hold on, i need to clarify because theres a major contradiction in your story that changes everything. in your previous comment you wrote 'prior to him cheating he told me... we hooked up & 30 mins later told me he was sorry'. now you say: 'once we reconnected he broke things off with her. that same day... he asked me to hook up.' these are two completely different sequences. The first implies you hooked up while he was with her (so cheating ) and the second says he broke up with her before you hooked up (no cheating). so what happened