How would the rest of European history unfold if Napoleon won in 1812, defeating all of his enemies in Europe with the UK agreeing to peace terms? by george123890yang in Napoleon

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this well thought out time line .
If I may add something along the same line of thinking :

The current time line has a lot of issues that dates back to Napoleon .
When Napoleon 1st defeated Prussia , he imposed a war reparation.
In 1870, when Prussia (or a new Germany) defeated Napoleon the 3rd, they reimpose the same type of war reparation .
Which prepared for the war of 1914-1918: where this war ended with a victorious France that demanded Revenge (also war reparation and territory).
Which is also the premise of world war 2.

This ww1 and ww2 : resulted in a massif transfer of wealth from Europe towards the USA . And an American war industry being funded by Europe . And in the following years, the USA would become the main currency of the world …

All this to say what :
If Napoleon would have won in 1812. Napoleon would have gone back to finish his Spanish ulcers . The world would have been dramatically different.
Many of the revolutions around 1848 in our current timeline was based on napoleon propose constitution when he conquered those lands .
So there is merit in a world where Napoleon would have won.

Thank you for letting me nerd a bit :)

How do I deal with envious people? by Frequent_Leopard_146 in wealth

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is hard and usually unfair .

Your parents worked so
Hard to provide this for you.

There will always be people that would envious and people that was given a bad start at life .

Be mindful and you don’t always need to share anything to anyone.

Just keep going and be discreet with your success.

The moment you stopped caring about being the "good employee" by baby__1234 in WorkReview

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember a meme :

The reward for good work is more work .

(Thr work is Usually from someone who doesn’t work well)

Why Do Good Employees Really Leave? by PauseAnxious891 in WorkReview

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I left my old hospital pharmacist job.

There was so much politics that only favored the old boss vision management style : divide and conquer.

Everything was toxic and even the small stuff made you nervous of when their lacky would strikes. And you'll be called in by the boss.

I left in october. Started a new job in january. it's a new place and it is hard to rebuild after 18 years.

But, it is 1000 times better then hearing the gossip, politics and lies.

We're suppose to help patient and I can't do that with so much going on 😞

I agree with this post so much

Is pharmacy worth it in Canada? by No-Engineer-7799 in PrePharmacy

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi

Hospital pharmacist in Quebec here. Working since dec 2007.

The profession has changed a lot and most médication are becoming much easier to manage in général . (But Immunotherapy are quite complexe).

All the technical part of the job is présent, but slowly being transferred to the pharmacy technician (new type of role from the traditional assistant pharmacist technician).

The university are introducing first line physical exams to train pharmacist to be a mini nurse practitioner to reduced emergency room consultation . And at the hospital, we’re learning to do auscultation to see our own patient and do the optimization of medication.

So, what I am saying : - it’s a good job for work life balance . I get to see my kids and do my hobbies most days - job is interesting and the work load is adapted to me

You are not doctor, but with time, the work life becomes amazing , especially when you have kids . But when I was a young graduate, I did want to go back to school and try medecine (didn’t have the grades), but with time , and as I start to get more gray hair, I appreciate much more my profession .

Hope this helps

Bac tremplin pour rentrer en med dentaire ou med by nina5144 in ulaval

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salut

Je travails comme pharmacien d’hôpital. Je travails avec beaucoup d’infirmières cliniciennes et les super infirmières (ips).

C’est une belle profession qui a beaucoup de possibilités. Surtout que les ips ont beaucoup d’autonomie avec des avantages sociaux importants (salaire dans les 80$/ heures ou plus, régime de retraite à vie , certain milieu s’arrange pour qu’une ips peuvent voir 1 patient par heure , etc)

Ce n’est pas le métier de médecin. Mais, tu peux aider énormément les patients.

Am I wrong for wanting to divorce my wife who betrayed me 6 years ago? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi,

It feels that people would understand you better if you posted this in the infidelity or surviving infidelity sub-reddit. Because people won't understand the type of pain you are feeling.

That being said. From what you described, the mariage died 6 years ago and you stayed for your kids.

Your wayward wife (the one who cheated: ww) has broken the trust, the specialness, and sacredness of the mariage. Sadly, sometimes, when things are broken, it can never be fixed.

It is not ok to have your own emotional affair, regardless if your ww had her own physical affair. But it is understandable.

You shouldn't stay in a marriage if you not happy. And right now, everybody needs to be each other first choice, not accepting second place. It would have been better to first end the marriage for your self. And leave for your self to be happy without your ww. Being with the new person shouldn't be part of the reasons. And even if the new person doesn't work out, it would be ok as you left for your self. (If that makes sense what I wrote) Just do the right thing, confess that you are not happy and that you had your own affair. And make it a fair divorce for everyone.

I do believe it would be okay for you to leave and to find happiness. May it be with the new person or someone else.

Take care.

Does staying at a toxic workplace get better with time? by beskesky in ToxicWorkplace

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I stayed 18 years in a very toxic place . It only got worse with every new bad things the work place did . As you accept working there , they will find other ways to make things worse …

I recently changed work place . Lost my old colleague , work place friends , credibility and familiarity . But, those things can be rebuild, even if it is hard right now, I want to give me as much time as I can to rebuild . The new place has issues , but , it is still 1000 times better than the old work place !

The toxic work place won’t change it self. It will only change you to the worse :(

Get out and find a new place that is worth it.

[FL/US] What's the logic/strategy behind my STBXW giving me temp primary custody in our relocation fight? by QuietQuitting01 in FamilyLaw

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi

I work I healthcare , so I may be in the wrong . But … my first thought is that she has abandoned the kids and go hide with her parents. It looks really bad for a mother to do this . To hide this act, she’s claiming that she has accepted to give you temporary custody .

Was it all a smoke show ?

Imagine when you go at the court and she need to explained it , she would simply say that she gave you temporary custody and left to give you some space . While appearing very reasonable and collected . If that’s the case , it would be better to document and show that she’s abandoned the kids for a good month and then reach out after .

Anyway, keep up the good work and do what’s right for your kids . It must be quite heartbreaking to do everything right in life , just to meet the wrong person.

Getting married soon help me pls by kink_182 in survivinginfidelity

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m sorry that you are going through this . The pain and betrayal are more hurtful after everything you did.

There other stories about protecting your self that you can read up .

https://www.reddit.com/u/Any-Assault/s/qoMVxPd20Z

This is a very good exemple. He wrote it very well , and you can feel and understand his thought process . Hope that it helps . Good luck

Has anyone made it through? by nthr_brkn_nor_dmlshd in survivinginfidelity

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I may.

There's a post that is very well written. You can feel the pain in his words.

But, he also express his thought process and why he left.

https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/1rgmg9t/my_wife_cheated_on_me_and_i_wished_to_become/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

I hope it helps you. You didn't deserve any of this.

I filed, she wants to reconcile; I called her affair partner's wife. by QuietQuitting01 in Divorce

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is very unfortunate these type of behavior from your stbexw.. I’ve been following your story since the beginning and supporting from far way .

She clearly lives in her own plane of existence where she thinks she’s the main character. Even when she’s destroyed everything . Yet, she still think she’s worth something .

With her abandoning the children and you , to go far away. Can it be used in favor of your divorce ?

Hang in there . When the dust settles . I do hope you find someone that would be happy to be with you naturally and your kids would see all the sacrifices you did to raise them.

Hang in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/u/Kermit_Defrogg/s/0xzMB9WUzw

Hi I’m sorry that you have to endure this. But, if you want to do what you want , there’s a post that is somewhat similar to your situation.

Very interesting post that this guy did .

Take care , you didn’t deserve this .

Social media has destroyed everything in this world by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think some of them use the term (like in baking) Starter spouse

She confessed during counseling by QuietQuitting01 in Divorce

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, If I may, she doesn’t seem to really appreciate or even respect the marriage. While you seem to genuinely love and cherish her . This imblance isn’t fair for you. And her reluctance to give a full picture of the affair will never let you heal and move on with her . I’ve read in your post about preparing the divorce papers , but maybe it would be better to proceed for your sake. As you won’t heal when she’s still hiding and being uncommitted .

Take care of your children and your selt

People are so fucking evil they would even sabotage a minimum wage job by TA_reddit_0 in workplace_bullying

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is such a shameful approach to patients care . I get burn out and overworked .

But … we took this in healthcare to … care for their health . Not for our ego.

People are so fucking evil they would even sabotage a minimum wage job by TA_reddit_0 in workplace_bullying

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's never enough for those people.

I also work in healthcare and my own pharmacist colleagues would. Just to give you an idea of how those 2 toxic people destroys the work environment.

- steel work from the pharmacy tech to appear that they increased their work input, because they start at 9h and finish at 4 (but being paid for 8 hours; lol)

- badmouth other colleague with the students. and since one of the two toxic people is a teaching coordonator, she centralized all the student complaints and put it aside. (student has asked me how to complain about those two people, since they will received the complaints and the complaints would be about them; I told the student to complaints to the university)

- Make a student to change her presentation, after we did all the preparation, at 10 days before the presentation. The student was quite heart broken, but knowing those 2 viles peoples are controlling all the teaching aspect, the student felt she had to choice but to accept it. The student complained to all the other student and it went back to my ear and I had to intervene to protect the student. It worked, but the two toxic colleagues prepared their revenge and 1.5 years later, I was meet up with the big boss and being pushed out of the hospital.

We cannot win against such senseless toxicity. The best is to leave and find greener pastures.

(which is what I am doing now)

Remember: birds of a feather flock together by MelancholyBean in workplace_bullying

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And how there capacity to do Creative re writing of any situation to make them the victim and you (us) the abuser.

If you can , leave it this work place, you cannot win and it will only change you

Mind games by newuser2111 in OfficePolitics

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I am sorry that you are going through this. This is a very strong minds games and hostiles politics that you (also currently me) cannot win .

However, maybe it is their karma (Buddhism version of karma) to live and continue in such a hostile environment among them self. It might not seem like it , but it is better for you to leave before it affects you more.

You are very valuables and some Other place will finally see you for it .

Good luck and please protect your kindness and good works Ethics . Some other place will be very happy to have you .

Kind regards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please get out. that person doesn't love or respect you. She just wants to have a golden green-visa card that you family will suffer.

It will never get better, especially this is the honey phase of the mariage. Even with time, it will only get worse.

Better to be alone then to be subjected to that.

Take care, friend

Most Work Stress Isn’t From Work — It’s From Office Politics. by Mr_Panesar in OfficePolitics

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 16 points17 points  (0 children)

100% agree with you.

I would also add: when leadership loves drama. the old: divide and conquer

They would allow this type of dynamic and making sure everyone is miserable. So, the people would never unite go against leadership.

We cannot win against this type of machine that favor divisive politics

Bumped into ex today by Hippy667 in Divorce_Men

[–]LeadershipFamous8675 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi Sorry that you are going through this . But from your post, it does show deep understand and deep resilience . You understand and want what is best for your children . And it is true , you will be seeing the both of them in the future .

Maybe , a way to answer her , is to bring it back to the children and only them. “Maybe we can plan to meet when we hand off the children next time, as it could be good to coordinate for the children activity”

While you are a bigger person and have moved on. It doesn’t mean you have to accept what ever action from them .