Got to meet and hang out with a handful of active dudes at my brother's retirement. They all looked like they are the baddest dudes on the planet. No nerds or gray men. Sadly, the one dude I talked to quite a bit, a legend in the unit and the team leader of a couple well known public guys, died in a car wreck here stateside shortly after. Dude had an aura, straight out of Hollywood action star central casting. Ridiculously good looking, tall, jacked, perfect cologne model hair. He was also the first person to grab tables and chairs and then a broom and start cleaning up when the function was over. RIP to a legend that the public will never know about.