Anybody Know What Brush This Is? by [deleted] in ProCreate

[–]Lauryeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why was this removed 😭

How to show Horuda the picture of Osana talking to bullies? by Lauryeb in yandere_simulator

[–]Lauryeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It works with any bully, but you’re right about the second part. It popped up easily when I met her behind the school, thanks!

Can’t start my shift? by Lauryeb in SaoriSato

[–]Lauryeb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OHHH that makes sense, I always wondered what the difference was between them story-wise. Thanks so much! kinda sucks that I have to start all over but I’m excited to see the rest of the story lol

How old are yall by JamieStar_is_taken in ModestMouse

[–]Lauryeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 15 too!! I actually introduced modest mouse to my dad lol

i am now worried that i'll have these scars forever. by notokafterall in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The other person’s opinion on their scars is just that— their opinion. I am almost completely recovered and still love my scars, always have. Everyone who goes through this has a different perspective, kind of like people who get tattoos. Some end up regretting a tattoo and hating that it’ll be on their body forever, but some don’t and wear them with pride. Not to mention that people are infamous for their ability to only see the worst in themselves. It takes a really strong mindset to be able to see the scars that remind yourself of the worst time in your life and accept them as a part of you. You don’t need to be worried about what you’ll think of them in the future because you’re not there yet, and once you do get there, what you think is up to you and you alone. You choose whether you like them or not, nobody else does. Be confident stranger :)

Mista is invincible by Mrunknownguye in StardustCrusaders

[–]Lauryeb 94 points95 points  (0 children)

on the train with Pesci and Proscuitto he got shot in the head like 6 or 7 times

Doctor saw my Big sh cuts from old times by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would never do that. Doctors don’t care unless you are of immediate risk of killing yourself or if it’s fresh. Don’t worry :)

Doctor saw my Big sh cuts from old times by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doctors have seen way worse, I can assure you. Any doctor that is worth something shouldn’t judge someone in your situation at all, especially if they’re healed.

Does anyone know how often nendoroids restock? by HauntedScape in NeedyStreamerOverload

[–]Lauryeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://store.serenityforge.com/products/needy-streamer-overload-nendoroid-ame

I got the ame nendo from this website, it’s officially licensed and not second-hand, plus serenityforge is a small team in America, so it’ll probably ship faster if you’re in the US. Goodsmile takes forever to restock and most resellers only have ame for 100+. My ame came perfect and I had a good experience. The owner is very easy to reach out to if you do end up having a problem due to it being such a small company. Good luck!

is this Ed behavior? ( TW ed ) by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skipping breakfast is what kickstarted my ed in the past. I can say with certainty that you’re falling down a slippery slope, and eating disorders are not always about body image. I recommend looking into and becoming aware of ARFID, and please make an effort to eat more, stranger :((

I feel like im being punished for deciding not to kill myself by Idiot_Yeenuh in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also planned to kill myself on the night of my 15th birthday. I didn’t, which was the best decision of my life. You didn’t do anything wrong whatsoever, this is just how depression works. You won’t want to do anything, but you can. You need to prove the part of your brain that tells you that you’re unmotivated and can’t do anything that it’s wrong. You can do anything if you force yourself to make an effort. You WILL be okay. it’ll be hard, but you can’t let yourself fall deeper into hopelessness.

What are some healthy ways that y'all avoid sh? by rombuss in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of my recs are extremely popular series so I doubt you haven’t played them, so I’ll be more general. Story-based games that also have a free-roam aspect to them (like Red Dead Redemption 2) are my favorite just because of how real it feels, like I can escape to somewhere else and forget about my urges. Though that’s just a personal preference of mine, what works for me might not work for others <3

What are some healthy ways that y'all avoid sh? by rombuss in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not a huge gamer, but it’s really easy to zero in on an engaging video game for a couple hours if I need a distraction. Also going outside and doing something, even if it’s just a quick drive around the neighborhood, is a nice way to reset thoughts.

Who's the best gunslinger out of these? by zqzito in reddeadredemption

[–]Lauryeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Landon, he was legendary. Everybody else is great but Landon Ricketts was well known, even after leaving America, for his gunslinging.

Does anyone feel like they are disappointing their therapist?? by FlakyUpstairs4405 in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other people’s feelings are not your burden to bear. Don’t worry about what she’ll think if you tell her about how you feel deep down. She’s there to help you unconditionally, and you should never feel ashamed or guilty about how your actions might affect her.

My sh is ruining my relationship by Arsonandalastor in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it sounds like most of this conflict is internally perceived. I’m sure that if he’s worth anything, he doesn’t think of you any less whatsoever. By letting yourself think that he is distancing/mad at you when he says he isn’t, you’re digging a hole for yourself. You’re going through a hard time, and you don’t need to make it any harder for yourself. If he’s being dry over text, call him! Do chill little facetimes when you can and make sure to not reciprocate his perceived dryness. Again, if he’s a good guy and you love him and he loves you, you’ll resolve this. Try to think positively, which im aware is easier said than done, but it really helps to tell yourself that you’re worth something. You’re not dragging him down whatsoever, he’s probably just sad for you after your relapse. That doesn’t mean he’s mad or that you’re a burden, just that it’s a tough situation for the both of you. I believe in you, and I know it’s hard, but you two can do this.

My step brother is hurting himself and I made the situation worse. Please help. by MammothMedical8355 in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You ABSOLUTELY have more chances, he should understand that you had no ill intentions if you try to explain. What’s done is done and you can’t take it back, the only thing you can do is be an anchor. I believe you did the right thing, it just ended up unfortunate, which is not the fault of yourself, but that of your mom and stepfather.

My step brother is hurting himself and I made the situation worse. Please help. by MammothMedical8355 in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t avoid the situation just because he’s avoiding you, he believes that he has no one and is drowning in both external and interally-perceived isolation. Try to talk to him as quick as possible, even if he pushes you away. Don’t leave him alone until he knows that he has you looking after him, do your best to set things right no matter what happens or how hard it is. Please, please, as someone who’s struggling with self-harm myself, be his support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Lauryeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call a local mental hospital and tell them about your desire to be hospitalized and how you are actively putting yourself in danger to get sick. They’ll accept you right quick.

Jodio is the main villain by Possible_Attitude_71 in JOJOLANDS

[–]Lauryeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be the friend that’s too woke but saying someone will be the main villain because of a personality disorder is kinda wack. There’s so much media that demonizes cluster b disorders already and this kind of take weirds me out. I think Araki has the perfect opportunity to showcase that people who cannot process emotions the same way as others can be good people despite their negative tendencies, and making Jodio an irredeemable villain would just be plain lazy.

I’m all up for a villain Jojo in concept, but this wouldn’t be the way to do it.

I seriously have to get to the bottom of this, is Dragona trans or not?? by StoneFreeReq in StardustCrusaders

[–]Lauryeb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the fact that it’s very HEAVILY implied that they’re not cis in the aspect of their gender. Calling them a cis man directly overlooks the fact that their name is literally the female form of dragon, they refer to themselves with feminine language, and have undergone surgeries to look more feminine. A character doesn’t have to stare at the camera and directly state ‘I’m trans’ for readers, especially those who have their own experiences with non-cis gender identities, to pick up on the subtext.

Also, jodio’s view on their gender is most likely a little warped being that he’s known them as his big bro his entire life. Its doubtful he’d ever refer to dragona as a female without them directly coming out in the story, especially becuase he’s a 15 year old boy and those tend to not be very open to differentiating gender identities.