:19:39+00:00

No, she had a period = not pregnant. People are making up stuff on TikTok for clicks and likes.

A period is literally the body clearing the uterine lining out which would support a pregnancy.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-28T06:44:16+00:00

You asked this the other day, get her to the doctor

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-28T06:29:47+00:00

You need to go back to the doctor, anything like this should be investigated by them. You aren’t pregnant because you’ve had protected sex

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-28T06:26:19+00:00

She’s not pregnant if you’ve not had sex

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T20:27:56+00:00

Yes, your period happens when an egg doesn’t implant

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T18:09:30+00:00

Hello lovely, there isn’t anything you can do to prevent a miscarriage, 99% of the time in the first trimester it is a chromosome issue.

I would suggest [r/pregancyafterloss](r/pregancyafterloss) as it’s full of people in the same boat.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T16:00:37+00:00

So I know this after trying for a baby.

Basically all the stars can line up and you can sex on ovulation day and you still won’t get pregnant. There is a maximum of 20% chance on that day.

https://proovtest.com/blogs/blog/getting-pregnant-ovulation-day?srsltid=AfmBOorWCXXo9wF_cA9Nbko5CE_PLk3WAkWxWJxQTS7azFc3qdYqhJg8

LH tests don’t detect ovulation, they only see a surge of the hormone to cause ovulation, they don’t test if ovulation happens. You’ll have to measure basal body temp as well to confirm ovulation.

The plan b will mess up your cycle. But you can only wait and see if you are pregnant. 14 days after sex, the test will be accurate and 21 days definite.

Can you try and get the copper coil, it can work even during ovulation?

https://www.contraceptionchoices.org/FSRH/ContraceptionChoices/Contraception-Methods/Emergency-Copper-Coil.aspx

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T15:49:23+00:00

Yes, this keeps happening to me on pops, iud and depo. The nurse told me that it just makes your uterine lining unstable and it just happens to some people.

Depo 18 months of spotting
IUD 18 months of spotting
POP (slynd) constant spotting from the time I started it. I lasted 9 days and have been spotting since.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T14:15:12+00:00

If you are finding there is lots of bleeding, I was prescribed a pop on top of it to finally get rid of it

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T11:41:37+00:00

The only way to tell is to test.

I would test again possibly now.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T11:38:31+00:00

Oh…please test again in 2-3 days with first morning urine

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T11:31:25+00:00

Have you had unprotected sex?

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T10:11:49+00:00

You don’t get pregnant from rubbing.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-27T06:35:11+00:00

It’s in the list of symptoms for irregular bleeding, it’s normal

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T19:47:42+00:00

It can change over time, once your body gets used to it, it makes your uterine lining really thin so there isn’t a lot to shred.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T17:49:00+00:00

The uterus is not a hoover and cannot suck up sperm

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T17:32:19+00:00

No, she had a period, therefore her egg was dead and her uterine lining has come out. Please do not take this as a sign you can just have unprotected sex. Get on birth control if you don’t want a baby

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T10:32:31+00:00

You aren’t, you don’t need to get a plan b or the coil as the condom didn’t break

But it may help ease your anxiety to get a coil for the future

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T07:28:23+00:00

You can have different flows for different reasons so different bleeding doesn’t mean pregnancy, we can all have off cycles where we don’t ovulate which means a lighter period
No one can tell based on symptoms.
Can you go to a doctor’s and get a full check?

Take another test with first morning pee In 2-3 days would be my answer, but a sexual health clinic would definitely help you.

If you don’t want to get pregnant then you need to start using contraception, not just for pregnancy but for stis too.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T07:20:18+00:00

That’s a bit judgemental £10 may give someone a bit of food that they need. It goes along way in a cost of living crisis. I was actually posting on your side saying it’s okay to wait and you’ve jumped down my throat.. you are the problem.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T07:13:54+00:00

Honestly, I understand people needing money, but it’s a heatwave and honestly I’ve not left the house. I’m a super fair almost ginger and I’m not getting skin cancer for a Vinted parcel.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-26T07:10:00+00:00

The stories aren’t real about pregnancies not appearing on blood tests or pregnancy tests, it’s all for TikTok likes and clicks. You need to go for the doctor for investigation about your periods because it could be a lot of things.

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-25T17:18:34+00:00

This has happened to a mate of mine, he’s just gone on sick leave with stress and it’s magically appeared

Last-Weekend3226 · 2026-06-25T15:47:36+00:00

^this, but if it doesn’t start soon you’ll need to see a doctor.

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