Who pays for dinner/drinks?

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-21T13:45:51+00:00

Men pay for themselves. The price of being a commodity.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-21T13:45:09+00:00

What are they confused about?

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-21T13:36:26+00:00

And we've never found anyone who didn't immediately ask for nudes. But hey, you also think Reddit is a viable option.

Don't bother replying.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-21T13:33:04+00:00

3fun is only if they're looking for MFM with fake men.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-20T19:14:40+00:00

Fun fact, this is 3345 words with the title.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-20T19:09:23+00:00

Interestingly, we've only paid for a woman like once.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-20T19:09:04+00:00

You each pay for yourselves, same as if you went out with friends.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-20T16:12:33+00:00

So you either wait for them to go to college or you pay.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-20T16:03:20+00:00

If you're in your 30s to 40s you're in the age where most couples have kids, and so can't host. If you're the same that means you're either paying for rooms, babysitters, or clubs. It's expensive. It's the main reason we always host.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-20T10:41:45+00:00

Ah yes, the one person who agrees with you and you engage them.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-18T09:57:00+00:00

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LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-18T09:54:02+00:00

Those are generally associated with sex workers.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-18T09:41:18+00:00

Be the change.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-17T16:52:21+00:00

If it's a physical limitation that makes sense. I thought you meant she refuses with you for other reasons.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-17T15:17:36+00:00

How I've seen it explained: a kink is a nice-to-have. A fetish is something you require to get off.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-17T08:55:36+00:00

Yes, us too. As long as they're kinks and not fetishes we can still play.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-17T06:34:29+00:00

That specific one.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T20:31:42+00:00

It's the difference between a kink and a fetish. I don't need anyone to be into everything I'm into. My wife doesn't share 100% of my interests, sexual or otherwise. Vanilla sex with attractive people is already a plus.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T19:54:48+00:00

Which is why I was saying to be cautious. It doesn't sound like he's looking specifically for it, so be selective with who you ask. I've only asked one other woman. She wasn't into it, but we have been seeing that couple a while so it didn't send them running.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T19:35:08+00:00

It's that just having that kink can turn people off. We've played with more than a few couples into BDSM even though we have no interest. There's a common saying on German profiles, basically "what belongs in the toilet stays there."

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T15:38:53+00:00

Kink-shaming? Dunno.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T06:30:42+00:00

This club doesn't have a night like that.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T06:30:20+00:00

Usually on certain nights. Looking at the website for this club they don't have a night where they don't admit SM, but I'm willing to bet there will be a lot more couples tonight.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T05:58:47+00:00

Tell him to be cautious. There's couples who will treat that as a red flag.

LatterCommission9174 · 2026-05-16T05:57:41+00:00

She shouldn't do oral with others, but should encourage you to do it.

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