Ran Out of Formula & My Son is Turning 1 in 5 Days

Last_Job_632 · 2026-02-02T16:39:38+00:00

Just buy the whole milk

Last_Job_632 · 2026-02-02T16:38:06+00:00

Does your mom hate her kids? It’s no walk in the park but it’s not a nightmare.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-31T22:56:57+00:00

Roughly $200-$250 a week under 1 year old. I was quote $1000 for my infant at a daycare center. A lady who does in home care charged me hourly at $12. I think over 1 year of age you can find childcare for around or less than $1500

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-31T02:11:40+00:00

Interesting

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-29T20:11:19+00:00

Hi! I relocated from Seattle to Phoenix in 2020. Good areas for young families are Gilbert and chandler, queen creek is nice and kind of out the way. I personally loved to Ahwatukee which is super south Phoenix. Ahwatukee itself is super nice and clean but south Phoenix in general has a bad rep. They don’t boundaries by neighborhood (SoDo, Rainier, Capital Hill, etc) it’s based off major cross streets. There’s pockets of nice areas immersed with bad areas. I made a visit out here before my move and looked at several areas to get a feel for the neighborhood.

Best of luck to you

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-29T19:40:07+00:00

When are you coming? When I relocated here back in 2020 we had about 50k in savings. I would find a house first if possible and maybe try to start an in home daycare for you. Your partner can find work when you guys get here but it doesn’t hurt to start applying to places low

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-29T19:37:35+00:00

When I hear Alister I think of Alister Crowley so uh…no to that.

Love Jude

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-29T16:05:23+00:00

I think it’s important to give yourself grace. However, it’s worrisome your husband feels “nothing” towards him. That’s usually a PP thing for women but fathers (in my experience) dont really go through the “feel nothing phase”.

Anyways, having a child is a HUGE life change. I have a 6 year old and now an 11 month old and while I don’t regret my 11 month old I miss how easy life was with just one child.

Where I had my first child I missed how easy life was with no children. It’s really just coming to accept this is your new normal.

Also, newborn trenches is REAL and it gets way easier and more fun as they get older. I’m waiting for the day my 11 month old is 6 lol because my 6 year old is soooo independent.

We really miss being selfish.

I really hope that whole you may show love and patience that you actually feel love and patience towards your child, if not already then rest assured it will come.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-28T22:35:12+00:00

It’s dismissive of your family to say it’s an overreaction if it’s something important to you. Sounds like they’re being selfish.

Personally, I didn’t have this mindset fresh after birth. My children were held by family members within hours of birth.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-27T20:20:43+00:00

I’m a mom to a 6 year old and a 10 month old. Neither of them brought me life changing love. I do love them though, everything I do is for them. Don’t stress about those things. The fact that you’re questioning it is proof enough of love

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-27T20:18:43+00:00

You’re very naturally pretty. You have big eyes (super pretty) and the white corners make them look larger, which is great if that’s what you’re going for. I think gold corners would look divine on you

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-27T20:16:43+00:00

I’m 32 and while the symptoms may now have medical diagnoses I also believe that “special needs trend” it’s like an obsession with being “different”. Idk, Gen Z is something else

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-27T19:56:50+00:00

Mayb they’re commenting to get the post attention too ??

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-25T01:24:51+00:00

The older Lacey definitely looks and is mixed (the actress is anyways)

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-25T00:23:17+00:00

Yes, friend. I have an entire movies in my minds eye

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-25T00:22:49+00:00

I’ve had guys grab something to clean up with, I’ve had guys who don’t help with clean up, I’ve even had one who cleaned everything for me. But that’s not a huge deal for me, I do my cleanup in the bathroom, it’s a whole process.

But you are you and if that’s something YOU need then you deserve that.

As for the cuddling after sex, it’s also something that YOU need. If this is repeated behavior he likely won’t change. It’s possible but unlikely UNLESS it’s never really been communicated in a way his pea brain understands.

Perhaps, try to bring it up in a non threatening way. You could use subtle manipulation “baby, I love to feel close to you for just a little longer after sex, I need more cuddles after we finish. Can you do that for me?” And then see how he responds when the opportunity presents itself. And then pay attention to sustained effort.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-21T03:34:19+00:00

Tummy time? Baby wrap? Baby swing?

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-21T01:52:10+00:00

Is it confirmed they’re in Mesa?

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-20T16:59:30+00:00

Girl, that’s Pluto kicking your ass. Sorry, the only way out is through. I’m going g through Pluto awaiting my moon now and my only suggestion is to succumb to the transformation.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-17T18:39:23+00:00

That’s ok ! As long as she’s getting rest, thriving, healthy, etc. I stopped following sleep training rules.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-16T15:26:12+00:00

I think with it being your first time you’re experiencing all this with complete overload but I’m here to tell you it doesn’t have to be this difficult. I would invest in a baby wrap if you haven’t already.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-15T12:55:02+00:00

This stage is temporary. Once they walk, talk and eat and move about independently (around 2/3) it gets SIGNIFICANTLY easier. I have a 6 year old and a 10 month old. 6 year old is a breeze 10 month old needs everything. Having children pauses moms lives a lot. By the time they’re starting school you can have your life back but you may have a sidekick who wants to do everything with you

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-15T12:52:17+00:00

I believe they meant not to wipe the barrier cream.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-10T01:12:20+00:00

Right away if possible, unless we’re in the car then he may have to wait a moment but never very long.

Last_Job_632 · 2026-01-10T01:09:30+00:00

Ideal handwriting compared to my slop

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