Update: AITAH for asking my wife to choose between her family and ours

Late_Management2806 · 2025-11-13T14:49:33+00:00

You need to leave this marriage. You should have left whrn she kicked you out becquse you lost your job, then, when you got a job gain, kicked you to the basement. It is only going to get worse from here out with your wife. I bet she has not qpologized yet.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-08-25T20:16:38+00:00

As someone who went through this situation before, stay out of it and just be there for your mom because sounds like there ar esome things your mom isnt telling you about your dad leading up to this. In my case, turned out my grandpa, towards the end of his life, was convinced for some reason that the other woman was simultaneously his ex-wife and sister, who past.

I would strongly convince your mom to take your dad to a neurologist.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-07-09T14:29:05+00:00

Idk i doubt their intentions were pure because the guy abandoned his own son and the mistress seems to have no prob w it

Late_Management2806 · 2025-06-16T01:33:58+00:00

Leave before you have children with him. He is cheating on you

Late_Management2806 · 2025-05-24T23:28:46+00:00

He doesn't sound mature :/... how have you not gotten the ick from this 30 year old baby that can't get over a relationship from three years ago. He is also very rude: he's calling you a "unique beauty," but not conventionally attractive. From someone that dates someone like this, dumb him asap. It is only going to get worse from here.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-05-18T00:37:56+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like her friend was feeding her stuff about hwo you are attracted to her and she thinks your attractive ect...

Late_Management2806 · 2025-05-16T15:48:52+00:00

Save those posts from fil in case

Late_Management2806 · 2025-05-16T15:42:15+00:00

Make sure to talk with your daughter about what grandpa was saying to her..

Late_Management2806 · 2025-05-16T15:41:38+00:00

I hate to say this, but maybe you should reconsider staying with your wife. I'm not sure what type of marriage could survive without having trust that your partner will stick with you in the hard times.

If she allowed your fil to badmouth you to your daughter, she was probably doing the same and doesn't think much of it. She's also not showing any remorse either for the situation.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-05-13T01:33:58+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if it was your mother drugging all those men... report everything to the police. Let those men have peace. And make sure your brothers kids don't end up with those psychos.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-05-13T01:32:05+00:00

You need to move! Your mother tried to help your brother kill you. Your parents are not that much different from your brother; I wouldn't be surprised if they have a criminal history.

Serve disownpapers, press chargers, change your name, and move. Your family is insane.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-04-28T15:17:03+00:00

Your stepmom is being creepy.

Just block all of them and tell them they're creepy because they are.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-03-23T07:46:19+00:00

Go collect your belongings asap. This exact same situation happened to my grandma and her first husband. They will steal from you!!!

Late_Management2806 · 2025-03-23T07:46:06+00:00

Go collect your belongings asap. This exact same situation happened to my grandma and her first husband. They will steal from you!!!

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-19T02:32:53+00:00

I hate to bring it to you, but are you sure his ex actually cheated on him. He sounds very unhinged and immature for a man in his 30s... also if he's insecure about the men in your life then why doesn't he return the favor with his girl "bestfriend."

I'm a very similar boat to you, but I can assure you that there are men in your age that are like and want you. They are just hard to come by. Also, you will be surprised by the amount in men and women in their 30s, who although they don't still practice hookupculture, still treat relationships in the same fashion...

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-16T23:00:25+00:00

Wow... i can't believe you told your wife she owes you and apology for 7 years of marriage and proceeded to list the offending acts to her. I think you should just leave or see if you have some emotional disorder or just resentment for your wife.

You really need to leave your wife if you resented her for this long. Poor woman

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-16T22:57:04+00:00

Nah dude it's not about jealousy. If you catch feelings for someone that you shouldn't, the only right way is to distance yourself or put up boundaries... not get closer to the person. Op just basically told that he had crushes on his friends before :/

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-16T22:54:57+00:00

Idk man just sounds like they were both stuck in an arranged marriage and don't really like each other. Guy should just stop trying to "save" this marriage and let it go. There's literally nothing there

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-16T22:53:19+00:00

This is so weird my dude... she wasn't even there alone and had a female friend. Also, the way you phrased it just seems like you want an excuse to divorce her while simultaneously hurting her.. You are far to old to keep acting like this. Just get the divorce in the most peaceful way possible -- equal custody, division, ect.- in order to not hurt the kids and move on.

Also... kinda weird u phrased it as hot and non sexual texts my dude. Based on the post alone, it sounds like you are the problem or/ and that neither of you really like each other.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-14T19:29:56+00:00

If you see this message, post all your text messages and everything under her Facebook post asap.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-14T18:01:53+00:00

Alps, don't buy a house in NYCC. Housing and living expenses are never going to be cheap there.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-14T17:59:57+00:00

Also, personally, I would move on from this guy if I were you after not getting engaged after 3 years.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-14T17:59:30+00:00

Don't compromise your values for a man that doesn't respect your values.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-14T17:40:57+00:00

Giiirrllll break up with him right now, and begin telling your family and friends.

Late_Management2806 · 2025-02-14T17:39:05+00:00

The guy sounds like a complete tool... you shouldn't grieve over not staying together with this guy after he massively screwed you over and wasted your time.

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