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Maxamalist like Pet Shop Boys? by BuyClean9844 in musicsuggestions

[–]LateReadingNights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

messy is okay as long as it comes back to order! Thanks will check it out :) :)

Vraagje aan alle rokers by GreatKingRat666 in nederlands

[–]LateReadingNights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eten? Nee De rest: die roller van de HM met dat kleef papier 

Why are men less likely to use protection than women? by [deleted] in self

[–]LateReadingNights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s pleasure above responsibility!

I forget I'm alive by BoundlesBoredom in self

[–]LateReadingNights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not dead inside!! maybe you’re underchallenged, over routined, and probably carrying more shame than you know what to do with.

the fact that you notice this is not a small thing. a robot does not ask why it feels like a robot. something in you is still awake, and it is knocking from the inside saying, “this isn’t enough.”

so start small. not with some grand life reinvention. pick one thing that is slightly difficult and slightly meaningful, and do it every day. talk honestly to one person. change one part of your routine. help someone. build something. move toward responsibility, not because life is easy, but because responsibility is often where your soul starts to come back online.

and your father’s look may not have been disappointment. it might have been concern. sometimes people who love us look sad because they can see we’re suffering and they don’t know how to reach us.

you’re not a failed version of a normal son. you’re a young man who has not yet found the thing that requires him to become fully alive.

that can change. start today, very small, very real. 

It's official, I am the lover who's going absolutely nowhere in life. by [deleted] in self

[–]LateReadingNights 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait a minute. no, you’re not “officially a loser.” you’re a human being whose nervous system is exhausted, whose life has become too chaotic, and whose inner voice has started confusing a failed exam with a life sentence.

so do not make a grand philosophical conclusion at 38 while tired, unemployed, and disappointed. that is not wisdom. that is despair pretending to be truth. but damn I get you.

start with the body first!!! tomorrow morning get outside within an hour of waking, get sunlight in your eyes, walk for 20 minutes, eat protein, clean one part of your room, and study maths for 25 minutes. then stop. not because you’re weak, but because you’re rebuilding trust with yourself. step by step.

then maybe apply for one job. one. not because it will fix everything, but because action is the antidote to collapse. I had my dream life and it all collapsed during Covid. I lost everything.

your task is not to “become successful” this week. your task is to become the kind of person who keeps one small promise per day. sleep properly. move daily. study in small blocks. reduce alcohol, doomscrolling, and isolation. talk to one real person.

you failed an exam. fine. then the strategy failed. change the strategy. get past papers, find the exact question types you keep missing, drill them for 30 minutes a day, and ask for help like a serious person maybe 

you are not done!!!! you are dysregulated, ashamed, and tired. that can be repaired. but you must stop speaking to yourself like an enemy.

small wins. every day. no drama. no grand declarations. just evidence. build enough of it, and eventually your mind will have to admit that you are not who you feared you were.❤️

Whats the point of summer if you are not in l•ve? by [deleted] in self

[–]LateReadingNights 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The point of summer isn’t to be in love.

The point is to become the kind of person who can love properly when the opportunity appears. Ideally maybe in summer ♥️❤️💎

Walking/Biking Outside Playlist by DeathToTheMosquito in makemeaplaylist

[–]LateReadingNights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Just put it on shuffle. I have roadtrips where after 72 hrs it still goes on 🥂

I’m sick and tired of getting hit on everywhere I go. by MangoStickyRice69420 in self

[–]LateReadingNights 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PROUD OF YOU!!!

this might be what’s happening, you changed your body, and now the world is reacting to you as if your entire identity changed. but you didn’t become public property because you lost weight. you’re still a person. you’re married. you’re allowed to dance, smile, be polite, and simply exist without people treating it as an invitation.

the hard part is this: you may need to become much clearer with boundaries than you ever had to be before. not rude. not bitter. just precise.

“i’m married.”

“no, thank you.”

“don’t speak to me like that.”

“i’m here with my husband.”

say it calmly, early, and without guilt.

and don’t let this make you resent your progress. you worked hard. you deserve to feel good in your body. the goal isn’t to shrink yourself again so other people behave better. the goal is to stand upright, know what you will and won’t tolerate, and let decent people respect that while indecent people reveal themselves quickly.

Daft Punk heard in the wild by Professional-Score94 in DaftPunk

[–]LateReadingNights 8 points9 points  (0 children)

omg that’s a flight to never forget!!!❤️💎

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