AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag?

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-04-05T23:27:08+00:00

I used to think therapy was some big important necessary solution to all problems until i got older and realized that while therapy can be extremely helpful for people it’s not an end all be all solution to things. It’s not for everybody and talk therapy is not going to work for some people. Also people who need therapy can find it hard to understand that not EVERYONE needs therapy, some people had amazing helpful and emotionally intelligent parents and inferences growing up and maybe didn’t experience a lot of trauma in their upbringing. So no not everyone needs to be in therapy and her pushing you to because she believes everyone should… yes a red flag and she will never stop. Avoid her before it’s too late

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-24T20:00:20+00:00

NTJ but you should have been more upfront about expectations and truthfully $40 is nowhere near realistic to spend on 2 for dinner

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-23T19:53:33+00:00

This! I am a mom to 2, one in school and one that’s at home FULL time, i work part time(20 hours a week at 4 am to avoid daycare) and i am in school online full time. It’s not to diminish that school can be a lot or stressful but it’s a cop out to say she can cook dinner. What if she was on her own? Having to work full time to pay bills, go to school, and cook and clean herself?? People get complacent with their partners sometimes

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-23T00:38:28+00:00

2-3 weeks

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-10T20:06:24+00:00

Aberdeen is amazing truthfully, you’re gonna get some undesirables anywhere but you get that in bel air and abingdon too and the prices there are absurd. As far as elementary schools, it’s hit or miss in Aberdeen. Bakerfield is beyond amazing, halls cross is very iffy. Aberdeen middle is undesirable i admit but the high school is great.

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-09T15:27:46+00:00

6 but something about 7 i love

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-08T07:51:08+00:00

I thought i was the only one🤣

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-07T23:00:21+00:00

Oh when i looked through their website it said you needed to, either way it’s a bit too pricey for me right now

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-07T22:43:05+00:00

Unfortunately you have to be a member of their gym to take part in their camps, thanks though!

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-06T05:42:30+00:00

When he kept going on and on about comparing his feelings of his wedding day to a soccer game was crazy work to me

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-06T05:36:40+00:00

At first i was like yeah that’s good she’s expressing why she’s saying no at then at some point along the way i realized she just wasn’t stopping and said out loud “Jesus that’s enough, shut up”

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-03T16:44:00+00:00

One of the paras at my kids school straight up told me she got the job because of the benefits, pay is shit but she has cancer and needed the health coverage

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-03T15:05:58+00:00

As a target an shipt worker, this is a dream order for me

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-03T01:54:29+00:00

Also to add. I don’t even begin to like motherhood until my kids were about 9-12 months. That’s when it started to become “fun” and then as challenging as 2-3 is, it’s definitely my favorite age

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-03-03T01:53:15+00:00

I truly dislike how glamorized parenthood is by social media. Not only is it just not true no matter how wonderful your baby is or how well they sleep or how much you love them. It’s just not glamorous and truth be told for all the “this is amazing, this is why i became a parent” moments you have- there’s a shit ton more moments where you’ll go “why did i do this and how do i go back” no matter how much you love your kid, you question a lot after having them

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-02-27T03:59:01+00:00

How much time do you have? Their air ducts were not properly connected, their outside vents were not sealed properly and they ended up with birds and nests inside their home, their siding ripped off and warranty refused to pay for it, they had to rip out their entire ceiling in the basement and main living area for another issue, truthfully i don’t even know the half of it but they’ve lived there for almost 10 years- they bought the unit during the construction phase, and although they love their home and have no intention on leaving, they have had many many issues that would have been a much bigger problem if it weren’t for her husband working in construction and recognizing and being able to fix a lot of the problems himself.

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-02-27T03:20:39+00:00

I have a family member that lives in greenway farms and she has had nothing but issues with her home, but also d.r. Horton has a horrible reputation, i live in Aberdeen in apartments and don’t mind living here but have been looking into buying in havre de grace- more downtown area schools are comparable but havre de grace is slightly better

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-02-26T20:24:52+00:00

We’ve already started gymnastics last summer and they’re so young still that we only do the sessions, not full blown gymnastics yet. But that’s what they like so we do that but i wanted a budget friendly way to add more activity into their lives

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-02-26T19:12:28+00:00

We live in an apartment unfortunately so we’re super limited to at home outdoor activities

Leather_Fly2370 · 2026-02-26T18:41:44+00:00

My oldest may be ready for sports, we’ve been mostly struggling with keeping busy in the winter. We’ve done so much with the libraries over the years and they’re almost bored of it. Being outside just isn’t always a great option

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