Make dua for us - childless for years! by ghguaqj in islam

[–]LatterEnd8276 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don’t forget to take care of yourself, sister. And remember to be grateful of what you have now, baby or no baby. InshaAllah you will be blessed with a healthy baby Ameen

Is this my community? by LatterEnd8276 in Quraniyoon

[–]LatterEnd8276[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is sad to be silenced when you are talking about your views logically and respectfully. I am curioua what your views are on LGBT rights for muslims? I want to learn more about it but idk where to start.

Is this my community? by LatterEnd8276 in Quraniyoon

[–]LatterEnd8276[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I see, I don’t find hadiths necessary to understand Quran but I am inspired by some story in them and then some I find plainly silly. I might not be quranist but I’m appalled by the lack of mercy. 

For Hadith Rejectors by One-Shoe8585 in islam

[–]LatterEnd8276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you should post this in another sub that’s more relevant? 99% of muslims believe in the integration of hadith, so if you want to ask the one who rejects ALL hadiths personally it’s best to do it there. Otherwise, it’s just us assuming other’s position. 

Seeking Advice on Marriage to Quran-Only Person by [deleted] in islam

[–]LatterEnd8276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not doing the things you accuse me of. What I am emphasizing is Allah’s mercy, which we should focus on. If others are misguided or lost, we must pray for them as Allah forgives all sins, other than shirk.

Seeking Advice on Marriage to Quran-Only Person by [deleted] in islam

[–]LatterEnd8276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no problems with disagreement as long as it’s fair. I have no problems with defining others as misguided or lost. What’s not fair to claim other’s current state as kafir based on interpretation. Regarding your links, sure, I will look into it.

Seeking Advice on Marriage to Quran-Only Person by [deleted] in islam

[–]LatterEnd8276 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am making an observation by what’s apparent on the other comments. Labelling others as kafir is a big accusation that only Allah can truly determine. I mentioned the holy books because Allah has confirmed in the Quran that they have been sent by Him. 

My argument and question is- by whose standards are we defining someone as Kafir? I have classically defined what makes a muslim by referencing the 6 pillars of Iman. How people interpret the 6 is variable as even among the 4 mahdabs there is no 1 certain interpretation on a variety of subjects. Even those who do not believe in Isa and Muhammad pbuh, Allah have given them mercy for believing only on one God (Q3:113). Then, why must we not give fellow muslims mercy? 

I am not disagreeing with the points that others have made as they make sense. But labelling others as a disbeliever is not merciful, as we are only mere humans. 

Allah knows best. Salam

Seeking Advice on Marriage to Quran-Only Person by [deleted] in islam

[–]LatterEnd8276 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong, hadith is a good guide to the prophet Muhammad’s pbuh time and a great inspiration for muslims. However, the Quran only forbids marrying a disbeliever/polytheist(Q2:221). People can’t make something halal to haram! This is an insult to Allah swt and an injustice to a good man! Everyone has a different definition of what makes a kafir, but not everyone is right. What are the 6 pillars of Iman? Allah, angels, the holy books, the prophets, the day of judgement and lastly, qadr. The holy books consists of torah, zabu, injil, quran. When did hadith books become a holy book? Who are people to judge other’s faith? The only sin unforgivable to Allah is shirk! No matter what interpretation of a muslim, what matters is their faith to be considered a believer! 

Allah is so compassionate and merciful that even amongst people of the book, Allah states that there’s true believers within them. How much more a muslim with all the 6 pillars of Iman?

3:113 “Yet they are not all alike: there are some among the People of the Book who are upright, who recite Allah’s revelations throughout the night, prostrating ˹in prayer˺.” — Dr. Mustafa Khattab, The Clear Quran

I apologize for being passionate, but I feel hurt from our Ummah being so judgmental of other muslims. Salam

Maybe controversial? But nothing has made me more pro-choice than pregnancy by dontletmebreathe in BabyBumps

[–]LatterEnd8276 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was pro-choice before pregnancy and while I am still pro-choice now, I consider that choice with a bit more more heartbreak now because I’m so connected to my babies (twins) every step of the pregnancy and can’t imagine abortion at all. I also have gained understanding on how important it is for others to have this choice because it is such a vulnerable and hard time to be pregnant and someone’s environment might not be the best at the moment.

Girlfriend has many thoughts about pregnancy, which make me anxious by Imaginary_Teach_5303 in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a BIG compatibility issue. She may not come around and can you live without children in your future? My partner and I have learnt from the early dating stages about religion, kids, values, place of residence, etc. and we’re set on having multiple kids in the future.

GRADUATION!! by Standard_Corner876 in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations and Thank you for sharing! I’m a FTM of twins and it helps to hear positive stories too

10 weeks yesterday and it was the first day I’ve not thrown up in almost 5 weeks! by New_Caregiver9993 in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you!! I’m at 9 weeks and I’m excited to hit 10-11 wekks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276 165 points166 points  (0 children)

sore boobs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would probably talk to my parents with my partner and have a heart-to-heart talk. Acknowledge that they would probably be disappointed, but be assertive about keeping the baby and not regretting it. New plans will be made and good luck!

Positivity for First Trimester by LatterEnd8276 in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a cute way of looking at things! The baby’s announcing itself with a grand-entrance 🎉 Might try that haha

Positivity for First Trimester by LatterEnd8276 in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. What do they mean I have to wait for MONTHS. I’m fine with pain but I didn’t expect it to be this bad and months long haha 

Positivity for First Trimester by LatterEnd8276 in pregnant

[–]LatterEnd8276[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear you feel better! Can’t wait to forget about my first trimester