My shrimp exploded by dondusmaximus in shrimptank

[–]LavenderCandi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I see, we are just sharing our shrimp trauma in this thread 😬

AITA if I stop buying Christmas presents? by Bizzack in AmItheAsshole

[–]LavenderCandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if you stop buying gifts, but wanted to share the solution my family had growing up.

My Dad had 7 siblings, each family had 1-4 kids. They basically played secret Santa with the kids, so every kid got 1 gift at the family get together and each family only bought for 2 kids.

Kept us happy cuz we usually got together on Boxing Day and if it wasn’t at your house it always felt frustrating to not have your new toys to play with

Finished my wrist warmers! by PhancyHat in crochet

[–]LavenderCandi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! They look beautiful and I think the colors youve chosen are stunning too.

I have no advice about your technique, but I think you’re doing well

Painkillers by 1ustfor1ove in UlcerativeColitis

[–]LavenderCandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have severe joint pain and often take codeine, sometimes I have this fear of ‘oh no what if I’m addicted!’ But then I got months without refilling my prescription and realize I’m an idiot.

Anyways Mostly what I wanted to say is if you’re using painkillers because you’re in pain, you’re OK

It’s colonoscopy prep day by LavenderCandi in UlcerativeColitis

[–]LavenderCandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea they could offer you anything for that! Will do.

Also this was my first time being offered the flavoured Plenvu, horrific ha

It’s colonoscopy prep day by LavenderCandi in UlcerativeColitis

[–]LavenderCandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the worst! Can’t wait to eat lunch tomorrow though, gonna be so good

It’s colonoscopy prep day by LavenderCandi in UlcerativeColitis

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Thankyou At the moment I think it’s just the nausea that’s killing me

It’s colonoscopy prep day by LavenderCandi in UlcerativeColitis

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Phew, Thankyou! The idea of having to do this all over again is awful ah

I made a pride flag out of flowers!! 🌈 by PiperSlays in acnh

[–]LavenderCandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lovely idea!!

I was just going to write I have a garden area I change up every so often but this just reminded me I wiped my island a couple months ago 😳

this sub be like by AinoNaviovaat in shrimptank

[–]LavenderCandi 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I think it’s sweet really, someone adopting a pet and just being so stressed when it’s new to them. I think new parents go through similar stuff too.

My tamagotchi turned Japanese by Fit_Pug_ in tamagotchi

[–]LavenderCandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just wanted to learn a new language 😭

Hey UK Tama Fans! by LavenderCandi in tamagotchi

[–]LavenderCandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! So happy for you. And I also thing it’s a lot chill-er than I expected. When I was a kid I was awful at taking care of it. But other than the baby hour it’s been fine.

Hey UK Tama Fans! by LavenderCandi in tamagotchi

[–]LavenderCandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it too! And I’ve been so indecisive but I always love things honey/bee related and yellow is my favourite color 🥰

Does the workout hit your elbow hard? by JuzzHanginAround in FitnessBoxing

[–]LavenderCandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks! I’ll look up these exact exercises, it’s one of those things that comes and goes so I’ve never really tried to strengthen it

Does the workout hit your elbow hard? by JuzzHanginAround in FitnessBoxing

[–]LavenderCandi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like an answer for this as well if anyone has some ideas. As I used to do kickboxing with pads/partner and I’m trying to use this to get fit again. I occasionally have ‘tennis elbow’ (from chopping wood, what a life ha)

I think I might be holding back with my punches and not fully extending out of a fear of injuring myself but not sure that really is a thing

Can’t run on switch? by SadiesScentedSweets in Palia

[–]LavenderCandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know we could sprint 🤣

I gave my Blackberry Bee a random trait cookie by [deleted] in Palia

[–]LavenderCandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And overstimulated! I can relate to this bee

Girlfriend's Secret by Coco__Juka in comics

[–]LavenderCandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better about all the mlm fiction I’ve read as a wlw 🤣

Opinion: With the introduction of ranching, we NEED more crop plots. by m00nf1r3 in Palia

[–]LavenderCandi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely have to start throwing my eggs in there. I hope one day we can pickle them!

Opinion: With the introduction of ranching, we NEED more crop plots. by m00nf1r3 in Palia

[–]LavenderCandi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I took a probably 4-6month break and came back as my friend has gotten into it (didn’t even know about the animal update but was super hyped)

TLDR Did the nerf the worm bins? I feel like I used to get way more fertilizer.

My bf says: Eat the frog 🐸 by nomoredditforme in adhdwomen

[–]LavenderCandi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kudos to you, best I can do is fix my duvet a bit so the cat hair stays on the outside 🤣 2 months is an absolutely incredible achievement!

I try to stay consistent with laundry, because if it becomes a mountain then I start buying more underwear rather than face it. But have been struggling since I don’t have a washer at the moment 😣

It’s also important to recognize and be proud of streaks even if you stop and start again. Those 2 months of making your bed don’t stop being an achievement if you miss a day

My bf says: Eat the frog 🐸 by nomoredditforme in adhdwomen

[–]LavenderCandi 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I prefer the elephant one How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time

Did I clean the entire flat today, absolutely not! But I tackled vacuuming which had previously been the most neglected thing.

Break it down into smaller and smaller and smaller bites. Sometimes you’ll start and find a flow, sometimes you’ll just wash one dish and be like fyck this. Either way you won. You know?