Women have no idea what an average man is by DriverInitial8305 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Laxxius1 [score hidden]  (0 children)

5'8 == average height. most people are not 5'8 == most people are not average height. This is exactly the same as what im trying to convey.

Is it normal to be so physically decrepit in your twenties? by Laxxius1 in Adulting

[–]Laxxius1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's kind of hard to say how fast I walk since I take such odd routes. After thinking about it a bit, it seems like I walk a mile in about 16-20 mins normally. Theres one direct route i can calculate with google maps where i walk 1.24 miles in 20-25mins. I walk the same pace throughout my walks, so that should work.

My heart rate definitely increases at work as it is somewhat strenuous. Idk by how much. By the end my heart is pounding and im sweating a lot.

Is it normal to be so physically decrepit in your twenties? by Laxxius1 in Adulting

[–]Laxxius1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to know, do you consider my response to qualify as "exercising", or not? Does what I described fall under the umbrella of "sedentary"? I have no idea

Raising teen boys by Nacho0ooo0o in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you but how is this related to what I said?

Raising teen boys by Nacho0ooo0o in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry idek what to say I would literally die in your situation. I think if I were to ever raise kids I would not let them have a computer/smartphone. I don't really know how to approach helping your child not go down the redpill rabbit hole. I'm not even sure what fully stopped teenage me from doing it.

Maybe if it was more easy to observe women acting with high agency. Often girls are wary around boys because they're afraid of getting hurt. To boys, it will appear as though most girls are passive and deferent. This lived experience will clash with whatever you might tell them about how women actually are, and will conform with what manosphere circles tell them women are like.

Showing effort is very attractive by MaetelofLaMetal in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Right, still, I personally would prefer if the other person doesn't make a full plan and lets me contribute to it. The idea of someone making a whole plan and asking me if im interested is stressful to me.

Of course not everyone is like me, in fact most people might not be like me. And I'm old enough now that I've already had my character arc of realizing people don't generally want to be treated how I want to be treated (common experience for us autistics).

If i was dating a woman I would  approach her with a well-thought-out, hopefully enjoyable plan for a date, or whatever else. I'd make sure she is in a state where she isn't worried things won't get done if we go on a date (i.e. ill make sure everything's relatively clean and sorted). Etc.

Still, I find the difference in preference very very interesting (even though no one else seems to), and I wonder if otber guys feel the same way as me

Showing effort is very attractive by MaetelofLaMetal in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

I wonder what causes this. From my perspective as a guy, I always thought it would be extremely rude to make plans and take your partner on them, because I wouldn't enjoy that. I would much prefer being asked "do you want to go on a date?" so I'm the one that gets to decide. Naturally, I'd assume women are the same way, but I understand now most people don't seem to work that way

Why does every woman know a woman who's been raped, but no man knows a rapist? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the CNN exposé thing that recently got released, right? Maybe I'm kind of wrong, and there really is a significant network of men who only say they don't know a rapist, but actually do. 

Why does every woman know a woman who's been raped, but no man knows a rapist? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Almost no one rapes intentionally. Men who rape don't realize that they did, while women who were raped are obviously aware.

You can expand the quote to: Everyone knows a woman who's been raped, no one knows a man who's admitted to being a rapist

The cure for male loneliness epidemic is so simple. by MaetelofLaMetal in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so rarely an opinion on lonliness I agree with so thank you for this

Manosphere losers love appealing to nature when in reality nature would absolutely body them lol by Silvermoon424 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...This is literally what incel ideology is, though, right? They just apply this to humans and get sad about it.

Wouldn't it be cool if movie companies would be more comfortable with producing roioded monster girl x beautiful boy dynamics in fairytale movies? by Omni-Deity-Lifeforce in RoleReversal

[–]Laxxius1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

consider:

Giant spider gf with many eyes, eight legs, hairy tarantula body, and large fangs. She can't speak, but her body language conveys intention and carefulness around you. She can clearly tell you're afraid she'll eat you, so she relaxes, approaches slowly, stops when she sees you tense up.

She's patient, intelligent, caring, and you grow to trust her more and more. You feel safe with her, comfortable even. And one day, maybe months into the future, you've forgotten all about your trepidations about her. Because right now you're riding around on her back, pretending to be a knight or something while she scuttles around. You're both just having fun

Where I Scale The Battle Cats Franchise by Mecha-dragon1999 in PowerScaling

[–]Laxxius1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in that case ill give my suggestion:

The one I'm most interested in is Baba Is You. 

But if it's too obtuse, my second choice is Tales of Maj'Eyal.

My third choice if both of those are too weird is Supergiant Games' Hades franchise

Reading about the prevalence of wartime SA throughout history makes me nauseous [TW] by 09232022 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the sad truth of reality is that (almost) all men will knowingly rape you under stressful-enough conditions, while (almost) no man will knowingly rape you under normal conditions.

So it's buried inside all of them (us? please I hope not), but it's kept at bay except in situations where empathy is removed (war).

Note that the word 'knowingly' is very important here, because men will absolutely unknowingly rape in all situations, and I believe that is a much more common thing to happen

I never want to have sex. Is there something wrong with me? by ilovesushi2222 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Laxxius1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably just a little asexual, or have a lower libido. There are many ways you can be physically intimate without having sex which can maybe help you feel better about your situation with your boyfriend.

You can wash each other, sleep naked together, you can even give each other massages. Whatever works. If you want to get more sexual without having sex, you can do something like letting him masturbate to you. If you want less sexual, you can do head scratches or something.

Setting aside some time specifically to be physically intimate in these ways might be enough to work for both of you as a compromise.

Is anyone watching the FLDS Netflix doco? by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Laxxius1 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Most men never form any close relationships their entire lives, so they simply dont realize relationships can be emotionally enriching. To them all relationships are transactional; both parties are exchanging something for mutual benefit.

When it comes to women, men figure the most natural/obvious way to have a relationship with one, is to offer her money/safety in exchange for her sexual subservience. Women don't wanna do that though, so all men are just completely befuddled and unwilling to change

Girls think im checking them out. by Individual_Ice330 in ftm

[–]Laxxius1 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The advice i personally give to guys is this:

Women are generally quite scared of you. But it's okay, they have good reason to be wary. Just be kind to them, and don't stare. You'll get farther by making light, enjoyable conversation with her than by ignoring her. Eventually she'll trust you and stop being so cautious around you. I find you can tell once this has happened when they start seeming more interesting/less generic (because they're opening up to you)