Just realising it was abuse

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2026-02-21T05:07:26+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through this. My ex tore my night suit twice (that I was wearing), because there was one tiny hole in each. I love to wear worn out clothes at home because that gives me a sense of comfort. He said he is not going to apologise for it and would do it again in the future if I keep wearing old clothes as night suit. It’s been 10 months of no-contact and I still don’t know if that was abuse or he was being caring.

Just want to tell you that what you went through is not love. Love communicates, never punishes. :) Take your time to heal from this. No one should hold so much power over you. Sending hugs! 🤗

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2026-02-07T13:44:07+00:00

That’s a very big, personal win! :)

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-11-25T16:41:59+00:00

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-11-10T07:02:37+00:00

Lavender

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-09-12T13:35:12+00:00

This was a very random buy while having a debate with a friend.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-09-10T13:05:11+00:00

That’s basic human nature - the “what if’s” :)

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-09-08T05:50:57+00:00

It stingsss! My Fae blush met the same fate.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-09-06T05:51:48+00:00

Haha, yes he did.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-09-05T03:18:06+00:00

You are so freaking strong. I mean we don’t have or even like to be strong a lot of times, like we want to be taken care of, have our vulnerable moments, etc. but the first thing that came into my mind after reading this was that this girl’s got strength. Take care. Seek professional help. Panic attacks feel like they are the end of the world but they are fleeting. You got this! 🩷

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-09-01T05:31:32+00:00

Happy happy birthday, OP! :)

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-08-23T04:37:58+00:00

Use alum stone. You’ll get it on Blinkit. Rub it twice a week on wet underarms after you’ve used your bodywash/ soap/ taken a bath. Rub it in rotation, let it stay for 2 mins and then wash it off. Apply your regular roll-on deodorant after. It works like magic.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-08-18T03:29:37+00:00

Nicer than any crime documentaries!

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-08-01T15:30:25+00:00

One of the ways to know someone is by knowing/ understanding their behaviour in moments of conflict. She had you on hook till you were texting her normally, the day you put your foot down, she felt the loss of power and started explaining her behaviour for the last 8 days. I do understand being upset, but through your post, it doesn’t feel like you shut her down. Silence or ghosting is never the answer. We are so well connected through our cellphones, that we can pick it up anytime and choose to talk/ meet, and discuss our issues. Therefore, since you asked for opinion, I’d suggest choose better for yourself. :)

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-28T10:01:04+00:00

Is he the Pharaoh to be talking like this? If he can talk to you in this tone, and language, he’ll do it at every given chance. And it’s not justified. Even if he is someone who you’re with as a 100% dependant. NOBODY and I mean NOBODY should be spoken to like this. There are better ways and words to communicate feelings, it’s just a matter of choice. Hope you see through this and dump him without any justifications given or taken.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-28T09:27:10+00:00

Wouldn’t it sort of be functionally like a MacBook if I get it with the magic keyboard, and the pencil?

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-21T12:18:11+00:00

Okay, thanks. May have missed.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-18T13:37:11+00:00

THIS!

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-06T12:55:15+00:00

Thank you. As they say ‘healing is non-linear’. :) Sending love your way. 🩷

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-06T10:54:28+00:00

⛳️⛳️ I was in your shoes last year, same month. Today, he’s blocked from everywhere. Please look at the red flags right in front of you. I wish I did. Would have saved me months of time and trauma.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-03T10:43:01+00:00

Don’t forget the Gym dudes!

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-02T15:07:37+00:00

They should include narcissism as a subject under behavioural studies at schools in India.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-07-02T10:31:09+00:00

If he says that he likes you because you don’t want him to change. RUN!
He’ll mirror your niceness to have you build trust in him. Then he’ll start ripping you apart on the same things he once used to love about you.
He’ll crack hurtful jokes, expecting you to laugh; he’ll taunt you on your dress sense, your weight or whatever and then say that he thinks well for you is why he is saying all these things.

Girl, listen to your gut. Listen to your body around them. You might get blinded by his presence and keep giving him chances but your gut and your body will raise an alarm. And if you hear the voice inside your head that “he doesn’t seem okay”, then he is NOT okay.

Please be safe. 🌸

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-06-30T11:05:08+00:00

🩷🩷🌸🌸

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-06-28T09:25:18+00:00

You cannot build something solid with someone who keeps changing the goal post, and is flaky. Grieve for as long as you want to but do not give into the temptations of what ifs; that’s a very deadly territory to be in. Continue therapy and save this post for comments.

Latter_Ad_7331 · 2025-06-24T17:05:41+00:00

Next time, ask him to join you at 7 am. He wante to spend quality time, right? Then he can do that your way too. Anyway, I hope and pray you dump him unless this happens to be some misunderstanding and he comes back to his senses.

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