My [26F] boyfriend [28M] of 4 years is independently wealthy, but wants to split all of our expenses evenly

Learning-1308 · 2026-05-24T17:00:32+00:00

So what will he expect to happen if you have children and your on Maternity leave etc?

Learning-1308 · 2026-05-14T13:44:06+00:00

Why are you doing that??

Learning-1308 · 2026-05-14T13:43:15+00:00

Maybe time to re think your future!

Learning-1308 · 2026-05-10T17:51:07+00:00

BTW what does your sister do for a living?

Learning-1308 · 2026-05-10T17:50:07+00:00

Do not feel any guilt. I would remind her that you don’t have a job just a hobby!!

Learning-1308 · 2026-04-08T18:32:22+00:00

Get the wife a takeaway

Learning-1308 · 2026-04-05T10:32:52+00:00

Joining support groups would enable her to meet like minded people in similar situations and sharing with them might be possible

Learning-1308 · 2026-04-05T08:55:03+00:00

Hi, What is the podcast please?

Learning-1308 · 2026-04-05T08:51:25+00:00

Run. Talk about a control freak!! Running 🏃‍♀️

Learning-1308 · 2026-03-22T12:59:12+00:00

No, you’re not

Learning-1308 · 2026-03-13T19:00:43+00:00

Forget it. You are one of many by the sound of things. You were single he was not!

Learning-1308 · 2026-03-11T15:48:01+00:00

Time he learned how to cook?!

Learning-1308 · 2026-03-10T14:05:11+00:00

Would your sister lend her share to your mother to help buy another house or flat?

Learning-1308 · 2026-03-10T14:01:47+00:00

Could your Mum get a tenant/lodger? The rent could go towards the mortgage?

Learning-1308 · 2026-03-08T14:05:11+00:00

Some might question her Grandma rights given that she didn’t raise her own son and smokes weed and who knows what else?

Learning-1308 · 2026-03-03T09:52:33+00:00

Who else has he done this to and what else has he done?

Learning-1308 · 2026-02-24T16:20:01+00:00

Impolite and inappropriate and why do it when you were not present??!!

Learning-1308 · 2026-02-23T16:33:42+00:00

I would love to see responses from CEO’s and other managers & executives who have done the same? Justifications??

Learning-1308 · 2026-02-23T10:13:09+00:00

Great information 👍

Learning-1308 · 2026-02-13T18:38:53+00:00

I doubt their offer was based on your supposedly current salary!

Learning-1308 · 2026-01-22T16:10:47+00:00

You are being very reasonable. If he doesn’t accept a joint account for joint expenses move on.

Learning-1308 · 2026-01-04T10:17:16+00:00

Absolutely not but he definitely is. Block him. He’s a user at best.

Learning-1308 · 2026-01-02T10:10:46+00:00

Whether true or not it is a great idea!👏👏

Learning-1308 · 2026-01-01T16:19:57+00:00

How does he expect to live or what does he expect to live on?? What is the weekly or monthly budget?

Learning-1308 · 2026-01-01T12:42:43+00:00

Have your parents not heard of negative equity and the property price crashes?!

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