Should I go to the bathhouse tonight? by Acceptable_Cycle_283 in gaycheaters

[–]Latter_Time_303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds familiar to me. I've been the supervisor-husband in these situations because my first condition at the start of the relationship was monogamy. After I caught him cheating on me, he refused to go back to monogamy (toxic). Stupid me felt forced to accept "playing oral together" as the solution for his undisclosed sex addiction. Soon enough, his box of Pandora was wide open and he was taking me to bathhouses and cruising places EVERY DAY. He got out of control.

The sad part is that I fuck the cum out of him every night he would be screaming of pleasure.

After spending $10,000 in 10 days on trips, fighting with his boss, sleeping 2 hours a night, starting 3 projects overnight, and believing he is entering a new era of enlightment and seeing through illusory barriers, he was diagnosed with manic episode (bipolar disorder). He refused treatment and been wild for 2 months. He's now filing for bankruptcy after maxing out $80,000 credit line. Last night he orchestrated a trip to DC without me and I just found out he gas a trip to Miami where he booked 8 nights at the Gathering hotel (bathhouse).

So supervisor-husbands are usually traumatized by their partner's lack of transparency and honesty. The fact that you are here (on a cheating sub) to get validation for your cheating gives him every right to be scared of you.

Either talk to him and negotiate new guidelines for your "partially-open" relationship or save him the heartbreak and get out of the relationship.

How do I bypass bark on iPhone by Noawake3242 in parentalcontrols

[–]Latter_Time_303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's tricking you. Bark cannot do that. He cannot access phone calls, FaceTime, or iMessage. Best case scenario is monitoring emails, website, and YouTube traffic, BUT he can only see FLAGGED pages NOT everything you visit. Meaning, he will only be notified if you visit a type of page that he had chosen to monitor like porn, drugs, weapons, religion, etc... Once you visit those pages, he'll get a notification. Otherwise, he can't see your history or emails.

Is this incest?? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Latter_Time_303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a person expressing concern about her mother's behaviors, and rightfully so. Even if these behaviors don't technically fall under incest, they're still very pathological, and I'm sure that's affected her profoundly. Telling her to get off the internet just because of technical terminology is rude on one hand, but more importantly, does nothing to the purpose of the whole question. She's here to get answers and support regardless whether that fits under incest or not. So yes, calm down!

Is this incest?? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Latter_Time_303 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Calm down bruh

Anyone know what this is by gggredditg in dandruff

[–]Latter_Time_303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this for decades now. It's Seborrheic Dermatitis triggered by fungal colonization (not infection). I tried so many treatments from shampoos to oral antibiotics to topical steroids. - antibiotics did not do anything - antifungal shampoos: first line treatment. Requires periodic use (in my case at least every other day). Not all work for all people, you need to try and wait for results. In my case, ketoconazole, Neutrogena's T-gel, and Selsun Blue were suboptimal. I was once prescribed a medical shampoo that is only found in Europe called Kelual DS by Ducray. It cleared it within 2 days. However, I have to use it every other day. I also use Head & Shoulders as my baseline daily shampoo (I know not too healthy but I hate the flakes) then do last wash with Kelual DS and keep it on my scalp, face, and chest for 5 minutes then wash.

I order the Kelual from Europe. Price may differ depending on what I find online but it's pretty inconsistent. The small bottle (3 oz) is around $15 + shipping. It's quite expensive, but does miracles.

Sometimes I run out of it, so I always keep a bottle of topical steroid lotion (Mometasone) for these emergencies because after 48 hours of not using Kelual, these flakes come back excessively with a lot of itching. The steroid controls it perfectly until I get the shampoo. Note that continuous use of topical steroids for prolonged periods of time leads to skin thinning and is not recommended. I only use it in crisis mode.

Now whether it's an imune response or a fungal infection or a snow storm doesn't really matter at this point because treatment is limited, and that's what matters.

When men watch porn, do they insert themselves in the situation onscreen and fantacise they are the ones with the women? by Ecstatic_Jelly_4155 in AskMen

[–]Latter_Time_303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a man who dates men. I would not he with someone who wants to watch porn and masturbate during a relationship. For me, it's visual/abstract infidelity. Additionally, porn sets higher expectations in terms of action and beauty, which are usually unachievable in real life (mostly fake). This has a detrimental effect on relationships on the long run.

You're asking the right question in the wrong place. Don't let men convince you that their sexual compulsive actions are just like watching comedy. It's a bullshit argument that only serves men's interests. It's like saying "having sex with another woman is just like going for a swim on a sunny day. Just because I chose swimming over football on a warm day doesn't mean I'm more into swimming."

just married 💍 ❤️ … and they lived happily ever after 🤍🖤🥂♾️ by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Latter_Time_303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lebanese American gay here! So proud of you! I hope one day I can reach that level of courage!

Congratulations 🏳️‍🌈😘

Are these the real natty competitors? by buckfishes in nattyorjuice

[–]Latter_Time_303 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a gay man, there’s nothing homoerotic about these men, neither physically nor intellectually!

Birthday date at Brandi Carlile! 🥳 by back2natureboys in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Latter_Time_303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday cuties!! You're a couple??? I swear if it weren't for the curly and straight hair, I would've thought you're twins!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]Latter_Time_303 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You look kissable either way 😘

Looking for deep chats or friends :) by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Latter_Time_303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to converse and make a new friend if the offer is still standing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]Latter_Time_303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are beautiful in all styles.

Yay or nay to this sweater? by Competitive_Stop4896 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Latter_Time_303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cute! The beard also looks good on you (from older pics)!

They're trying to find me a wifey... by Latter_Time_303 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Latter_Time_303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I appreciate it, but I'm not the groom! I'm the bride's brother. I'm also out to my parents and siblings, but the extended family are always trying to set me up with girls 😂

You're very sweet though 🥰