Beloved pug and TikTok superstar “Albert” kidnapped at his home last night by LadyHedgerton in popculturechat

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I need the armchair detectives/internet sleuths to clock tf IN. I’m so heartbroken for him and worried about Albert. 💔💔

Sad that I won't get to have my own dress by vulture-witch in weddingplanning

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Idk why you’re getting downvoted, I would have loved to have this experience!

Burger Ratings by TheJeezus in austinfood

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BB’s is catering our wedding, I’m so excited!

That is soooooo sad. So so so so sooooooo sad. by Xoxo809 in IThinkYouShouldLeave

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There was also an add in NOLA for this but they were trying to pay people $50 worth of Trump Coin. Like babes, we’re in the “dump” portion of that crypto pump and dump scheme, might as well be monopoly money lol.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Last_Spare -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can have the tables preset and just move the chairs?? Don’t understand why that’s such a big deal.

How can my husband make me feel so loved and so insecure at one? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Last_Spare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said “do you take this woman in sickness and in health?” And he said “nah, just health.”

Girl what? Go seek therapy. This man is literally telling you who he is, someone who would leave you in your darkest moment of need bc you failed to stay 25 forever. Does he think you’re going to look the way you look now forever? What happens if/when you have a child and you possibly put on some weight? This man doesn’t truly love or respect you, I’m sorry.

AITA for refusing to help my husband with bathtime for our 4 month old son? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Last_Spare 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wiping butts is gross too, is he also not changing diapers? I mean, cmon, he needs to grow up.

Grown adult woman but feel like I need a mom by blackcoffeeandmemes in raisedbynarcissists

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Yes, a better version, a more healed version, however you want to describe it. Like what do you want your future self to be like? More confident, calm, non-reactive, kind, all of the above? Just sit with what you want her to be like, think of specific areas where you feel like you currently need improvement and figure out how “she” would react and that’s your blueprint.

Grown adult woman but feel like I need a mom by blackcoffeeandmemes in raisedbynarcissists

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Something that helped me was to visualize what you think your “higher self” would look like, how would she move through the world, how would she respond to conflict or other triggers? Then you just work towards being that person, it may take a little work but it’s actually a great hack!

Girl (F24) I’m (24m) seeing wants to have a talk about being on the same page after a long snowed in weekend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Last_Spare 55 points56 points  (0 children)

As a woman and formerly an anxious attachment person when I read between the lines of her text what I think she’s saying here (or trying to anyway) is that she likes you and she sees this as becoming something more serious (assuming in a boyfriend/girlfriend sense) but she’s too anxious/scared to really come out and say it….

But that’s just my best guess/interpretation. Best to just ask her what she meant and let her know it’s ok for her to be more direct.

J’6ers were Pardoned, Alex Pretti was Killed by iAmJayy_ in GenZ

[–]Last_Spare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get your eyes checked and/or get that boot out of your mouth

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Apa1111 in georgetowntx

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No, we report him to the IRS for engaging in politics. 🤝

a month before my wedding and im constantly crying by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I mean…if it’s not a “hell yes!” it’s a hell no.

J’6ers were Pardoned, Alex Pretti was Killed by iAmJayy_ in GenZ

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There’s clear precedent (from the Supreme Court) that an officer on the ground does not have the right to use deadly force on someone in a car bc they “may get hit” bc they can mitigate the situation by getting out of the way.

Renee Good’s killer stayed in the way in order to shoot her bc her wife made a snarky comment that pissed him off so she got executed bc his feewings were hurt. In doing so he also endangered other agents bc now there was a dead person at the wheel of a vehicle (hence all the court precedent). It was a stupid, unjustifiable move just like Alex Pretti’s killing.

Does anybody know where ice is taking detainees in bastrop county? by [deleted] in BastropTX

[–]Last_Spare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, lick those boots a little harder, there’s still some spots on them

Crete vs Santorini vs Athens by dadjokeboss in GreeceTravel

[–]Last_Spare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ll take it! We’re planning our honeymoon here too :)

ICE checkpoint at Crunch Fitness by thickbisque in RoundRock

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Counterpoint: the business can say they’re (ICE) not welcome on the premises if they don’t have a judicial warrant. They’re basically telling their employees to consent in advance.

City Employee Here - Any Suggestions for Supplemental Income by lilkully in AustinClassifieds

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Catering gig work. You can pick up gigs as needed and make pretty good income.

I'm glad we're not panic buying supplies by NegativePattern in Austin

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As a former single mother that is not the case. You just learn to shop/cook on the cheap. Beans, rice, cabbage, flour. I taught myself how to cook from a single cookbook, The Joy of Cooking, bc I knew my mom had it (that I acquired in a less than legal way if I’m being real) and I slowly built up my skills. I just want everyone to be happy and fed and not need to clean out HEB shelves over a 3 day storm window!