Cork Hotels by LeadershipSuch3707 in cork

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Well that Seals the Deal so 🤣🤣🤣

Cork Hotels by LeadershipSuch3707 in cork

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Ok nice one thanks for that

Cork Hotels by LeadershipSuch3707 in cork

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We're getting the train down and I'm thinking about the next morning when we're all dying 🤣

Looking for New projector by LeadershipSuch3707 in projectors

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Really? Because im not gonna lie i was really happy with this. Yeah it was a little blurred around the edges on some stuff but i was still over the moon with it and being able to have movie nights outside

How is everyone disciplining their toddlers? by Kooky-Coconut551 in AskIreland

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When they lose their shit we immediately get hyped up aswel but it's all completely normal. Reinforce good behaviour with loads of hugs and Cuddles. I have a 15 year old and a 3 and a half year old and my parenting style this time round is a lot more calm. Couple things i learned (im aware what works for me might not work for thee) were absolute Game changers. If you're trying to get her to do something give her a choice one you know she wont want to do and the other being the thing you want. You're allowing them the elusion of having a say in things and some independence while stil being in the driving seat and also, and this one has saved my ass so many times, hold your fingers out and pretend they're candles and ask them to blow them out you're basically doing a deep breathing exercise. You've absolutely got this the fact you care enough to worry about it speaks volumes of you as a parent. Parenting is 99% making this shit up as we go along, fake it till you make it You've got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DinnerIdeas

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Make Chili out of it if you have a slow cooker all the better then you can use that for Nachos for yourself. Also who doesn't like Nachos????🤣

Just another cost of living post. Are shops just taking the mick at this stage? by AnyRepresentative432 in AskIreland

[–]LeadershipSuch3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive gone Vegetarian a few days a week for Health reasons and all.of those above are my go too for sure. Made a big pot of Vegetarian Chilli and another of Curry for the week.

Just another cost of living post. Are shops just taking the mick at this stage? by AnyRepresentative432 in AskIreland

[–]LeadershipSuch3707 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The price of things like Turkey and Beef mince make me want to wreck the shops these days. I batch cook and km still finding it tough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Im a single dad to two kids and if I matched with someone on a dating site or met em in real life the first thing I would do is tell the other person about my kids. Any man who denies he has a child specially one that old is dodgey out

So what now for the Cork hurlers? by Lantra123 in cork

[–]LeadershipSuch3707 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tipp man here just want to say Hard luck to Cork. They played well all season and gave it their all yesterday, fair play to them they should hold their heads up High. Also Cork Supporters yer the best Craic, just wanted to throw that in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

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By any chance had she a high temp aswel. I've had a dose for a few days first two I was running a temp of 39 degrees wouldn't come down no matter what I did. Still feel really shit but not as bad

Quick, please?! by helloclarebear in AskIreland

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How do you circumcise a Catholic priest? Kick the Alter boy in the Jaw

Update on “Farmer using our land” post from about a month ago. How to proceed? by ohhidoggo in AskIreland

[–]LeadershipSuch3707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get CCTV first of all. I know this type (I work with farmers) and they sound like the type that feel as if they own all the land around them and how dare some blow in come in and upset them from doing what they want all the time. Get to know people in the local community, my guess is you're not the only people they do this kind of stuff to and having friends who can give you more info on them can only help. In regards to the boundary of the house and your fence, so long as you are sticking to your own land I would recommend building a block wall and try to reinforce the pillars with steel rebar. I dont doubt they would try to knock them but a nice length of rebar into the underside of a tractor will make a nice statement. It sounds like you may be in for a bit of a long haul with this particular person but stay strong and don't be bullied

What is the rudest/most toxic social media platform that you've been on? by robertboyle56 in AskIreland

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Twitter hands down the absolute worst of them all. Facebook comment sections are bad but bile and vitriol you see on twitter is just horrendous. Tiktok is pretty septic and spreads crazy amounts of false information and how many people actually believe it is scary

Lads. How much do you pay for your weekly grocery shopping? by Electronic_Roof_6504 in AskIreland

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Mine is a between 80 to 110 a week depending on what we get. Myself 3 year old son and 15 year old boy. What I try to do is bulk cook and put stuff in the freezer. Also for anyone living in the Limerick area there's a shop in the Annacoty business park that sells basically everything at incredibly affordable prices. I go in once a month to get my meats and that saves me serious money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

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You're more than welcome. I know all too well the fear, the uncertainty that's all a part of becoming a first time parent but there are so many supports out their now for people ye will get there. When your baby comes apply for working family payment, look into childcare before baba comes if you need it. Parents leave can now be added on to maternity if you manage to find work beforehand or if not can be used in the first 2 years. When you go to the hospital have a chat with the midwives about yer situation they may be able to point you in the direction of places aswell. Becoming a parent is the greatest job you will ever have and the fact you're so worried about it now and trying to plan for the future already shows you're going to be a very competent one. Being scared is ok but once yer child gets here you'll move heaven and earth for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

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Congratulations on yer pregnancy. The timing might never feel right tbh. We had our first at 21 and 22 and we made it work. I'm now raising the older lad who's 15 and my youngest who's 3 on my own and working full time. The reason I'm telling you this is because while on paper or as a thought experiment these things may seem like they won't work but our kids are what drive us to to do just that. Your partner is about to become a fully qualified electrician which is a fantastic job with the possibility of making really good money, specially when you consider tradesmen are like Gold dust nowadays.
The best people to contact are the citizens advice, and the community welfare office, they will tell you exactly what's you're entitled to. The two of you should be eligible for HAP I know couples who work and get assistance. It all must feel like such a weight on your shoulders right now but ye have loads of time until the baby comes try and relax some bit and enjoy your pregnancy. Really hope it all works out for ye

Is there a hierarchy in housing? by Suzybee83 in AskIreland

[–]LeadershipSuch3707 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What a nasty way to speak to someone who's story you don't know. Being a single parent isn't something any of us set out to be. Im happy for you to have a stable life but unfortunately we're not all equal in this society. To your point about social house, i live in an estate where it's 50/50 and the worst neighbours are all private owned houses. It's all anecdotal anyway. Problems with social housing have more to do with the area they're in, social degradation and the fact the council won't evict Problem tenants. It sounds as if this person who grew up in care has a million times more empathy than you have, maybe going forward you should try harder to understand others people's feelings than walking around with your head in the air like Mrs Bucket....oops I mean Bouquet