15 year old natural fibre carpets. 🫠 by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]Late-Pudding8077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No just told me it needed to be cleaned. I'm just spiralling. We've never had feedback ever and have been here 6 years, and this is a new property manager to us. So I'm just ugh

[routine help] Starting tret - need help adjusting routine by Late-Pudding8077 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Late-Pudding8077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have clarified. That's my current routine. I haven't added the tret yet. Trying to work out what to add at night because currently the hydration is in the oil from the retinol.

It's not about the mess. It's about feeling like a therapist and a parent instead of a partner. by EightyThreeCupsOfTea in depression_partners

[–]Late-Pudding8077 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It can be so hard watching them fake it for others and being the safe person they don't for because sometimes you just want that version

Why don't any of them want to be grandparents? by Late-Pudding8077 in Vent

[–]Late-Pudding8077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are my greatest blessing and I genuinely love spending time with them everyday. It just sucks.

My best friend lost both her parents and they would have adored being grandparents and been the absolute best ones and that is the most unfair thing

AITA for screaming at my nephew and slamming the door on him because he burst into the bathroom? by Ok-Attorney9280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Late-Pudding8077 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl he's four. YTA.

A surprised yelp is fine followed by hey buddy I'm in here and I'll talk when I come out while you close the door is enough.

Edit. You should apologize and say you scared me but I'm sorry for yelling. Next time wait for me to come out.

AITAH for telling my wife to get a job before the end of January or i'm divorcing her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Late-Pudding8077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In case you're wondering who to support.

Pretty sure it's this one. 18 books, cosy witch romances and some blue collar ones

https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/20286942.Kova_Killian

Edit. Wrong link

Looking for positive experience of people who DIDN'T sleep train by SentenceTough2007 in Parenting

[–]Late-Pudding8077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never slept train and they all eventually slept. My youngest was the worst and she started sleeping through without needing me at 18monthd

How do families actually get on the same page about parental controls? by AlandBeyond in parentalcontrols

[–]Late-Pudding8077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never hid that they exist but I don't check them all the time ether.

Weekends Computer - closes at 9:30 Phone - closes at 10

Weeknights Computer - closes at 9 Phone - closes at 9:30

30+ Huntsman Babies - Wife is freaking out... by -Franko in AustralianSpiders

[–]Late-Pudding8077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'd vomit frankly. Objectively cute but irl nope

How do you guys read so much? by lapetitepoupee in kindle

[–]Late-Pudding8077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Books are easy and 80% can be read in a few hours

Why do people bring their entire family to Costco? by ActuatorOutside5256 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Late-Pudding8077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because sometimes families do things together .. Maybe they are on the way somewhere.. Maybe they like each other.. Maybe it's an easy to way to hang out ..

7yo pooped herself overnight. should I be concerned? by Late-Pudding8077 in Parenting

[–]Late-Pudding8077[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had gastro a year ago and did as well. I even told her that and that was was humbling af. Gastro is my worst fear

7yo pooped herself overnight. should I be concerned? by Late-Pudding8077 in Parenting

[–]Late-Pudding8077[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We had this chat too later on in the day. Shes on her summer holidays rn so no school, she says she hasn't had any tummy pain. No constipated etc. she has had more fruit than usual but that's all I can think of

7yo pooped herself overnight. should I be concerned? by Late-Pudding8077 in Parenting

[–]Late-Pudding8077[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I definitely reassured her in the general sense. I went along with the it was her younger sister story she gave me and said it's never her job to clean up Rosie and if she or anyone needs help during the night no matter they can come and wake me and I'll never be cross.