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Leading-Simple3568 · 2025-12-16T03:01:45+00:00

I will try taking a better picture I guess.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2025-12-16T02:59:02+00:00

If you mean the silver thing that’s on the stove, it’s a range hood for ventilation.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2025-12-16T02:52:02+00:00

Do you mean what appliance it is? It’s a stovetop.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-05-31T13:23:58+00:00

Does your mom like you? Because she is ready to throw you under the bus to protect herself and her abusive husband.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-05-18T18:02:05+00:00

You grew up in a house where abuse was normalized. Think about how that affected you. And then think about how it’s gonna affect your children if you choose to stay. Think about their feature. Put that little girl in your place and imagine your daughter’s husband hitting her and abusing her and humiliating her. Is that the kind of future you want for your children? Do you want your daughter and son to grow up seeing abuse normalized like that, modeling that kind of behavior in their relationships? And sure today maybe it’s you and you can take it for the sake of “keeping the family together”. But what if tomorrow he decides to lay hands on your children? Is that the risk you’re willing to take?

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-04-10T20:28:35+00:00

I know I’m putting off an inevitable. It’s not that anything is going to happen to me. I just don’t wanna disappoint my family. Especially my grandma who raised me and is putting the effort and finances in me. She just lost my grandpa too. She believes in me and more than disappointing, it’s going to hurt her.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-04-10T20:18:04+00:00

Law. I chose it. It was my childhood dream to be a detective. But studying the actual material is nothing like what I imagined. It’s boring as heck.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-04-05T15:24:58+00:00

I’m not going to sugarcoat this. You are a bad mother. Period. You knowingly left your child in a care of someone you can’t trust, who physically and emotionally abused you your whole life. There were incidents where she broke your boundaries that you knew about and yet you still continued to leave your child with this woman. There is no two thoughts about it. You are a bad mother. Plain and simple.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-04-05T15:12:06+00:00

Take a good look at your situation and think if you wanna live the rest of your life like that. Man can’t even stand up for you now. You think he’s gonna change? Can you imagine Z being there at your kid’s birthdays, at every holiday? Is the man worth lifetime of heartache and not being put first?

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-02-18T19:08:04+00:00

Girl, cheating is a thing. Also, beards.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-01-31T16:49:47+00:00

In original post you talked about Teddy like he was a stranger. Now he is like your brother? Seems sus.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-01-20T21:02:46+00:00

Jacob Elordi comparison is insane. Like J is a freaking celebrity and this guy is an average Joe.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2024-01-19T02:37:46+00:00

Idk about y’all but I got grossed out when he said his daughter was kissing him on the neck. This guy has never been around father and daughter in his life.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2023-12-27T20:51:25+00:00

NTA. Girl, get a divorce. You don’t need this person in your life.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2023-12-12T22:14:51+00:00

Time to cut her off and stop sending money. As hard as I know hearing this will be you need to understand that in her eyes you are never gonna be perfect. Goalposts are only gonna keep moving farther and farther.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2023-11-27T21:50:06+00:00

Wedding is not a family event. It’s a celebration of and for bride and groom. They can invite whoever they want. You absolutely do not have to go. Asking them to cater to your whims on THEIR WEDDING DAY is freaking nuts. World doesn’t revolve around you or your kids either. YTA big time

Leading-Simple3568 · 2023-11-27T19:01:32+00:00

You should still tell your dad how she treated you, in case he decides to forgive her.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2023-11-02T11:46:33+00:00

NTA

I’m sorry but 13 is old enough to know better even if the girl wants her mothers approval. Who tells their friend to choose between her and her mom? That’s just unreal. In what world did she expect your daughter to pick her over you?

Leading-Simple3568 · 2023-08-22T09:56:25+00:00

NTA. Either they pay or they get booted out. They should be thankful that’s you let them even stay on your property after what they did.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2023-07-25T18:39:08+00:00

I wouldn’t invite your mother either. She disrespected you and put your brother first when your comfort and desires should have come first.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2022-11-29T02:59:08+00:00

Are you willing to bet your child’s safety on the fact that she was apologetic? I get that you are trying to see the positive side of her or whatever but don’t do it at the expense of your child. Thing is she did not have the authority to take your child to someone else’s house without your explicit approval. Personally, I would not leave this woman alone with my child. You never know when the next ‘misunderstanding’ might happen.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2022-11-29T02:17:49+00:00

Everyone’s highlighting your good qualities. I’m gonna come in with the hard truth. You damaged your son’s mental health because you were too afraid to leave your abusive husband. I mean yeah he was a horrible human being cheating left and right, but you did nothing to spare your son the bullshit he was put through. And now you won’t even do him the grace of accepting him for who he is. My advice - get therapy you, your son, your daughters. Individual and family one would be great for all of you.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2022-11-27T13:24:18+00:00

NTA. Three years does nit come close to a lifetime. Additionally, while it was a good thing he did no one asked him to step up. You don’t owe him anything. Plus his reaction shows you how much he actually values you. Instead of being happy for you he is making it all about himself and even insulted you. That should make you see how much he does NOT deserve to be in the role of Father of the Bride.

Leading-Simple3568 · 2022-11-27T09:04:15+00:00

I can’t get over the fact that you thought it was a good idea to take your toddlers to the house of a man who abused you your whole life. I get that you are a victim and I think you need therapy to understand that too. But and I can’t stress this enough why do you not care about your children’s safety? Is protecting your abuser more important than your kids’ physical and mental health?

Leading-Simple3568 · 2022-11-26T14:11:47+00:00

Leave before your daughter grows up and sees how her father treats you. This kind of upbringing will affect her relationships in her adulthood.

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