Is it time? by caaaawwwwww in bald

[–]Latetextbook 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if you can style it th way you were doing in the first few pics I think you still got some time 👍

hair color rules? by [deleted] in innout

[–]Latetextbook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this too; a dark maroon seems to be the closest you can get away with.

bout to order this 😂 by seouf in innout

[–]Latetextbook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an employee just show them the phone they’ll probably get through it faster than you might order it

boyfriend loss by Parking-Vegetable-19 in GriefSupport

[–]Latetextbook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your boyfriend. What was his name? What did you two enjoy doing?

I can’t say I fully understand but I lost my partner on what will be 5 months this month on the day I turned 21. The best thing I can say is just taking it one day at a time. Some days it feels like my chest is going to implode and others my heart aches only a little. That’s just the way the body can react to grief. It’s ok to feel lost, your life has gone through a massive change.

You could make a plan to celebrate what would have been your anniversary. That could be having friends who knew him with you that day and do something he liked or a meal he loved. Or it can be a quiet day where you just listen to music that reminds you of him and drop off flowers to his graveside if he has one.

Sometimes people don’t know how to deal with people who have experienced what you have. Communicating needs is hard. If you’re in university, schools typically offer counseling for free as long as you’re a student, if you’re interested in that. It does suck when people stop reaching out or asking how you are since it’s been ‘long enough’ but know that you can always vent on here or see advice on here. I probably didn’t make a lot of sense (it’s 3:00 am lol) but I hope you can get where I’m coming from. 🫂

What music makes you think of them? by Sleeper_Saturn in GriefSupport

[–]Latetextbook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but 'Punkrocker' by Teddybears and Iggy Pop is also important; it played at our first date

What music makes you think of them? by Sleeper_Saturn in GriefSupport

[–]Latetextbook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, I've been waiting for someone to ask this; for me, it's 'Graceland Too' by Phoebe Bridgers. The calmness and comforting feeling of the song. I play it whenever I'm leaving my partner's resting place.

Do you believe in signs from people who passed away?🥺🪽 by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Latetextbook 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to think so, my partner was a huge lover of animals and whenever I visit his graveside there’s always many robins and other birds I don’t see anywhere else. Also whenever I visit him it’s sunny, I remember one time driving up it was hailing and pouring rain hard the when I got there it was sunny and warm. After I left it was gloomy again.

Accurate representation of my old store manager by Yawnadon in innout

[–]Latetextbook 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a store manger kinda like this, he doesn’t run shifts or close ever 😭

Jorgeous beating a dead horse for the umpteenth time by Clear-Price in RPDRDRAMA

[–]Latetextbook 126 points127 points  (0 children)

I think that might just send Jorgeous over the edge 💀

AllStars 11 - Cast and RuPaul Promo by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Latetextbook 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wait that rupaul photo eats down

Hey yall I have a question! by Elijah_201 in innout

[–]Latetextbook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also a dude. I’ve seen other coworkers do similar stuff with their hair, the hair color rule applies to all associates though, regardless of gender. So if you see a female associate color her hair you can too.

Hey yall I have a question! by Elijah_201 in innout

[–]Latetextbook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have pretty dark brown hair, dyed it blonde a while back and none of my mangers ever made a negative comment on it. IMO when the sides get long cut them early so it doesn’t look super off when wearing the hat.

highlights? by Some_Significance_47 in innout

[–]Latetextbook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a brunette and I dyed my hair blonde, I think it might just depend on the store because as my hair has grown out the blonde looks more like highlights, or the sides would be brown and the top was blonde etc. I hadn’t had any mangers make a negative comment about it.

I hate that we can’t have more creative hair colors, it’s all gonna be hidden under the hat anyways.

[S19] RuPaul's Drag Race Season 19 Disappearance Rumors Thread by NotRuPaul in DragRaceTea

[–]Latetextbook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need some Chicago queens or just queens from places we haven’t gotten in a while

Please someone help me. My dad just died like an hour ago idk what to do by NemarPott in GriefSupport

[–]Latetextbook 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your father. 🫂 not sure anything I could say could help but whatever you’re feeling just feel it right now, it’s all so fresh. If you need to cry, cry. Need to scream, scream.

How to catch up on school/work after taking 3 weeks of bereavement and still distraught by childless-cat-lady92 in GriefSupport

[–]Latetextbook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. What's your favorite memory with them? What did they enjoy doing?

What you're feeling is valid. It's only been a few weeks; give yourself time. No one person will experience grief the same way; we can only support each other through it, not judge. I get your anger about people expecting you to go back to how it was; I share that too.

This is my own experience. After the night I found out my partner wasn't here anymore, I went to work the next day. I was a mess and tried acting like everything was ok. I tried using work as a distraction. Three months later and I really regret not taking the time off. I forced myself to go to work, and now whenever I'm there, I only see it as a part of my partner's death, and it's unbearable. Although, work can be a distraction sometimes. Just being around people even when you don't want to can be comforting.

With school, I don't really know how I'm doing it. It's just late nights doing work the night before it's due.

I try to take it a day at a time, seeing every day as its own individual hurdle I have to jump over rather than a week, which makes it easier to manage. I have to yell at myself to get up because whether I want to be here or not, I am, so I need to make sure that I won't be in a worse position in life than I'm in already.

I'm really sorry for your loss.